Masturbation?

[Zamdrist]

How was this topic handled by your parents when you were a child? Was it discussed? Swept under the rug. Told it would make you blind and crazy if you did it?

Personally for me, it was swept under the rug, never to be spoken about. There was an implied 'badness' about it. Probably why, most of the time, it produces the best orgasms for me.

You?

 

[lobito]

Talk about sex? Are you crazy? There was NEVER any sex type of talking in our home(s)

 

[Tyrael]

I learned about sex from tv, books, erotic stories and my friends.

The closest thing to a "sex talk" my dad gave me is the beating he would give me if I got some girl pregnant.

Ahh, can you feel the love?

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Talk about sex? Are you crazy? There was NEVER any sex type of talking in our home(s)

Ditto.

 

[CarolineOh]

How was this topic handled by your parents when you were a child? Was it discussed? Swept under the rug. Told it would make you blind and crazy if you did it?

Personally for me, it was swept under the rug, never to be spoken about. There was an implied 'badness' about it. Probably why, most of the time, it produces the best orgasms for me.

You?

All I knew was that there was a bad thing you could do with your hands, after which nuns would whack them with a ruler.

 

[Phoenyx]

Everythign I know about se I learn from playboy and hustler and penthouse.

 

[Bindii]

It was never discussed in my house.....parents are so strange sometimes!

 

[Monazwx]

Lobito, T.H. Oughts and Bindii obviously lived in my house.
To this day, my folks have never said one word about sex.

(Maybe that's why I'm so 'curious' now!)

 

[chewbacca71]

My parents gave me some books that talked about sex and reproduction and it had a big chapter on masturbation. My parents already had four kids so they realized it was inevitable, so after the books, it was not much talked about.

 

[Bob Peale]

My mother waited until my sons were born to broach the whole subject of the Birds & the Bees.

I let her know I think I had it covered.

 

[1hotjob]

I'm still learning from this place!

 

[amelia]

How was this topic handled by your parents when you were a child? Was it discussed? Swept under the rug. Told it would make you blind and crazy if you did it?

my parents were very open about sex...they answered any questions...and in fact..when the time came for the "BIG TALK", my parents gave me a quiz they had designed to find out how much i already knew..as for masturbation..i actually learn some of my best techniques from an article i found in one of my dad's porns....so...all in all..my parents made me the sex addicted freak i am today!! thanks mom and dad!!!!!!!

 

[Zamdrist]

Everythign I know about se I learn from playboy and hustler and penthouse.

Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

God I remember the PRIZED Playboy or Hustler stashed in a wooded section of my neighborhood where I grew up. For some reason it always disappeared though...

You know, the one that was missing pages and was all crinkly from exposure to the weather. (I know what you're thinking.)

Maybe it was just my neighborhood.

 

[Phoenyx]

Is that a good thing or a bad thing?

Good.

I didnt end up with my parents outdated small Greek village attitudes towards sex.

 

[Allexus_TN]

It was never discussed. I had the "sex talk" and they readily answered any questions I had. But that particular subject never came up. I'm sure if I had asked about it, they would have answered those questions too.

 

[Ginny]

never ever discussed in our house....i guess i was 13-14....i figured out how to do it....in the bathtub one day.....that thick gush of water just looked like it would feel good on my pussy....like a cock...i scooted my lil butt toward it...spread my thighs....pulled knees back....the hard stream hit my clit.....omfg....orgasm city....and the beginning of my love affair with my clit......

 

[Zamdrist]

...i scooted my lil butt toward it...spread my thighs....pulled knees back....the hard stream hit my clit.....omfg....orgasm city....and the beginning of my love affair with my clit......

Damn it Ginny!

Could you try to put a bit more content in your posts? Let go! Just let it fly! Tell us how it really was...

 

[Zamdrist]

Re: Re: Masturbation?

....so...all in all..my parents made me the sex addicted freak i am today!! thanks mom and dad!!!!!!!

Welcome to the board...Amelia...

You'll fit, right in here I think.

 

[cutie pie]

Talk about sex? Are you crazy? There was NEVER any sex type of talking in our home(s)

Ditto, here.

Must be why we all ended up at Lit.

 

[chewbacca71]

Ditto, here.

Must be why we all ended up at Lit.

AHA, that is the common denominator of us all.

 

[Firegrl124]

sex i know about. my 'rents gave me a book , two books about how to do it, reproduction and all...they had sex books...i heard them (well, that was later when I was 17 and they were 40)....but masturbation....being 19, had sex, read about sex, studied sex in every form of it, male female beastuality. i love thinking about it, writing about it, talkinga bout it, giving lectures about it (to my friends of course), but to have an actual orgasm....

u are all looking at a person who has never had an orgasm in her life....that ruined one of the best relationships I had, because i just need to cum. i still haven't. after two yrs of having sex, i cna't cum. just doesn't happen to me.

no, i don't want ur help....i just need some help from that special person...and he has given up on me, because of course, i tell him that its not working...

dont get me wrong, i love the pleasure feeling...but to have the thing where ur body tingles and ur mind leaves ur body and blah blah blah...i know how to describe it...i just don't know how to feel it...


::sigh::

Fire

 

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[Mr.Luv69]

What's Masturbation

 

[Ginny]

Damn it Ginny!
Could you try to put a bit more content in your posts? Let go! Just let it fly! Tell us how it really was...

zam cutie...<laughing>....you know i post completely without substance....in my own "annoying style"....i can't stop now....

i was sure i was the only person my age doing such a thang...late 70's...stuff just wasn't talked about....our parents were all from the 50's...missed the hippie thang....mine were nervous reading the book, "How Babies Are Made" to me.....i spent a lottt of time in the bathroom....i got a hold of "The Joy of Sex" at this house where i babysat...i ended up masturbating there....on the job...as the kids slept....looking at the illustrations....it never took much....i'd probably have killed myself masturbating....had i had access to all the pervy stuff available online now.....i had a few books with steamy passages....the thorn birds...some judith krantz crap....a playboy my dad had stashed in his nightstand from 1971...then i started dating....eye yii yiiii.....

so tell us more about your early jacking, zam.....<smiling sweetly>....

 

[BustyTheClown]

Lol I didn't even know what masturbation was until I read about it in Linda Madaras's "What's Happening to My Body? Book for Girls." By the time I'd read about it and figured out what it was about (not to mention having been thoroughly confused as to what the hell an orgasm was), I decided it wasn't something I'd want to talk to my parents about, anyway... Needless to say, learning for myself had never been so much fun...