Meaningless Sex?

[juicylips]

Is there such a thing?

Does it depend on whether you are in love with that person or just in lust with them?

Don't you feel that sometimes afterwards you have left just a little part of yourself with that person? (no, I am not talking just about cum, either)

Cassidy

 

[Paradox]

I don't feel like I've ever had meaningless sex. Don't think I would like to, either. For me, there has to be a connection and I would equate meaningless sex with no connection.

 

[Savage Kitten]

Is there such a thing?Cassidy

Yep, It's called masturbation


*this has been Sk speaking from expierence*

 

[plasticman33]

I guess the possibility exists.....

But I haven't experienced it. Heck even with masturbation your having sex with someone you love!

 

[seXieleXie]

i don't know if meaningless is quite the word to attach to sex outside of a committed relationship. even if you're not in love with the person, sex still has emotional (and other) consequences.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I'd say that meaningless sex is sex without emotion. Fucking for the sake of fucking, without any sort of attachment to that person.

And yes, I've had it. More times than I'd like to admit.

 

[MissTaken]

I would honestly have to say that I had completely meaningless sex.....once! It was awful! It was time to paint the fingernails while he huffed and puffed onward and upward. I simply waited for him to finish and sent him on his way.

Otherwise, sex with friends and lovers always has some meaning for me.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I believe there is meaningless sex, but I don't want it.
That's why i'm waiting. I want something that means something to me and her.

 

[mig]

Masturbation isn't meaningless.


but


It's so lonely.

 

[MacCortz]

Re: Re: Meaningless Sex?

Yep, It's called masturbation


Agree and disagree... singular masterbation with no other participation, I agree is meaningless sex.

..However when more than one mind is envolved as in phone/cyber/etc. the exchange makes it meaningful.

 

[Kymberley]

I don't have a problem with it

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47271

 

[Calamity Jane]

Re: I don't have a problem with it

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=47271

Is this the fuck buddy thread?

I've had fuck buddies too, but i don't consider sex with them completely meaningless since i was friends with them, just not looking for any sort of romantic attachment. i was attracted to them, to their body and brain, just not with any romanticism involved.

the meaningless sex i was talking about is more along the lines of picking a guy up in a bar, taking him to your apartment, fucking him silly, and never seeing him again. (which has it's benefits, but i'd still consider it meaningless)

 

[Kymberley]

Re: Re: I don't have a problem with it

Is this the fuck buddy thread?



the meaningless sex i was talking about is more along the lines of picking a guy up in a bar, taking him to your apartment, fucking him silly, and never seeing him again. (which has it's benefits, but i'd still consider it meaningless)

Nope just a pure sex thought. I don't care if I would ever see them again. Could care less what their last names are or anything else about them.

Just fucking til we can't cum anymore then leaving.

 

[Kaos_Star]

well i have only had sex with one person and that is my g/f of three years and i can say that i have never had meaningless sex. sex is a very enjoyable expierence to me. it is special. that is the one thing she can give me that can not just go out and buy and still get the level of satifaction if that makes sense. i don't really consider masterbation sex, but is one way of getting through the---dun dun dun---period. i hate that time. no sex for Kaos Star. ahhhhhhhhh....i hate it. thank goodness i have ol'righty. well later.

 

[juicylips]

I'd say that meaningless sex is sex without emotion. Fucking for the sake of fucking, without any sort of attachment to that person.

That is what I mean. You can do that and not give the person another thought after they leave?

I can perfectly understand about fucking for fucks sake. It's a sexual attraction itch and you scratch it. No problem.

Cassidy

 

[Sabineteas]

I'd say that meaningless sex is sex without emotion. Fucking for the sake of fucking, without any sort of attachment to that person.

And yes, I've had it. More times than I'd like to admit.

Yes, I agree with Pagancowgirl. Something with a pick-up, just to scratch an itch. And unfortunately like her, more than I would like to admit also. Not for a long time now though, which makes me feel better about myself. I was always a little guilty afterwards.

 

[Styphon]

Is there such a thing?

Of course! You have an urge, and you scratch it - end of story.


Styphon

 

[T.H. Oughts]

If there is afterglow, it must of meant something......

I've never been one to do it, just becasue it was there asking for it.....

 

[Scabbers]

I'd like to give it to you, Cassidy,

That is what I mean. You can do that and not give the person another thought after they leave?

I can perfectly understand about fucking for fucks sake. It's a sexual attraction itch and you scratch it. No problem.

Cassidy

And you're free to derive whatever meaning you like from it. It would mean a lot to me

 

[Moridin187]

I believe there is meaningless sex, but I don't want it.
That's why i'm waiting. I want something that means something to me and her.

I'm with Fly. Meaningless sex exists, but I don't want it. To me sex has always been more about the mental and emotional aspects than the pure physicality of it, the ultimate expression of love. Maybe I'm just a naive, hopless romantic *shrug*

 

[tn_8tiv]

Same question as on the "personals" page about a relationship.

Yes, we can have meaningless sex. I had several meaningless encounters when I was a teen-ager. Wouldn't go near such a person if I were not driven by such a strong urge to "fuck". I know it was meaningless because afterward I encouraged my partner to have at it with my friends.

After many years of searching for that perfect relationship, I have found that it all boils down to communications and establishing common interest and desires. Unfortunately, I have found that with someone who is not my wife and although I wish it were different, we both enjoy each other in a MEANINGFUL relationship.

Sorry if I ramble, but as an experienced individual, I encourage you to seek meaning over lust!

 

[GulfCoastAquarian]

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