Moaning/screaming

[cg_allstar]

I had gotten used to having quiet sex (due to living in the dorms). I had even started to assume that I was just a quiet person. Then I finished college, got my own apartment, and learned how very wrong I was.

If the situation requires it, I can still be quiet. But it is so much more intimate when I don't have to restrain myself. I have found that guys like to know they are doing good. But don't fake it for them. Not only will they know, but hell, if they can't make you scream, don't make them think they can. Otherwise, how will the learn!?

And it works both ways. Its incredibly hot when your guy starts moaning all loud and he doesn't even realize it. You really know that you're appreciated!

Everyone likes applause.

 

[niteloser]

I like it personally when guys moan too. In return it lets me know Im doing something right lol. Driving me nuts right now cuz he's really quiet sigh..



!!!!! In the VMs or really screaming?!?! *hunts for hidden cam* I want a copy!

in the VMs. but I know if I want to hear real screaming Id walk by DarkCreators door

 

[Matthew82]

There's nothing sexier than a woman that tells you what to do and exactly when to do it. Heavy breathing and panting that turns to screams and dirty talk with rising intensity is pure bliss. Grabbing hair isnt just for you ladies you know...let loose and have fun.

 

[77Cobra]

I can remember three women that I have been with that were vocal and every one was fantastic in bed.One told me in very graphic and nasty ways what she wanted me to do to her,such as fuck my ass,cum in my mouth etc.,you know nasty stuff like that.The others ,would scream and yell fuck me,fuck me hard,and say shit like use that big cock on me etc.,I love it when a woman is verbal and nasty and shows me her approval that way,I also like to make a lot of noise too.

 

[Luv2PleasureF]

Saying "tits" with thumbs up, babe!
Psst..you're stealing my saying, LOL!

I know I have to grab the pillow when I'm unable to vocalize because you make me squirm out of my mind. I wish the kids would go to sleep when they're supposed to.

The thought occurs, I wonder if we could slip ear plugs, or something on 'em when they're asleep?

Of course, with us, that AND soundproofing probably wouldn't be enough! LOL
Psst... if the saying's tits, use it, right?

 

[intrigued]

I couldn't be quiet during sex if I were paid a million dollars. I do it all and I just can't stop. It can be a problem though, because it makes my guy so hot that things end a little sooner, but there's always another time.
My guy talks, but does't make other sex noises. When orgasaming, he just clutches at his head and grits his teeth. It's kinda scary to watch, sometimes I wonder if he's OK, lol.

 

[OneSublimeGuy]

The thought occurs, I wonder if we could slip ear plugs, or something on 'em when they're asleep?

Of course, with us, that AND soundproofing probably wouldn't be enough! LOL
Psst... if the saying's tits, use it, right?

Maybe use the Jacuzzi and do it underwater? Then instead of shouts of Oh Yeah Baby! we would just hear "glub glub" http://instagiber.net/smiliesdotcom/contrib/Vicks/blabla.gif

 

[spyro1123]

I completely agree, and do the same thing, I can't help it, it would be nearly impossible for me to have "quiet" sex.
I definately don't fake it, I try to just do what comes naturally so it's not over excessive......when I get really turned on and aroused, I say all kinds of dirty things and want to HEAR IT TOO.
In my opinion, men aren't vocal enough, if a man grunts and groans and talks dirty THE ENTIRE TIME, not just whilst he's shooting his load, then I keep him around for a while, hehe.
Sometimes the right talk or moan/groan can send me over the edge...

GOod topic. And one I'm also passionate about.
Aly

Damn another strike against me, i feel like a compleat idiot trying to be vocal. Unfortunatly then it sounds fake. I could also just be trying too hard. The other problem is nearly every time i try to say something the woman misunderstands me and thinks i want to stop, damn frustrating.

Actually ii think she might have had a hearing problem because she heared "ouch i dont bend that way" as "HARDER!" :consused: Or she could have been a real bitch.

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

I like to vocalize when I'm having sex. Moans, pants, screams. Sometimes it's involuntary sometimes I just do it to express my pleasure. I'm curious about how other women vocalize. My lovers seem to enjoy it.

I love it when my lover gets loud, and she encourages me to do the same. i love to moan and let her know how good i feel inside her.

 

[miss_kate]

Too Loud

I actually cannot help being loud. I get so swept up in the sensation that I just have to let myself go or ill explode.

Recently, my partner and I had sex in the garden at night. It was fantastic in the cool air! I was so loud that my boyfriend had to cover my mouthor I would have woken the neighbours.

Its hard to restrain yourself when you feel so fuckn gud! But at the same time you have to be concious of not offending other people.

Lovers in the past have been quiet- and its hard to know how they feel or whether you are doing something right! Noise is good because it is a guide.

My partner at the moment moans and gets louder as he cums- THAT IS HOT

 

[OneSublimeGuy]

Recently, my partner and I had sex in the garden at night. It was fantastic in the cool air! I was so loud that my boyfriend had to cover my mouthor I would have woken the neighbours.

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The other thing funky besides moaning is like, when you're in a motel room or something and you don't really want to stop screwing to try to move this 4 ton bed away from the wall! But the headboard is bangin' up against the wall with every stroke! heh heh Last time that happened to me it was a bit embarrassing 'cause when the motel maid changed the towels in the morning every towel in the place was stuffed between the headboard and the wall!!http://instagiber.net/smiliesdotcom/cwm/cwm3d/3dbiggrin3.gif

 

[rl_dylan]

There is nothing better than hearing the lady you are having sex with moan, groan, shout, and - I for one - hear her vocalize to "fuck her" "cum in me (on me), harder, etc. - you get the picture.

