Men Conservative in Bed

[TN_Vixen]

Why is it that I continually find the men in my life to be so conservative in bed. One guy I dated only liked to do it "missonary style". Jeeze, c'mon people! I love to experiment, to get wild, maybe with a little bit of exhibitionism, a whole lot of voyuerism and some light bondage and s&m scattered in with all the so-called 'normal' sex. My ex-hubby thought I was a pervert becuase I loved porn movies and mags. I would scour places that I thought would have erotica for sale and he'd roll his eyes. I'm not talking fido, people... I'm talking normal fun, experimental sex. Let's get raw, alright? *smile* Where are the MEN into this?

 

[Guest]

The wild men are out there, somewhere. By any chance do you live in a more conservative area? Sometimes that can put a damper on your search for Mr. Wild.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Well, ok.. I live in TN and I guess that does explain things a bit. Sucks, though. *smile*

 

[Guest]

Don't worry hon. I live in Nebraska for crying out loud! But I have found some kinky and wild men. SO, 'm sure you can dig some up if you keep looking. Have you tried the personal's area here at Lit?

~Tiggs~
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[OUTSIDER]

This is sad but true.

A lot of guy's are simply to scared to ask for anyhting out of the ordinary in bed because they don't want to cross some imagined line and spoil what they'v got.

It maybe a shity way to act but a lot of men reason that a boreing fuck is better than no fuck at all.

Maybe you gal's will just have to take us guy's in hand and just demand we screw you kinky style.

 

[TN_Vixen]

Oh, well this raises another question. I dated this one guy who told me that I was *too* kinky.. whatever that means. Later he told me that he couldn't reconcile the "good girl" and "bad girl" parts in me. that's just WRONG! laughing.

 

[Expertise]

Screw that! He is certainly not the "rule" The Madonna/Mary Magdalene dichotomy is the dream of almost every guy I know

 

[TN_Vixen]

THAT'S what I thought! *hands on hips* Hell, you just can't please men, can you? Jeeze, if it isn't height, it is something else entirely. *laughing*

 

[WriterDom]

I don't think the south is any less "kinky" behind closed doors.. maybe you are just looking in the wrong places..

 

[Guest]

I've noticed from experience that many men out there want a gal who is a "whore" in bed, but a "good girl" elsewhere. ~sigh~ Kinda sucks too when you're an exhibitionist!

~Tiggs~

 

[Nogard]

I was already to post a scathing reply, but will back off, because you are somehow looking in the wrong place. My primary purpose has always been to make my partner happy, when I did that everything came back better than I gave. Find someone that cares for someone other than themselves

 

[Latina]

Damn, this thread makes me sad for y'all. And like
the luckiest lady alive to have my Frank.

Hubby shares his X tapes with me, AND likes to experiment.
We often go to local sex shop together, that's where I got the edible underwear that dissolved when I went down on
him and left an orange stain on my face that was still
there when I attended a friend's party the next day (see
my story Latina Goes Shopping). I'll NEVER buy those again!

He goes to a woman-owned lingerie store, with or without me,
and buys me the most wonderful outfits. He loves to let
me ride him and take charge. We've done it in every room
of our house, in a waterfall in a secluded lake (fulfilling
my lifelong fantasy), in the woods, in the freight-elevator
lobby of a mall (between the potted palm trees). God,
now I'm feeling so deliciously NAUGHTY!

So cheer up, these men are OUT there. I found and married
him through a dating service, you get to read a profile of
the person and see his video, then we talked on the phone
for 6 weeks before meeting in person. Dating sevices are
NOT for the desperate. You can weed out those who don't
fit what you're looking for, and the guy never even knows
you found and rejected him. Good dating services cost a
LOT, so if a guy shells out the money, he's not desperate,
he's SERIOUS about findng a good committed relationship.
A LOT better than looking in a bar or whatever! And at
least in my case, the guy I found is loving, caring,
and KNOWS what to do!

-- Latina

 

[Dudley]

Ain't No Place I'd Rather Be...

Well, ok.. I live in TN...

Have you tried leading him out to the boat and yelling, "Take me like a bigmouth bass, you fishing stud?"

Just asking...

 

[Gil]

I've reregistered as a Libertarian just so that no one would ever mistake me for a conservative in bed!

 

[Sparky Kronkite]

Where?

Right here...... as always. Jungle Jim. Slammin' Sammy. Wild Man. Boomer. Me.

 

[Lajo]

Here I am TN-Vixen. Your ex sounds like my wife. In the bedroom, lights off, missionary position. Of course, that is when we actually had sex (been over 7 months).
I would love to experiment...nothing outrageously drastic, but everything you mentioned sounds like something that would be well worth trying once...or twice.

 

[Guest]

Damn, this thread makes me sad for y'all. And like
the luckiest lady alive to have my Frank.

So cheer up, these men are OUT there.

I know those men are out there! I've met them before. lol Hell, in fact, all of the true perverts in my life I met online. (And yes, met them in person too!) Hell, I could write out a list too, but it would take a while. lol

~Dr Tiggs~
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[Bushido71XS]

The Madonna/Mary Magdalene dichotomy is the dream of almost every guy I know

Exp, I think that has something to do with the Queen in the kitchen/ Whore in the bedroom ideal. Don't you think?