Men vs. women: Turned on by observing LIVE sex

[UtilityCurve]

Let me run this by you:

Room full of MF couples watching an MF couple have sex (of whatever kind) in front of them. Who reaches their breaking point when they start in on their partners first: The girls or the guys?

The commonsense answer us the guys, of course. They're constantly horny and clearly this room is a safe space for that sort of thing.

But wait, says he! I actually think it's the girls who are going to reach for their men first.

My theory is that because guys are constantly horny, they have developed the need to control themselves even in the most provocative circumstances. The ladies, on the other hand, are pushed off their sober equilibrium by those same circumstances and not having spent a lifetime keeping their cool when others around them are losing their heads others' actual heads are indeed swelling are in over theirs!

I know there are more complex explanations, involving female competition (why is she getting railed and not me?), but I think my explanation, training basically, is the greater influence.

It was fun to game out scenarios, to be sure! But by and large, the "results" always came back the same: The first groping contact was invariably female-on-male.

 

[Islander55]

Let me run this by you:

Room full of MF couples watching an MF couple have sex (of whatever kind) in front of them. Who reaches their breaking point when they start in on their partners first: The girls or the guys?

The commonsense answer us the guys, of course. They're constantly horny and clearly this room is a safe space for that sort of thing.

But wait, says he! I actually think it's the girls who are going to reach for their men first.

My theory is that because guys are constantly horny, they have developed the need to control themselves even in the most provocative circumstances. The ladies, on the other hand, are pushed off their sober equilibrium by those same circumstances and not having spent a lifetime keeping their cool when others around them are losing their heads others' actual heads are indeed swelling are in over theirs!

I know there are more complex explanations, involving female competition (why is she getting railed and not me?), but I think my explanation, training basically, is the greater influence.

It was fun to game out scenarios, to be sure! But by and large, the "results" always came back the same: The first groping contact was invariably female-on-male.

If a woman is willing to go into a room and watch full on sex, then I would say it is 50 50 as to you reaches out first. A big question is whether or not it is just a show to watch or can a couple indulge there own desires in the room.

 

[UtilityCurve]

If a woman is willing to go into a room and watch full on sex, then I would say it is 50 50 as to you reaches out first. A big question is whether or not it is just a show to watch or can a couple indulge there own desires in the room.

Well, since it's my thought experiment, I say the audience is free to react in any way they choose, no holds barred. What do you think of the calculus then?

Even in my own thought experiment, I concede the suggestion "let's join other couples, all clothed, as we watch one couple have sex in front of us" sounds much more likely in a male timbre. The opposite would surely waste a lot of perfectly good coffee.

 

[lily_wall_]

I think I will reach for the man, but it'd be to see if the scene is exciting him, rather than me not being able to control my horny level

My theory is that because guys are constantly horny, they have developed the need to control themselves even in the most provocative circumstances. The ladies, on the other hand, are pushed off their sober equilibrium by those same circumstances and not having spent a lifetime keeping their cool when others around them are losing their heads others' actual heads are indeed swelling are in over theirs!

Also... Nope!!
I watch porn on mute while I'm listening to zoom calls at work. I see a man walk into the room, and depending on the man, I think about how his grunt would sound while he's raping me. I see a pretty ass and think it'd look better with my husband's handprint. I see a man holding a glass, and I wish he was holding my throat. I can go on and on...

You guys aren't the only ones expert at hiding your arousal

 

[UtilityCurve]

I think I will reach for the man, but it'd be to see if the scene is exciting him, rather than me not being able to control my horny level

See, by my reckoning, that would be you "breaking," that is, doing something transgressive (reaching to touch, normally fine in private), and for me, I wouldn't do any similar until I was hot enough to do something equivalent (giving in to my arousal). I think of the armrests between the seats being the foul lines.

 

[spawnofdavey]

I think I will reach for the man, but it'd be to see if the scene is exciting him, rather than me not being able to control my horny level


Also... Nope!!
I watch porn on mute while I'm listening to zoom calls at work. I see a man walk into the room, and depending on the man, I think about how his grunt would sound while he's raping me. I see a pretty ass and think it'd look better with my husband's handprint. I see a man holding a glass, and I wish he was holding my throat. I can go on and on...

You guys aren't the only ones expert at hiding your arousal

I love the way your mind works

 

[Xplrngplsr]

I think I will reach for the man, but it'd be to see if the scene is exciting him, rather than me not being able to control my horny level


Also... Nope!!
I watch porn on mute while I'm listening to zoom calls at work. I see a man walk into the room, and depending on the man, I think about how his grunt would sound while he's raping me. I see a pretty ass and think it'd look better with my husband's handprint. I see a man holding a glass, and I wish he was holding my throat. I can go on and on...

You guys aren't the only ones expert at hiding your arousal

I would be very interested in hearing you go on and on.

 

[MamaBitte]

I think I will reach for the man, but it'd be to see if the scene is exciting him, rather than me not being able to control my horny level


Also... Nope!!
I watch porn on mute while I'm listening to zoom calls at work. I see a man walk into the room, and depending on the man, I think about how his grunt would sound while he's raping me. I see a pretty ass and think it'd look better with my husband's handprint. I see a man holding a glass, and I wish he was holding my throat. I can go on and on...

