Men That Like To Be Choked

[Porkwarrior]

I am a (mostly) straight male, and fairly Vanilla towards my sexual preferences. So much so I was pretty comfortable in the belief that I didn't really have anything that could be called major kinks. I have engaged in some edgy play, but mostly they were my partners indulgences and my enjoyment was watching & feeling their arousal.

I have discovered one though that is really really REALLY tickling my fancy, a woman's hands around my neck. Especially during intercourse, but not necessarily limited to it. The idea & experience of an aroused woman becoming physically aggressive, especially towards the most vulnerable area she could incapacitate me with is.....just fucking HAWT!
Not in a dominatrix/humiliation fashion, not hardcore BDSM play. But regular sex taking on a slightly extra edgy feel with her in control.

It doesn't seem to be a popular one though, either most choking play is submissive women, or sissy humiliated men. Somewhere there has to be Alpha males that like to meet their match with some sexually aggressive, but still feminine women?

Haa haa I am not even sure if this is the right forum to discuss this.
Just happy I found a kink, haa haa. Anyone else really into this?

Edit -- Oh yes, and I am not an idiot. I am familiar with the dangers involving choking & breath play. This is more about the sensations of control switching, and knowing she could if she wanted. As opposed to the actual physical sensations of oxygen deprivation.

 

[Porkwarrior]

Women that love to be dominant, but not Domme's. I like that phrase.

It is her look at the end that got me about this set.

 

[Que]

A girl I play with sometimes sort of got my attention that way the day we met.

I was getting a dance from her and she suddenly put her hands around my neck and gave it a very gentle squeeze..


I guess most leave by instinct (which turned out to be right) it felt to me the way someone is demonstrating on your back how they like their back scratched, you know?

I choked her back, but gradually and progressively harder... all the way to the bottom end of dangerous territory.

With my ex, i dunno how it started but I use to gently choke her almost all the way out. We tried reversing a time or two and I'm not opposed to the idea but she tended to not do it right. You You have to bridge across the trachea and not crush the cartilage. (Well that is unless you're going for an actual death grip course. But I'm assuming we're talking recreational here.)

 

[shanier]

To the OP, I would say that women can be Dom and still be feminine.

And also that I think I completely understand where you're coming from with this kink!

I tend toward submissiveness when it comes to sex, but there have been two men--both more Dom than I--with whom there was just this urge to choke them.

Of course, I was careful but very forceful and still neither of them (and the incidents were separate) struggled. I think that was the sexiest part of all. Knowing they were Dom, knowing they could have stopped me, knowing they just didn't want to.