Men: Do you really care if she swallows, or not?

[delicatethunder]

she can suck anytime, swallow or not!

 

[Tomr2527]

It’s not a big deal for me personally, I wouldn’t turn it down if she offered but it’s not something I’d actively search for in a woman.

 

[Psychprofgal]

I'd never claim to be a fountain of wisdom or experience on the issue, but I daresay I have had enough experience to know what makes or breaks a good BJ, at least for me.

If the giver isn't enthusiastic and enjoying the experience as much as the receiver, it's not going to be a good one. Like I've said before, if I have any inkling during a BJ the woman isn't enjoying the experience, I immediately start having trouble performing and start to lose interest. The woman having fun and really enjoying it is what makes it good, not the simply act of getting a BJ.

The above is almost exactly what my husband said to me last night. So, it seems to be the way many men feel about it. I have been fortunate to have never felt that any oral being done to me was “disinterested” enough that I wasn’t interested usually it would be me that could be less, interested at the moment.

I will remember to be very enthusiastic from now on!!

 

[Gelista]

I don't care if she swallows or not. As has been said, its up to the person feeling comfortable doing it and anything that adds unneccesary anxiety detracts from the experience for all involved.

If my wife asks me where I want to cum then that is the tell tale sign that she wants me to cum in her mouth. The times where i've said somewhere else she gets disappointed

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Not something I have strong attachment to either - though depends on the place/situation, sometimes it is the cleanest option

Ultimately, as others have said, it's really up to her where/how she would like me to finish. As for my own desire - her enthusiasm and dirty talk between sucks really adds to the experience. I do love seeing my cum on her - be it tits, lips, chin, face, it is all good... if she swallows though, a little dripping from the lips makes it that much more memorable...

 

[TastySuckToy]

The above is almost exactly what my husband said to me last night. So, it seems to be the way many men feel about it. I have been fortunate to have never felt that any oral being done to me was “disinterested” enough that I wasn’t interested usually it would be me that could be less, interested at the moment.

I will remember to be very enthusiastic from now on!!

Then just be prepared for your husband to potentially shoot the ceiling! Lol

 

[keith60456]

Swallowing

Yes I do expect and care if she swallows. How would she feel if after cooking a dinner you got up, ran to the bathroom and spit? I suspect not very good. This is a sex act. Pleasuring him in your mouth is awesome and once he cums you already tasted it, why not swallow. If you only want to do oral foreplay then why bother?
when he goes down on you he is swallowing all your juices constantly flowing out of your vagina, just because his cums all at once is no difference. When you go down, then gulp it all the way down. Just saying

 

[AllAmericanMale]

She worked for it. What ever she chooses to do with it is completely up to her, and fine with me. Call it "Lady's choice".

 

[Mustang Sally]

I think it's kind of unattractive when someone has to rush to the bathroom to spit out my cum. Just saying.

Surely no one actually does that? If it's already in your mouth it's faster to get rid of it by swallowing, lol. I thought the altternative was the man cumming ON her or in a tissue or something.

 

[30bandits]

Surely no one actually does that? If it's already in your mouth it's faster to get rid of it by swallowing, lol. I thought the altternative was the man cumming ON her or in a tissue or something.

mmmm, I like you....

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Surely no one actually does that? If it's already in your mouth it's faster to get rid of it by swallowing, lol. I thought the altternative was the man cumming ON her or in a tissue or something.

my wife used to do that it was so disturbing I actually stopped having her give me blowjobs and our sex life slowly faded away over the years...

 

[Tnt69]

Id much rather she come up and share her reward in an extended, sloppy, open mouthed kiss! Mmmmmm

 

[MidnightRyder007]

True point

 

[Dreamer110]

Much rather she swallowed. Her friend doesn't and just seems a bit weird.

 

[The_gladiator]

I prefer swallowing because it’s less messy/interupts play less, but for me the key is cumming in her mouth, if I can be in her mouth the entire time until I go soft if she then wishes to spit into a tissue or swallow that’s her choice. I think it’s important that the woman do both what makes her comfortable but also makes it work for her. Jumping up to run to the bathroom is less attractive, casually having a tissue or me handing her one has worked with a couple women who needed to spit, then it doesn’t feel like a big deal, just something they prefer. The key is please don’t make me feel guilty for cumming in your mouth if you’re going to let me cum there. And I agree with tasty, it’s so much better if the woman is into it, and about the stimulation not stopping at the end, sometimes that happens and it’s not very fun.

 

[AZsurfer35]

As a man I’ll admit I do feel slightly offended when she won’t swallow me.

It feels like a rejection of sorts. Now I get it, I wouldn’t want to swallow my kid either, but I happily will devour any and all juices from her though again, it’s not the same. I think it’s part of the alpha in me as a provider. Like it or not, I’m giving you a gift, putting meat on the table so to speak, and in this case your mouth, and to spit it out is kinda an insult. Swallow me and be happy knowing there’s more behind it. It’s my dumb male ego speaking here, but yeah, I do care.

However if I know beforehand it’s an easy fix as I’ll just make sure to unload someplace else. No spit take, no bruised ego, just a towel. Lol

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

I honoustly don't really care.... It is sort of hot when she does but I absolutely understan if she doesn't want to. Doesn't feel like a rejection to me at all... I mean, come on, she just sucked my cock to make me cum, that shit takes commitment in the first place

Love,

Thom

 

[julybaby04]

I must say I am so surprised that men have such strong feelings about this (or at least have thought it out like this).

 

[30bandits]

I must say I am so surprised that men have such strong feelings about this (or at least have thought it out like this).

the struggle is real julybaby....

 

[julybaby04]

the struggle is real julybaby....

Lol. I guess so.

...the value placed on this specific thing by men is interesting.

 

[MidnightRyder007]

Lol. I guess so.

...the value placed on this specific thing by men is interesting.

I say take it as it comes.....no play on words...lol

 

[julybaby04]

I say take it as it comes.....no play on words...lol

Kind of my thought.

Who wants to be stressed knowing the woman may upset the man for such a simple thing?

 

[ratherabsurd1]

Kind of my thought.

Who wants to be stressed knowing the woman may upset the man for such a simple thing?

It is enjoying being together. That is the joy of it all

 

[Diver469]

Id much rather she come up and share her reward in an extended, sloppy, open mouthed kiss! Mmmmmm

Have to agree with that

 

[Duckers22]

I'm not fussed - if she's got my cock in her mouth that tells me she wants to use her mouth to pleasure me to satisfaction, where the end result ends up doesn't bother me