I had another interesting thought/question.
I hope you don't mind a vanilla but curious person asking questions! I really am respectful of your lifestyle and would like to become more educated.
OK ... here was something I thought about ...
In the vanilla world, I've noticed that men are often more physical-sensation oriented about sex. And women are often more emotional-sensation oriented. At least in my experience, women are more likely to want men's emotional presence during sex, and men are more likely to be satisfied with just the physical presence. I know it's a stereotype, and I understand the law of exceptions! But I just mean in general.
So I wondered about in the BDSM world ..... do male submissives prefer the physical aspect of submission - like are they more interested in the feel of pain, for example? While female submissives might be more interested in the emotional sensation of belonging to someone? I know I'm making stereotypes! But ... do you think there could be some truth in that?
Do women tend to want less corporal punishment and more emotional contact?
-- Beth
I hope you don't mind a vanilla but curious person asking questions! I really am respectful of your lifestyle and would like to become more educated.
OK ... here was something I thought about ...
In the vanilla world, I've noticed that men are often more physical-sensation oriented about sex. And women are often more emotional-sensation oriented. At least in my experience, women are more likely to want men's emotional presence during sex, and men are more likely to be satisfied with just the physical presence. I know it's a stereotype, and I understand the law of exceptions! But I just mean in general.
So I wondered about in the BDSM world ..... do male submissives prefer the physical aspect of submission - like are they more interested in the feel of pain, for example? While female submissives might be more interested in the emotional sensation of belonging to someone? I know I'm making stereotypes! But ... do you think there could be some truth in that?
Do women tend to want less corporal punishment and more emotional contact?
-- Beth