masturbation vs. sex

[SPARTAN047]

If the sex is bad, yes.

 

[NightBirdNYC]

Ultimately, nothing beats the intimacy and lust of great sex, the partnering with a lover in giving and receiving pleasure. But I still masturbate regularly, whether fantasizing, watching porn, giving the occasional voyeurs in the building across mine something to watch, or even all three.
https://vlix.io/video/9b97f706ec9148ce48d8/

 

[Fistboy]

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Ultimately, nothing beats the intimacy and lust of great sex, the partnering with a lover in giving and receiving pleasure. But I still masturbate regularly, whether fantasizing, watching porn, giving the occasional voyeurs in the building across mine something to watch, or even all three.
https://vlix.io/video/9b97f706ec9148ce48d8/

ow, wish that squirt was landing on my cock as I stroke it!

 

[eroticspank]

The more I read these posts, I see how masturbation can be very personal and a necessary part of alone time for some.

It seems to me when we were much younger, my lady and I were having sex all the time, and even when we were not if she or I got horny, it was a simple matter of going to the bedroom. Nowadays she has to catch me in the mood or I have to catch her in the mood. She is a morning person and I am a night person, we work different schedules, and finding time together in the bedroom is much more difficult. Sometimes masturbation is much easier and I am not bugging her to go to the bedroom when she is not in the mood.
ES

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I am a widow, and not ready for anything IRL, as far as a relationship or even dating.. Or anything really...
I masturbate a few times a week.. (not often, I know).. but sometimes daily.

I have fun buying different toys, it's like Xmas or birthday excitement

I love chatting with others while I'm masturbating, either by texting or phone

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

As sit here tonight as my husband is gone until tomorrow, I am enjoying some "me". Working up to pleasuring myself with several toys near me. My fantasies are all over the board, but I am going to indulge them as much as possible.

 

[ned63]

Since I don't get any sex from my wife, masturbation is my way of having sex. A lady here sends me vids or pics sometimes for me to masturbate too mmmmm

 

[AndyJacker]

I enjoy sex very much but I don't get it as often as I would like so I masturbate almost daily. It's me time, I can enjoy it with or without toys as long as I care to and how I want. Edging makes the orgasm all the better. With a woman, I make it more about her pleasure than my own.

Yes … it is so thrilling to bring a woman to a climax, whether from clit fingering, pussy eating, or good old fucking. Sometimes I focus on her so much that I have trouble cumming myself, but it is so worth it.

 

[goodsonformom]

I wrote about this in a different thread today. For me, masturbation is different from sex with another person. It's time for me to be with my own thoughts, my own body, and my own pleasure.

I love my husband, and he is a great lover. I also like being with women. But the year before last, when I had both Hubby and a girlfriend, I still masturbated. It's the ultimate "me" time.

I agree. I love sex with my wife or another partner, but I love my me time and being in control of my orgasm and fetishes...My kinks and fetishes are not always the same as my partners...

 

[Foolhen]

If I have the option, I would always choose sex over masturbating, but getting lots of sex has never the desire to masturbate. In fact, it is usually the opposite, where the experiences of reality stimulate my sexual imagination. I also think that the real and imaginative sexual experiences serve us different purposes. I might masturbate while imagining what I want to do to my wife when I see her, but then the reality ends up being something different. Both are valuable.

 

[secretthing]

Last night I met up with someone and had the best sex of my life. But I definitely don’t feel like sex replaces masturbation for me. No one does it better than myself. I love being able to take my time and go through as many fantasies as I want.

 

[Peppadance]

I get plenty of sex but it's always good to find time to masturbate. There's something really cool about being able to give yourself sexual pleasure and it's the one truly good thing in life that's completely free and readily available. I know where to touch to get the maximum effect.

Totally agree

 

[Easyvirtue]

Self love and intimacy is something I can never get enough of.

 

[LovelyLadyLicker]

There’s always something new to learn about myself. And it feels special to know that only I will know all of my quirks and kinks.

 

[JedNtheMtns]

Mmm sometimes you need to take matters into your own hands….hehe

So fucking true!

 

[FitMary]

There's a place in my life for both sex and masturbation. I'm often at home alone during the day, so keeping myself sexually excited is a great way to make the day more fun.

 

[Zephreck]

When you have a high sex drive it is important to be able to take care of your own needs. Sex with someone is always more intimate and enjoyable.

 

[lifeis2short2b]

Sex over masturbation every day of the week

 

[Xplrngplsr]

I absolutely love sex. Unfortunately, when your partner isn't as kinky or open-minded as you are, sometimes it's more fun to explore with yourself and feel free to be as dirty/kinky as you want. My partner would most likely be very closed to things I have done on my own.

 

[wwot40]

There's a place in my life for both sex and masturbation. I'm often at home alone during the day, so keeping myself sexually excited is a great way to make the day more fun.

Agreed!

 

[Kolejdayz]

I relate to this. Lately sex with my husband has not been that good. I don’t like to talk badly about him but he has stopped trying to give me an orgasm so I just do what I know will get him to finish and end it as soon as I can.
This has lead to me not wanting to bother with sex with him. I know what feels good and am often more fulfilled playing by myself.
It is sad but my reality right now.

was quite ill for a few months earlier this year and really wasn't into sex much at the time. My wife fingered herself to orgasm every night. I asked what she was thinking about and she told me she thought about her college lovers

 

[womaneater58]

I enjoy sex the most. There is nothing better than foreplay and eating pussy before good sex. However, I also enjoy masturbation and masturbate almost daily and frequently video record myself to watch again. Watching my own cum shot in a mirror or reviewing video keeps me hard for round two.