Men spanking men

If I was in Ontario....I didn't find much interest in M-M spanking in Canada at the time
 
Omg yes yes. I love to be spanked. It’s so hot to surrender and to be under subject to a strong and willing man. The emotional rollercoaster and the pain/pleasure can really drive me cray cray 😜
 
I've been thinking about some of the other practices we can use which may cause men (including sissies and CDs) humiliation, mild-moderate pain, submission and possibly arousal, during spanking meets.

I'm not a sadist, I'm a sensualist, my aim is mutual pleasure heightened by the arousal of sensations, both painful and pleasurable. So I don't like terms such as 'cock and ball torture' because torture is, to me, in a very different category to anything I do and it goes on all the time in nasty places, inflicted without consent by nastier people. Maybe we have to find the language for what we do here, as below.

I'm thinking about nipples. I've been trying out ways of increasing sensitivity and decided to get one of mine (initially) pierced this weekend. I've been wearing these little plastic pegs (see pic) to raise my pain threshold in advance and they certainly do that to produce erect and sensitive little fellows. Plastic spring pegs come in a range of sizes and firmness so there's plenty of choice. So I will also be inviting spankees to wear them for a while and see how they get on. A lick and rub afterwards will be their reward! Yes I have heard of nipple clamps.

Now down below...
I find the perineum (the smooth area behind the scrotum to the anus) is sensitive but often neglected. The cock root and prostate are buried underneath with lots of nerves, blood vessels and soft tissue. Its not an area for severe punishment becaue you really don't want to cause bruising (haematomas), cuts or any other damage.

But after a vigorous buttock spanking, a guy may be ready to open his thighs right up and enjoy a light but quite long spanking with a thin paddle, light strap or (my favourite) riding crop very gently applied. This builds up a level of surface redness and warmth underneath. After a few minutes, he'll be relieved when you massage some skin cream in to cool the skin but also to gently knead and stimulate the underlying root tissues and prostate. A bit of cream rubbing to soften the way, then a first finger up his bum is usually welcome too!

Going the other way, I'm very cautious about spanking and pain on the scrotum because pain thresholds and psychological readiness varies a lot. His reaction to a few light strokes of a flogger trailed across the balls will indicate this, and a gentle massage of the testes and deeper into that cock root usually go well.

The cock is next...guys are scared of spanking it because they think it will hurt a lot. But as with all else, its all about trust. Take it easy and gently, they can stop me if they don't like it. The cock is probably semi- or fully hard by now, if not, consider some manual or oral stimulation. Using the chosen spanking implement (see above) to slowly and gently drop soft strokes up the shaft of the penis. The base area where it joins the scrotum is quite tough and can take plenty of attention, softer as we go up. Let him get used to what you're doing and where its going. Check he's ok at every stage.

Towards the tip depends on whether the cock is circumsized or not and whether the shaft and foreskin (if present) is tight or loose. We go carefully, respecting the uniqueness and shared pleasure of the cock with its owner. A few taps on the back of the cock head (where the frenum is or was) will usually be ok, if he likes it, you can do more, a little firmer. If he doesnt, you can stop anytime. But the back (frenum side) of an erect cock, along the base and shaft, can take a surprising amount of firm strokes, even with a riding crop (very carefully). Again, we don't want any bruises, burst blood vessels or skin breaks.

For me, this is where the 'punishment' usually ends (at leas for now) and he will be hugely appreciative of your oral attentions to sooth the affected area and then enjoy each other...skin cream is always a good alternative, or apply afterwards to help recovery.

Go carefully and do share your thoughts...

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What a delightful scenario!
 
It’s been a few weeks since my last spanking encounter.
Today I was thinking about a simple cock binding. For possible use on self and others In spanking sessions.

This is a little flat woven rope for a small flashlight with a ring on each end. It fits around under the cock head and ties with a fine ribbon at the rings. Enjoyable to wear, a pull on the cord summons it to attention!

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spanking is rather dull and slow. ling thin rattan cane thin ,whippy and soaked in water delivers the sharp sting like a scorpion on the wet butt mound and kindles the kinky taboo desires especially while tipsy and very private weekend night meets.
 
I had a guy that spanked me once. However, it didn't really do much for me because he didn't really seem into it. Then I got spanked by a woman who was into it and it was a huge turn on. If I ever try it again with a guy, here's hoping that he's into it at least a bit.
 
There is spanking for mutual arousal which can combine both….or not!
 
Here’s a question. Do you prefer to meet new people and have fun with them, or to meet people you already know because it works well for both of you?

Well, ok, it may be both.

Last week I was away and had the good fortune to meet a lovely chap I’d been corresponding for several years but because of Covid and distance we’d not met before. Anyway, it was worth it, he enjoyed a sound spanking, followed by pleasuring me and vigorous sex. I hope we can meet again.

Other news, the guy in #39 is back home, so a rencontre is on the cards.

How about you?
 
oh you little cock teasing slut, pulling you over my knees to spank your bare ass over and over, then spread your cheeks and finger your tight ass/cunt, getting you ready to slip my big, fat cock deep inside you and fuck you silly....
Oh god, yes please, take me hard and deep lover...Make me squirm and fill me with your hot load...x
 
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