men who like being spanked

[JimAner]

As I man who enjoys being spanked by women, I would like to know how other spankees like it.
As a believer in the joy of CFNM, I want to be spanked nude. Sometimes I like it OTK, facing a chair or table, and at other times tied to a spanking bench, but those are never my choice. Neither is the implement used in the spanking or paddling.
How do the rest of you guys like to receive your swacks?

 

[trackman69]

OTK and brush or over back of chair and caned. Hard.

 

[PaxNurgle]

I usually am tied, naked facing the wall with arms splayed.

Paddling or spanking is fine, but unfortunately I have a pretty low pain threshold. I've been thwhacked by a fiberglass rod and MAN, that stings. I guess a cat of nine tails is my preference, but my preference is really Her preference.
Being flogged, hard, by a thick, hefty leather strap- that was powerful, and man was it brutal. Also it was the one time I had to use the safe word, and having to do that hurt as much as the strap, honestly.

 

[xpc316e]

I would in no way consider myself to be submissive, but in the spirit of what is sauce for the goose must also be sauce for the gander I have been flogged by my partner.

First thing to say is that she likes administering the beating, and I love being on the receiving end. I do not want the sting of canes, or paddles, but prefer the thud of a heavy suede flogger. It is almost as good as a massage in terms of relaxing me. The only problem is that it does not happen often enough for me.

 

[cuck72]

it has to be over the knees

I get off thinking of both my wife and I being over the knees spanked. Love thinking of some guys I know fucking and spanking my wife. But also love thinking of being submissive, and over my wife's knees being spanked like a bad little boy, or over a dominant man's knees and spanked in from of my wife. To be over some ones knees and spanked in front of others I know is a huge turn on.

 

[SeeMeRolling]

Yes please. Right now I do not have a preference, I would just like to experience it.

 

[JimAner]

I would in no way consider myself to be submissive, but in the spirit of what is sauce for the goose must also be sauce for the gander I have been flogged by my partner.

First thing to say is that she likes administering the beating, and I love being on the receiving end. I do not want the sting of canes, or paddles, but prefer the thud of a heavy suede flogger. It is almost as good as a massage in terms of relaxing me. The only problem is that it does not happen often enough for me.

I agree with the idea that if it is good for the goose, it must be equally good for the gander. I also feel that if I cannot experience a good spanking and know how it feels, I cannot give a good spanking.

 

[Wonderer67]

I am sometimes put over Miss Conduct’s knees, other times I am fully immobilized on a spanking bench I’ve made. Sometimes she handcuffs me by the wrists to a beam in a bedroom. She uses an old antique ruler that says “the golden rule” on it, a hairbrush, a leather paddle, a cherry switch that I’ve made or a paddle that I designed and made.

Sometimes I hate it, other times I crave a good spanking.

 

[oxfordsea]

It's A Thing

A buddy and I in high school did start a spanking thing that lasted probably six months before it faded away, but it was hot. I initiated it. It started as a kind of homework punishment. I spanked him with pants on, but on the second or third time, had him pull his pants down and spanked him to a decent red. Not sure when, or how it happened. Maybe around the second or third week, he started spanking me more, and that is how it continued. He also started spanking me with pants on. The surprise was when he actually pulled my pants down forcefully and spanked my bare bottom. His spankings lasted longer than mine. Hurt bad, but I did like it. The crazy part when he took his leather belt off and gave me my first severe spanking. The kind you wake up with a soar behind. As seniors we drank, of course, and he spanked me a few more times, but it ended when we graduated.

The fantasy still sneaks up on me every now and then.

 

[MaybeMae]

I love it

In my brief experience as a Domme, I really loved to give boys spankings. Love to see how red their asses would get, and how that seemed to correspond to just how hard their cocks got.

I mostly used my hand, but I also have a real school paddle that I have used before. I knicked it from my first school that still used corporal punishment. Never used it on a student though (duh).

 

[Fingerfuxs]

In my brief experience as a Domme, I really loved to give boys spankings. Love to see how red their asses would get, and how that seemed to correspond to just how hard their cocks got.

I mostly used my hand, but I also have a real school paddle that I have used before. I knicked it from my first school that still used corporal punishment. Never used it on a student though (duh).

Do you ballgag um or require them to be silent ?

 

[o_pague]

Selfish vs Effective Spanking

The spanking I would like to receive and the one Missus delivers are seldom the same. Not long after it first became part of our intimacy repertoire, which was many years ago, she announced one day, “There’s a big difference between a selfish spanking and an effective one.” Effective means it results in a noticeable change in my demeanor toward her.
Although what she delivers can vary from time to time, typically it’s a no-nonsense rapid-fire event—(warm-up…what’s that?) She decides how it happens, when it happens, and how long it goes for. My part in it is acceptance of the inevitable, submitting to her completely, and to be appreciative. A good spanking often follows after my sexual releases, when my tendency is to be lethargic in my attentiveness toward her.
We’ve been together for a long—very long—time. We are what you’d call an elderly, retired couple, though we don’t think of ourselves that way. Age has nothing to do with it. We continue to enjoy each other, often in kinky ways, of which her discipline of me is just one aspect. I am grateful to her afterwards—for the way it improves my attitude, and especially for her understanding of this and the many other of my special needs.