Men Vs. Women

[raniny]

Why is it that if you are a female and post pics you get so many responses but if you are a man you hardly get any? I posted pics and got 5 pages of responses. My husband posted pics and he doesn't even have 1 pages of responses. Is it because there are more men on this site vs. women? Any feedback would be great.

 

[somberReality]

I think men are more visual.

 

[raniny]

Somber I agree with you saying about cams. I don't either.

 

[dawn_of_night]

just depends on the woman looking, imo.
If she's not visually stimulated, then its hard for him to stimulate her with pics.

everyone likes a picture book, right

 

[FaustARP]

Men are more visual definitely. I can't speak for woman or their sexual mindset, but I think we can find evidence in the ratio of men v.s. women posting that it's a more natural progression for males to be turned on by posting themselves.

I think that's because it's a generally accepted stereotype that men are the persuers and woman are to be persued. So therefore it's more desirable to be desirable for men, as opposed to woman who still have the desire to be desired but are influenced by the idea that they are constantly being persued regardless.

As well, it's been pretty well established that most women don't get anything from just full on cock pics, which is dissapointing for males because it reminds us of our differences in sexual mentality (If a woman posts a full on ass, breast, or pussy shot...well, none of us are complaining). Though I will admit only close up shots doesn't work for me either.

It's a broad topic, the disconnect between the sexual mentality of men and women. Too much for me to handle anyways.

 

[raniny]

I can understand that there is a difference in mentality. Thanks for the advice. Any suggestions on how to get him more responses? He is doing it to kinda boost his selfesteem. I do not think he thinks he is very good looking but I disagree.

 

[dawn_of_night]

I can understand that there is a difference in mentality. Thanks for the advice. Any suggestions on how to get him more responses? He is doing it to kinda boost his selfesteem. I do not think he thinks he is very good looking but I disagree.

share him

 

[raniny]

His name on here is ravingavenger. He is in the am pics if you want to check him out.

 

[yogiforlife]

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I won't totally disagree with the whole "woman aren't as visual" thing but I do think there are way more men lurking on this site looking for pics of woman than there are woman looking for pics of men. I think a lot of woman like to look, might even pm a comment, just won't necessarily leave a comment on the thread. Guys are under the assumption that if they don't comment, the woman will then get bored and not post any more. I too dislike close-ups. Seems to be just as many guys with close ups of there cocks as there is of woman with either a close-up of there pussy or a breast.

 

[Javagirl]

Because men aren't usually creative

I hate just seeing up close cock pics. I like a little teasing and sexy angles. It completely bothers me when I just see weiner shots time and time again--it gets old after awhile and doesn't do anything for me.

I wouldn't say men are more visual. I like my visuals but I don't want blatant shots. I want hinting, teasing shots and someone who actually looks good on cam. There are some men who should not show off their dicks--no offense. I've seen a few alien cocks in my time--yikes, no thank you.

 

[raniny]

He has added some new pics check them out.

 

[skitzoid]

When I post a pic, I usually close the thread. You wanna talk about low self-esteem.
I get in a thread that ask where you want to kiss the person above, I comment, she comes back, " I don't even know you".

I just give up.

 

[Not Normal]

Why is it that if you are a female and post pics you get so many responses but if you are a man you hardly get any? I posted pics and got 5 pages of responses. My husband posted pics and he doesn't even have 1 pages of responses. Is it because there are more men on this site vs. women? Any feedback would be great.

Women are just nicer to look at...

 

[EnglishRoseFox]

Well I both post my pics and comment on other photos too.

I prefer to see a well toned body and an artistically taken shot...and appreciate the effort put into those. I am sexually stimulated both visually, verbally and textually....but a mans mind is what gets me first and foremost...mental stimulation is key. I much prefer to comment on a thread where the poster (either male or female) bothers to reply too...I do try to as I appreciate all comments.

Having said all that....I'm not adverse to drooling over a pic of a good looking cock either!!! yeh yeh call me shallow!! *giggles*

Its fun.....thats what this is about..when I read between the lines of some of these threads some people are so hung up about popularity on here and body image....its very sad....I do it cos I love it...and I comment on it cos I love looking too! xxxx

Fox xx x

 

[bandelero]

Why is it that if you are a female and post pics you get so many responses but if you are a man you hardly get any? I posted pics and got 5 pages of responses. My husband posted pics and he doesn't even have 1 pages of responses. Is it because there are more men on this site vs. women? Any feedback would be great.

Having a genuine lash at giving you an insight into this from a male perspective. I have only ever thought of male bodies as worthy of appreciation when they are young and fit with well defined muscle tone etc. The thing that I have found most women attracted to in me is
A) My face (Especially eyes)
B) My personality
I have no idea why the sight of a male body is not sexually exciting to women in the same way that the obverse is true, but if I was ever going out on the pull, the very last thing I would try to use to pull with would be my body. If I ever get enough posts to put up an AV, it would probably be of my eyes.....
My advice to any male who had a low body image would be to find out what your best other feature was, and use that to make up for it.....there are very few Adonis' in the world after all.

 

[StormCat]

Same thing with trying to get someone to chat. If youre a girl, you will have 100000 guys send you a pm. If youre a guy,...struggling

 

[Ekserb]

His name on here is ravingavenger. He is in the am pics if you want to check him out.

You could do him a favor and add a link to his thread in your signature or at least post a link to it here so we can see what you're talking about.