 

[GeorgeWBush]

My new girlfriend she is like you no matter she has very little control over her little whimmpers and grunts she grasps for air and it is so damn hot hearing her when we are in the heat of it all.

She can be semi quiet but she can be so damn loud that the nieghbors can hear her.

 

[sharpchick]

Like most, I've never been able to be completely quiet during sex. And I love it when my lover moans, but I love it even better when he talks to me - the trashier the talk, the hotter I get.

The hand over my mouth thing has happened to me once, and made me realize that I had to be honest with a lover about my history - I was raped when I was 20, and that guy had put his hand over my mouth to keep others from hearing me scream for help. The flashback I had when my lover did it totally freaked me out - this was years later, and I was sure I was past the fallout from the rape. So now I am clear with a lover about that when we talk about the things we do and do not like during sex. There just isn't any point in either of us being traumatized doing something that's so much fun. . . .

 

[Mya Wencha]

I can't help but be loud

I am also a screamer, moaner, yeller, groaner and of course dirty talker! I can't be quiet, I wouldn't want to be, and I know my daddy wouldn't want it any other way. He sometimes has to cover my mouth when we're not alone, and that makes the orgasm so much more intense for me, screaming into his hand, fighting to release my pleasure and still keep our secrets intact!!

 

[borusewicz]

I like when my wife is loud during sex. I can tell that I am doing a good job. But when she gets loud it is sometimes tough for me to go. I am too busy concentrating on making her go over the top. Not sure if that is a bad thing or not.

 

[H0wl]

I love love love how loud my girl is when we're going at it. She likes to talk, to moan, grunt, sigh...it's all lovely.

On occasion we've had to be quiet and while it's still fun I've realized just how much I rely on her to tell me when what I'm doing feels good. Lately we've been trying some new things and I've been feeling less awkward about making noise myself. Like another poster I've felt in the past that I would be "faking" if I was making noises even though I'm enjoying myself.

Lately though I've gotten a lot more comfortable with it, partly because I've been talking more during sex...which makes it seem more natural to groan or growl.

BTW....my girl also loves it when I bite the back of her neck, she just seems to sort of melt into me when I do it.

 

[GuitarRocker]

Aw man, I love the sound when a woman moans. A woman screaming is kind of a turn off 'cause it makes it you feel like you're hurting her or something.

 

[Mya Wencha]

Aw man, I love the sound when a woman moans. A woman screaming is kind of a turn off 'cause it makes it you feel like you're hurting her or something.

Oh, I think screaming can be a truly wonderful thing!! Screaming out that you are cumming, oh god, yes!!!!

 

[fathom7]

The vocalizations from a woman as techniques are applied is a wonderful stimulant for me. Not an issue of perceiving pain being applied as some have noted -- but a full lowering of any inhibitions that remain. After all, we got naked and are doing some very interesting things to one another so at least some of the inhibitions are removed. Honest, blatant, distinct or unintelligible noises are the turn-on.

I also find that with paying attention you can FEEL, through fingertips or other skin-to-skin contact the arousal building. The differences in tension of the skin, temperature, texture are also good clues and I love each of them. I't part of "PAYING ATTENTION" which I consider to be the critical element in any session.

Nice thread but the responses are not overly surprising. As long as at least some of the reaction us "guys" get from the vocalization is NOT "ego-stroking" but is used to proceed with whatever it is that is causing the noises -- please moan on.

 

[Mya Wencha]

The vocalizations from a woman as techniques are applied is a wonderful stimulant for me. Not an issue of perceiving pain being applied as some have noted -- but a full lowering of any inhibitions that remain. After all, we got naked and are doing some very interesting things to one another so at least some of the inhibitions are removed. Honest, blatant, distinct or unintelligible noises are the turn-on.

I also find that with paying attention you can FEEL, through fingertips or other skin-to-skin contact the arousal building. The differences in tension of the skin, temperature, texture are also good clues and I love each of them. I't part of "PAYING ATTENTION" which I consider to be the critical element in any session.

Nice thread but the responses are not overly surprising. As long as at least some of the reaction us "guys" get from the vocalization is NOT "ego-stroking" but is used to proceed with whatever it is that is causing the noises -- please moan on.

My partner needs no ego stroking, it is all very very natural for me!

 

[Munachi]

for the first three or four years of my sex life i was very quiet. i used to even think being quiet is the norm, and that moaning in movies etc. is just something they do in movies, and artificial, i couldn't imagine to moan. then one glorious day i was proven the opposite, and since then have learned that in a lot of occasions i can't help moaning...

 

[YinandYang]

I love to vocalise, ranging from small moans to 'oh god fuck me'. I love hearing men vocalise too, its such a turn on. I once had a relationship with a guy who wouldn't utter a word, until that inevitable moment 'honey i am cumming'. I ended up feeling quite paraniod as to whether I was hitting his spot! It depends how we are 'playing' sometime I beg....or he will gag me....variety is the spice

 

[biglboy]

I like to vocalize when I'm having sex. Moans, pants, screams. Sometimes it's involuntary sometimes I just do it to express my pleasure. I'm curious about how other women vocalize. My lovers seem to enjoy it.

Although my experience is limited, I find that moans and other such vocalizations are extremely erotic. No other sound can compare.

 

[aerialm2002]

total turn on

the moans are a total turn on.
i do have to say tho, that i love watching a woman who is trying to hold her moans down, but can't as the play escalates. one hand gripping the sheets..and her other hand reaching for her mouth in ecstacy.