Mental Faithfulness

[Weevil]

I'm in a loving, committed relationship with a girl who I happen to think is the most beautiful Chica in the world. We have lots of freeky, circus sex and I've never seriously considered straying.

Why then do I occasionally(When watching MuchMusic or catching a cute girl on the street) do I have thoughts pop into my head that would make Ron Jeremy blush?

It's biological I guess.

 

[Mensa]

Next question

Jeez,EBW, that's an easy one.

You're a perv!!

 

[Willing and Unsure]

i'd say its just human-nature... cuz i would think she has some thoughts as well since most people do

 

[Angelus]

Everyone has those thoughts.... it is just whether or not that you act on them that is the question.

Hell, if I ever acted on mine I would now be a walking dead man.

 

[Weevil]

I'm just wondering why they haven't been conditioned out.


But I am a perv

 

[Angelus]

They can't be conditioned out.... they are part of every living human being on the planet, can't change who we are- that is damn near impossible.

But I have to ask one thing.... what's wrong with being a perv?

 

[Weevil]

When did I say there was?????

It just surprises me at times

 

[doctor_insanus]

Being a perv is cool!

One thing's for sure, you're never bored! Well, I'm not, anyway...

 

[Ally C]

Being 'in love' doesn't mean that you no longer have the same reactions to people you find attractive. Just try not to stare too much if your partner is with you. Drooling should also be avoided if possible.

 

[Angelus]

oh yes..... drooling is definitely a wrong thing to do.

Although sometimes it is hard not to stare.... it all comes with being the way that I am. Just because you are with someone you don't have to shut off every little feeling that you have- hell, she might even be having the same feelings.

 

[Coggie]

Ally is right, I love Mrs Coggie to death but sadly Britney Spears still does it for me........

Course, I'd never dream of taking any action over those thoughts.

Afterall, Britney wouldn't be interested <g>

 

[Low-light]

First off, everyone's a perv, whether they admit it or not!

Second, I remember hearing somewhere that thoughts aren't good or bad, they simply are. It's our actions on behalf of those thoughts that are important. Besdies, nature built and programmed us to be sex machines. There's nothing to be done about that.

Well, not exactly NOTHING, but we will still be. It's completely normal/natural.

Especially for pervs!

 

[Ally C]

Lust and our respective fantasies are powerful emotions it seems.

 

[CW]

I'm just wondering why they haven't been conditioned out.

Evolution usually requires more than a century or two. For the most part we have gone from pouncing upon any woman we see, to restrained admiration. Our actions have receeded into our heads and are now mostly just thoughts instead of actions.



Wonder what the next auto reaction will be ? Our heads exploding perhaps? That'd be depressing as hell.

 

[KillerMuffin]

We're human. Despite any monogomastic tendancies, preferences, or instincts, we're still critters. Men have a biological need to not only propogate the species as often as possible, but to spread their own personal propogatory material to as many as possible. This insures that there will be at least one offspring who will grow up to do the same thing. This is basic level biology. It's the reason why male lions kill any cubs from other lions. It's the reason why moose fight each other. It's the reason elephants have musth. Anyway.

You're not just a critter though, with your base instincts telling you that Britney really needs to have your baby. You're a man whose got that awareness that while it would be great to diddle with all of Destiny's Child on a free weekend at Hedonism, actually doing it wouldn't be nearly as much fun as a weekend of wild monkey love with the Chica. Right? Right? Hello? Where the hell are you going? No, I didn't give you ticke- No! It was just an example, Desti- Dammit. EBW get back here!!!!!

 

[Silverlily]

Wonder what the next auto reaction will be ? Our heads exploding perhaps? That'd be depressing as hell.

That would all depend on which male you were talking about now wouldn't it.

 

[Mensa]

I wonder if WD-40 would help?

Besdies, nature built and programmed us to be sex machines.



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I think one of my gears is jammed! I keep having to hit the'reset' button.

 

[ChaoticLil]

I know I'm strange, but I consider it an insult if my husband DOESN'T look and/or flirt. To me it's not only healthy, but a part of being human. Sometimes I'll even point out someone and go "Isn't that one cute?" (or something like that). He even does the same for me.

Being in a committed relationship with an incredubly beautiful, sexy person does not mean you're dead. You looked at them before you were married so why should you stop?

Enjoy the sites and while you're looking and drooling remember to take notes. They make really good fantasy play.

 

[willywanker]

Being 'in love' doesn't mean that you no longer have the same reactions to people you find attractive. Just try not to stare too much if your partner is with you. Drooling should also be avoided if possible.

Or in the words of my old Daddy,

Just because your on a diet doesn't mean you can't look at the menu.

I always liked that one. It makes a lot of sense. Men, and women, are going to look. When I quit looking, someone will be shoveling dirt down on top of me.

 

[Weevil]

You're a man whose got that awareness that while it would be great to diddle with all of Destiny's Child on a free weekend at Hedonism, actually doing it wouldn't be nearly as much fun as a weekend of wild monkey love with the Chica. Right? Right? Hello? Where the hell are you going? No, I didn't give you ticke- No! It was just an example, Desti- Dammit. EBW get back here!!!!!

Isn't there a way to combine the two?

Regardless I am consistently surprised by how often I post a goofy, dumb subject that is met with serious replies.

My "Serious Weather Question" comes to mind.

Yeesh.