Men: Do you really care if she swallows, or not?

[jeff_is_smiling]

I used to not be fussy...then the last time my ex went down on me and I came in her mouth, she literally jumped off the bed and ran to the bathroom sink to spit it out.

That cured me...swallow or be labeled as being just like my ex...

 

[WillJ8787]

You like her to suck you anyway right
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Yes, after a twenty year marriage and little oral(except for talking to much) and no swallowing, I wouldn't stay with someone for long if this isn't a part of what they liked to do. Sorry, just my preference.

 

[Mister_Discreet]

It's not a deal breaker, but it really is a better feeling to cum in a woman's mouth. And, its even hotter when there is the wonder, then the reveal, when she lets you know that she can't wait to swallow . However, that said, I have had women spit after giving me a blowjob like they were sucking the last cock on earth; and I have had women swallow while blowing me like they were doing the laundry--just another chore. Part of the entire package is how enthusiastic you are about the task at hand.

 

[tonydude]

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[Hippie798]

Yes, I love the feeling of cumming deep in a woman's throat.

It's best when their mouth is still for a second as I start to cum.. then they gulp down my load.

Yep had one once that begged me to swallow an she loved getting throat fucked .I let her get away ! Now day gettin head period would be nice ! but it would have to be A female . Any females just wanna chat ?

 

[Grumplestiltskin]

Just please suck my penis! What you do with the cum is totally down to you! Lol

 

[Aussie_Teacher]

In my long life I have only had 3 females swallow and only one of those was someone very special to me and it was a very special moment. I guess to me if the female (or male if you are that way inclined) is very special then it makes it just so much more special if she does swallow, but not every time. Now I don't even get hard but I sure as hell remember that one very special female from my past.

 

[Yerkiddin]

The only difference, imho, is that cleanup is easier if she swallows.

 

[kate_thompson]

You like her to suck you anyway right
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Men like to see their cum load splatter on our face and tits

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I insist that it is swallowed

 

[SubtleFriction]

Men like to see their cum load splatter on our face and tits

I completely agree! I don't care if she swallows or not, but seeing my cum on a woman's body is incredibly satisfying. On her face, dripping off her tits, on her stomach, in her bush ... all so very hot!

 

[trojank]

Yep same as above ...in a to see my cum shoot across my partner ...

 

[Mangrowl02]

For me, spitting vs swallowing isn't the issue. I could care less. However, I dislike an abrupt end to to the blowjob. After ejaculating, there are so many sensations going on down there. It just feels so damn good. In my experience, girls who swallow tend to linger a bit more, giving me much more post ejaculation attention. That is what I love.

The girls I've been with who spit, tend to end the experience much sooner. I've been with girls, who at the first sign of ejaculate completely disengage because the orgasm runs its course. And I've been with girls who stay with me longer through the orgasm, but run to the bathroom (or finds the closest towel) to spit the moment they believe I've stopped cumming.

Frankly, if a girl doesn't want to swallow and feel uncomfortable with the cum in their mouth, I'd prefer they just open their mouth and let the cum run out of their mouth on me. Especially if that meant they'd stick around to give me more attention with her mouth or hand. Lord know I have to wipe myself off after masterbasting... I'd be delighted to clean myself up after fantastic oral.

Also, cum can be disposed of other ways, while many men are not agreeable to it, I enjoy being snowballed. The level of intimacy is insane, especially if the alternative is running to the sink to spit, which completely destroys all the intimacy that had built up. If oral is part of foreplay, the race to the bathroom is terrible.

 

[HayleyLuvsSex]

in my experience, men care a fair bit

 

[WizardSoDirty]

You like her to suck you anyway right
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I'm suspicious. The example in your initial post doesn't show the girl swallowing. She might have gotten a drop or two.

I'll take it as a serious question anyway.

In porn,I can appreciate almost anything except the "baby bird" thing. I just hate that. Facials I wouldn't mind other than they've been so overdone I find most of those boring.
The cum gargling thing .... don't get me started. I don't really blame the girls, on the other hand the people that must be coaching them to do this stuff must have some kind of really special immaturity. Is the "point and laugh" crowd really spending that much money on porn? Oh, you didn't do any market research you just thought what? I don't think I'll ever get that, probably a good thing I don't.

