MEN: Why would you fuck a woman who was married to someone else?

[sheath]

I'm curious about this. It seems so many men I know have a real attraction to fucking married women. Why?

Is it the thrill of trying to get something you know you shouldn't have? Is it the illicit nature of the act ? What?

I'm just curious.

S.

 

[Guest]

I'm curious about this. It seems so many men I know have a real attraction to fucking married women. Why?

Is it the thrill of trying to get something you know you shouldn't have? Is it the illicit nature of the act ? What?

I'm just curious.

S.

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It's genetic.

 

[red_rose]

It's the lack of commitment needed, I do believe.

 

[sheath]

Re: Re: MEN: Why would you fuck a woman who was married to someone else?

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It's genetic.

Genetics has no bearing on behavior...

S.

 

[Guest]

Re: Re: Re: MEN: Why would you fuck a woman who was married to someone else?

Genetics has no bearing on behavior...

S.

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Sure it does.

 

[loveyamon]

I'm curious about this. It seems so many men I know have a real attraction to fucking married women. Why?

Is it the thrill of trying to get something you know you shouldn't have? Is it the illicit nature of the act ? What?

I'm just curious.

S.

I wouldn't do it.I've had the opportunity and graciously passed.I've been cheated on before and know what it feels like.I wouldn't want to pass that on.

 

[Monazwx]

It's the lack of commitment needed, I do believe.

I second this and add the thrill factor.

 

[Guest]

 

[Lost Cause]

I wouldn't.....

Having been on the receiving end of my straying wife, I wouldn't knowingly participate in passing on that pain, or dissolving a family.

 

[Aquila]

Lack of anything resembling honor or a moral code beyond, whats good for me is good.

 

[Frimost]

I'm not, I wouldn't do it either.
The only exceptions I would make is if she were married to some scum-bag in prison or if he was some shit-head that abused her. Wife-beater's wives are fair game becasue anyone who beats thier wife is scum and dosen't deserve to have her in the first place.

 

[S.Daedalus]

Not all men would.

I would never.

It has nothing to do with Genetics. Just called, "Can't keep it in your pants, cause you're a fucking idiot" syndrom.

Just an opinion.

Stephen

 

[HeavyStick]

So it's the guy's fault for having sex with a married woman?

It takes two to tango.

If a married person is willing to have sex outside the marriage why is it the other persons fault?

 

[paganangel]

I'm not, I wouldn't do it either.
The only exceptions I would make is if she were married to some scum-bag in prison or if he was some shit-head that abused her. Wife-beater's wives are fair game becasue anyone who beats thier wife is scum and dosen't deserve to have her in the first place.

hello! she's a cheater. i'd beat her ass too.

 

[Aquila]

So it's the guy's fault for having sex with a married woman?

It takes two to tango.

If a married person is willing to have sex outside the marriage why is it the other persons fault?

Simple really,
You are deliberatley taking part in an act, that by its very nature violates the oath of another, something you can prevent.
Your knowingly participating in event you know to be wrong.

 

[Hamletmaschine]

I'm curious about this. It seems so many men I know have a real attraction to fucking married women. Why?

Is it the thrill of trying to get something you know you shouldn't have? Is it the illicit nature of the act ? What?

I'm just curious.

S.

Leave out the word "married" in your second sentence, and you'll have your answer.

 

[paganangel]

that's nonsense. it's like blaming the telephone pole you hit with your car.

 

[HeavyStick]

Simple really,
You are deliberatley taking part in an act, that by its very nature violates the oath of another, something you can prevent.
Your knowingly participating in event you know to be wrong.

Why should the other person enforce the married person to uphold their vows?

I won't have sex with a married woman.

I just think it's wrong to put the blame on the person who isn't married.

 

[Frimost]

hello! she's a cheater. i'd beat her ass too.

Not beats her for cheating, but beat her before she slept with anyone else because he is a drunk mean bastard. That type of sit-rep, not her being punished for being an unfaithful slut.

 

[Guest]

Look, before some of you start flapping your lips about shit you don't know, read about it, or better yet, even do a simple fucking Google search on the subject. There IS scientific discussion regarding genetics and cheating.

http://www.holysmoke.org/cretins/love01.htm

 

[Aquila]

Why should the other person enforce the married person to uphold their vows?

I won't have sex with a married woman.

I just think it's wrong to put the blame on the person who isn't married.

Tell you what.. are you in the wrong if you knowingly purchase a stolen car? you didnt steal the car.

 

[Aquila]

Look, before some of you start flapping your lips about shit you don't know, read about it, or better yet, even do a simple fucking Google search on the subject. There IS scientific discussion regarding genetics and cheating.

http://www.holysmoke.org/cretins/love01.htm

here's the kicker boss,
Either your an animal unable to overcome your baser instincts, or your a human being able to control himself.
What seperates us from the animals isnt the fact that we have opposable thumbs, but that we are able to think and judge and evaluate. thus overcoming our base instincts.

Or do you think we would have gotten far flinging shit at each other and howling at the top of our lungs when someone stole a bannana?

 

[paganangel]

Not beats her for cheating, but beat her before she slept with anyone else because he is a drunk mean bastard. That type of sit-rep, not her being punished for being an unfaithful slut.

ok.
that aside, u r still violating your own moral. it's either right or it's wrong. what if the husband was cheating? what if he was a gambler? what if he was unemployed? there's a host of excuses. she made the vow, not you. and she made it to that guy. if you feel you can be the device by which that vow is broken in all circumstances, fine. however, you can't really decide whether or not the vow is valid based on your opinion of either party for any reason. it's not your vow.

 

[Guest]

here's the kicker boss,
Either your an animal unable to overcome your baser instincts, or your a human being able to control himself.
What seperates us from the animals isnt the fact that we have opposable thumbs, but that we are able to think and judge and evaluate. thus overcoming our base instincts.

Or do you think we would have gotten far flinging shit at each other and howling at the top of our lungs when someone stole a bannana?

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Sure. And you may be surprised that I couldn't agree more.

But there is a basis for the discussion, isn't there? THAT'S my point.

 

[HeavyStick]

Tell you what.. are you in the wrong if you knowingly purchase a stolen car? you didnt steal the car.

Not a good analogy.

I understand your point.

Someone may need a car.


But what about the salesperson selling it?