You guys aren't the only ones expert at hiding your arousal

Wish there would be more women feeling like you do ...

 

[Islander55]

Well, since it's my thought experiment, I say the audience is free to react in any way they choose, no holds barred. What do you think of the calculus then?

Even in my own thought experiment, I concede the suggestion "let's join other couples, all clothed, as we watch one couple have sex in front of us" sounds much more likely in a male timbre. The opposite would surely waste a lot of perfectly good coffee.

If is just a show to watch, tough call. The male is probably more likely to set his hand on her thigh or some such thing. It really could go either way. If it is an orgy type setting where everyone is expected or at least welcome to have sex, I would think the woman might be the first to reach out. Just to let him know she is ready and willing. I have no real way of knowing. Just kind of my perspective as how I would react. With people being so different, there is too many variables to make and informed choice.

 

[UtilityCurve]

@Islander55, fun to think about now and again though!

The woman's clothing enters into it as yet another variable: If she knew where they were going and she's wearing slacks or a pantsuit, he might as well have stayed home.

 

[lily_wall_]

See, by my reckoning, that would be you "breaking," that is, doing something transgressive (reaching to touch, normally fine in private), and for me, I wouldn't do any similar until I was hot enough to do something equivalent (giving in to my arousal). I think of the armrests between the seats being the foul lines.

I'm always looking for physical contact, not necessarily sexual. I'm touching the arm or shoulder or just pat their chest or hugging or leaning sideways into shoulder

So get rid of those armrests lol

 

[lily_wall_]

Wish there would be more women feeling like you do ...

I'm pretty sure there are. Men don't have monopoly on being pervs

 

[UtilityCurve]

I'm always looking for physical contact, not necessarily sexual. I'm touching the arm or shoulder or just pat their chest or hugging or leaning sideways into shoulder

So get rid of those armrests lol

Or at least make them removable. I have come across this twice. The seats weren't super-fancy like the recliners in movie theaters these days, so the mechanisms were simple to figure out. Then, of course, there's the problem of where to put them.

Always enjoyed train coaches where the armrests could be folded back. Snuggling under a thin Amtrak-branded blanket on a long-distance route during the wee hours, well let's just say I would gladly have paid more for the tickets.

(Sigh.) So complicated. Makes inviting a group over for an orgy sound much simpler.

 

[NightL]

While I have not attended a show with intended audience and one couple performing, I have entered rooms / environments where many people were having or intending to have sex and it was just as common for women to lead as men.

 

[Islander55]

@Islander55, fun to think about now and again though!

The woman's clothing enters into it as yet another variable: If she knew where they were going and she's wearing slacks or a pantsuit, he might as well have stayed home.

I would think a nice skirt would be best for something like that. Not a short skirt but something a bit dressy and longer. That way you can go commando and if needed just hike up the skirt for easy access.

 

[UtilityCurve]

I would think a nice skirt would be best for something like that. Not a short skirt but something a bit dressy and longer. That way you can go commando and if needed just hike up the skirt for easy access.

Bingo. Something just above the knee would be my wish. If it takes time and effort to pull it up, it's not only more fun, but given all the time in the world to stop me, she doesn't.

 

[Islander55]

Bingo. Something just above the knee would be my wish. If it takes time and effort to pull it up, it's not only more fun, but given all the time in the world to stop me, she doesn't.

My preference is longer skirt, about mid calf. Still easy to hike up if needed but can hide all sorts of secrets. I have a jean skirt that I like to wear if I am expecting to play but might need to cover up quickly.

 

[Cabeza]

I think I will reach for the man, but it'd be to see if the scene is exciting him, rather than me not being able to control my horny level


Also... Nope!!
I watch porn on mute while I'm listening to zoom calls at work. I see a man walk into the room, and depending on the man, I think about how his grunt would sound while he's raping me. I see a pretty ass and think it'd look better with my husband's handprint. I see a man holding a glass, and I wish he was holding my throat. I can go on and on...

You guys aren't the only ones expert at hiding your arousal

I don’t know what kind of work you do but I’m pretty sure we need to have a zoom call to discuss… something

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I'm always looking for physical contact, not necessarily sexual. I'm touching the arm or shoulder or just pat their chest or hugging or leaning sideways into shoulder

So get rid of those armrests lol

I am with you there. Watching TV, I touch his hand or his leg. I am usually rubbing.
Sometimes it ends there, sometimes my rubbing reaches his zipper. If I get the button open, it's game on.

If he isn't interested, he will ask me to rub his feet. Before him, this would have been a no. But I like it because it makes him feel better. He wears work boots all day. Feet are never sweaty or smelly.

 

[Fenix_Rising]

My theory is that because guys are constantly horny, they have developed the need to control themselves even in the most provocative circumstances. The ladies, on the other hand, are pushed off their sober equilibrium by those same circumstances and not having spent a lifetime keeping their cool when others around them are losing their heads others' actual heads are indeed swelling are in over theirs!

I’m not saying this isn’t usually correct but there are a lot of sexually charged women that have had to cage their thoughts and urges because it is unbecoming of a woman. Women have to suppress a lot of urges just like men do so I really think this experiment depends on the particular people.

 

[liqueur]

Men may be better at giving head (the jury is out) but definitely not better at keeping their heads.