Meeting old flames

[stickygirl]

I don't think I've seen a thread for this - tell me if you know of one - but tthis is to share the experience of meeting an old flame ( a past bf or gf ).
How did it make you feel? Were they still sexy? Would you go out with them again or did it just bring back bad memories?

I'm posting because I was just visited by my first true love. We'd emailed occasionally for birthdays etc but he dropped me an email earlier today, saying he was passing and could he call in ( or not would be fine too ) so I said yes, of course.
I still feel excited now, though he left a while ago. He always inspired me: he'd been through University and is still an academic and we met in my year before I went to Uni myself. Without a doubt his enthusiasm and approach changed my outlook completely and I wouldn't have done half as well had it not been for his help. I still look up to him and his visit has sparked off some ideas.

Sex was good when we were a couple, but I wouldn't sleep with him now ( besides, I don't have what he is attracted to anymore ). Plus he was a bit of a body fascist and more than a little arrogant but he had the brains to carry it off... He's a good person to drag out of a box every now and again.

So that's my hot off the press story, but please add your own. No topic barred!

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I had a fuck buddy relationship (the woman in my stories). After a while, she found someone and we stopped seeing each other.

About a year or so later, out of the blue, she called me to ask if I was seeing anyone, and if I would like to be with her that evening. She came over, for sex - just like the old days - and came "prepared" the way she knew I wanted.

We had stand up sex about 2-minutes after I greeted her at the door. We were still fuck buddies only though. So, another 6 months or so later she found someone new.

 

[VA_Boy]

Horrible Idea

So last year the first love of my life called me out of the blue. We had a 2 year relationship, which in retrospect was all bad. She was my first sexual experience, possessive, jealous and there was a 10 year difference in our ages. I used to help with housework and bills, etc. So I was devastated when she dumped me one day with no reason or warning. Last saw/spoke to her in 1990!

So she wanted to meet me for lunch. I wanted answers about the break up, not looking to rekindle anything!! She told me she got Lyme disease, which caused her lots of physical pain as well as mental problems. She told me that after she dumped me she got married but the guy was an abusive jerk which made her Lyme disease worse, and she divorced him. Then told me with a straight face she was never with another man again. She "realized when she lost me, that I was the best she ever had." She said there was no point in having anybody else if she could not have me. She also apologized for breaking up with me, but told me she could not remember why she did it because of the Lyme disease. My psycho radar was smoking by this time!! We left the lunch cordially.

Couple weeks later I get a text on my birthday. From Her. "Happy Birthday I still Love You." WTF? I called her. She said every year I tell you out loud Happy Birthday and I love you!!! I asked her not to call me (someone I work with gave her my cell# after she asked), text me or otherwise make contact. She flipped her lid, starts hollering and screaming. I had to hang up. Thank goodness no more contact but I still look over my shoulder and watch my rear view mirror!!!!

 

[WykdWytch]

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