How do you go about looking for potential partners?
I don't mean a casual play partner but a serious, long-term partner?
I've recently been thrown back into the D/s dating scene and am so frustrated at the low number of people I've met. I've got ads up on every D/s oriented website I know, as well as several vanilla ones, but I'm having problems finding people that meet even basic criteria such as age and location (seems like everyone lives 1000 miles away or is 80yrs old...) And of course, that's without even having a chance to consider more in depth preferences like religion, wanting kids, etc.
Any advice on places to meet people? There are no groups that hold munches close to here (I live way out in a rural county). The closest would be at least an hour away, which isn't feasible since I work in the evening. I am very private, and something of a home body, so the club scene doesn't really appeal to me.
It's just so frustrating...I hate being alone, and would like to at least start meeting people and dating again, but I'm having no luck whatsoever...
I don't mean a casual play partner but a serious, long-term partner?
I've recently been thrown back into the D/s dating scene and am so frustrated at the low number of people I've met. I've got ads up on every D/s oriented website I know, as well as several vanilla ones, but I'm having problems finding people that meet even basic criteria such as age and location (seems like everyone lives 1000 miles away or is 80yrs old...) And of course, that's without even having a chance to consider more in depth preferences like religion, wanting kids, etc.
Any advice on places to meet people? There are no groups that hold munches close to here (I live way out in a rural county). The closest would be at least an hour away, which isn't feasible since I work in the evening. I am very private, and something of a home body, so the club scene doesn't really appeal to me.
It's just so frustrating...I hate being alone, and would like to at least start meeting people and dating again, but I'm having no luck whatsoever...