It does seem that some women really get off on facials (receiving them) I'm surprised but I sort of understand that.
On screen whether or not it gets me going depends a lot on her reaction. If she's clearly into it I can find even the stuff I m not usually into really hot. If it looks contrived or that she's uncomfortable it's a turn off.


Now in real life evidently if I'm getting anything like a realistic idea of what other guys like I must be in the minority. I'm not really into deep throat that much although there's been a few women that make it feel really good. I'm not really sure what they do different.
I was surprised to have women tell me that they get off on being gagged they seem to be sincere (the ones that told me, I'm not claiming all women like it) so, OK.
If it's up to me most of the time if I had my choice , the swallowing part isn't that important. But if she's into it what feels the best to me is cumming in her mouth with her tongue working on the underside from about the halfway point outward. Most girls that have done this for me have swallowed which kind of keeps the moment going. I'm fine with her doing anything other than choking as if it were battery acid or something similar, it makes me feel bad. If that's how she's going to react honestly I'm perfectly fine if she doesn't do it. She get points for bravery though. I'd rather she not do that since she's not into it.
One of my first GFs used to do the "this is so terrible" thing and for a long time it was really hard for me to cum in a chick's mouth. Some started asking why I didn't, was it they weren't doing it right so I 'fessed up For the most part I'm over that but It's still a thing where I'd rather want to know what she wants.

That being said there's a very few women that are soooo good at it it's all I can do to keep from cumming almost as soon as she starts. If I happen to be standing having to grab on to something to keep from collapsing helps just a little, LOL I'm serious.


Other than that I can get into it if she likes it on her tits , belly, butt... I'm easy.
It's all good I can go with the flow.

The other thing to me that feels really, really good is the lemon squeezer. I've taught some how to do this , and to do it right (or at least the way I like it) and I can take it as long as she'll keep doing it. It's so good that I 'm fine if I don't cum but if it ends that way it's soooo good but as soon as I quit spurting it's so sensitive I make most of them turn loose.
That's probably why I understood when I was going down on them when they'd say their clit got sensitive and learned to let up just a little while she rides it out. When she's done with that part I'll usually maintain contact but not move or mover ever so slightly. Most seem pleasantly surprised for some reason. LOL

Reading other responses about the ladies that jump up and run to the bathroom to spit... if it's that bad how do they make it?

 

[WizardSoDirty]

After ejaculating, there are so many sensations going on down there. It just feels so damn good. In my experience, girls who swallow tend to linger a bit more, giving me much more post ejaculation attention.

Yeah!!!

But ladies, if you've done something that's made me cum really, really hard... usually something that's taken a long time... ( if I'm just only able to flop around like a fish out of water, but less energetic is a good indicator. If we've been together before there will be a much larger puddle and a more powerful spurt so you probably want to not have it pointing at your eye... yeah you like that, huh? !!!)... know that especially when that happens my orgasm's still going after I've quit spurting (sometimes 5-10 minutes... yeah) if you keep going (oh damn, please be easy) you're going to be greatly rewarded after I recover. Just be patient, it's going to take awhile. If you want to speed that up you might offer me something cold and wet, I'm not going to be able to drink it for at least 15 minutes. It's normal, don't panic.

 

[The_Hype]

At this point, I'll just be happy the she's touching it.

 

[InsatiableMan]

Swallow every drop. And moan as she drains my balls.

 

[blue80driver]

Doesn’t really matter to me.

 

[Knoturnal]

I’ll just say it’s nicer if she swallows because the head or tip of my cock is sensitive when I cum if not it would still be nice if she would at least let her mouth still be on my cock when I cum she can let it slide down my cock if she doesn’t want to swallow.

What would not be good would be to jump up and go spit it out in the bathroom or somewhere as soon as I cum. That would be like me doing the same thing if I was eating her. Just spoils the mood on my opinion.

 

[Corbie]

Men like to see their cum load splatter on our face and tits

I like it either way--cumming on her face and tits, or swallowed.

 

[RichardBentwood]

Hell I would be ecstatic if she even looked at my dick.