masturbation technique

ladyadonia30

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not sure if this is the proper place to post..but I'm having at it.

I was asked by a fellow member, how I masturbate.
So I answered....and am posting it...how about everyone else? What's the technique?



I get an image in my mind, whether it be someone I have chatted with, a moment my husband and I share, or something I recall from a porn. My mind is a giant roladex, all sorts of memories are stored away. I will lay down on my bed, spreading my legs. I wear thong panties, I am sure to push the crotch of them aside so I have easy access to the love nub. My index finger from the right hand will flick and roll the clit. Pill rolling with slight pressure. When I feel the ache begin to well, I will grab my pink rubber vibrator that my husband bought me. I lick the head of it and then turn it on, pressing it firmly onto my clit. It stimulates me the best when I move it around in a tight circular motion. My free hand will pull at my nipples roughly.....my muscles in my legs get pretty tight as the feeling of pleasure begins to take over down below. I'll dip the head of the vibrator into my pussy....ram it in a few times then put it back onto my clit....I will stick two fingers into my pussy and press the paddings of my fingers upward, pointing to my stomach, where the G-spot is located. It feels rough, ribbed..so I know when I am touching it. I will apply firm pressure onto my G-Spot, I feel it swell as I am getting closer to release. My clit is very sensative at this point so the vibrator must not be pressed so firmly onto it. I ease up...pressing my fingers deeper into my G-spot in a beckoning motion.....I feel my clit become more engorged and the tickling sensations turn to a sensation of fire and desire. Just as my clit begins to jerk spasmodicly..much like a cock does as it spits, I remove my fingers from my pussy and the orgasm that errupts is so powerful, fluid is expressed from my pussy in small spurts. My legs shake, I will either cry out if alone, or keep my lips pursed shut as my orgasm takes over me. I lay there a moment, savoring the sensations that take over me, and if I have time, I wait a minute and do it again, or..I clean up and get in the shower.
 
ladyadonia30 said:
not sure if this is the proper place to post..but I'm having at it.

I was asked by a fellow member, how I masturbate.
So I answered....and am posting it...how about everyone else? What's the technique?



I get an image in my mind, whether it be someone I have chatted with, a moment my husband and I share, or something I recall from a porn. My mind is a giant roladex, all sorts of memories are stored away. I will lay down on my bed, spreading my legs. I wear thong panties, I am sure to push the crotch of them aside so I have easy access to the love nub. My index finger from the right hand will flick and roll the clit. Pill rolling with slight pressure. When I feel the ache begin to well, I will grab my pink rubber vibrator that my husband bought me. I lick the head of it and then turn it on, pressing it firmly onto my clit. It stimulates me the best when I move it around in a tight circular motion. My free hand will pull at my nipples roughly.....my muscles in my legs get pretty tight as the feeling of pleasure begins to take over down below. I'll dip the head of the vibrator into my pussy....ram it in a few times then put it back onto my clit....I will stick two fingers into my pussy and press the paddings of my fingers upward, pointing to my stomach, where the G-spot is located. It feels rough, ribbed..so I know when I am touching it. I will apply firm pressure onto my G-Spot, I feel it swell as I am getting closer to release. My clit is very sensative at this point so the vibrator must not be pressed so firmly onto it. I ease up...pressing my fingers deeper into my G-spot in a beckoning motion.....I feel my clit become more engorged and the tickling sensations turn to a sensation of fire and desire. Just as my clit begins to jerk spasmodicly..much like a cock does as it spits, I remove my fingers from my pussy and the orgasm that errupts is so powerful, fluid is expressed from my pussy in small spurts. My legs shake, I will either cry out if alone, or keep my lips pursed shut as my orgasm takes over me. I lay there a moment, savoring the sensations that take over me, and if I have time, I wait a minute and do it again, or..I clean up and get in the shower.

That’s a damn fine description hopefully mines lives up to yours. I start out by getting in a comfortable position on my bed or on the couch. I find it enjoyable to spread my legs apart wide allowing my penis to point directly north. I than begin either thinking of a picture on the internet I have recently seen or a porn video I have recently watched, or perhaps a woman I recently had sex with or, sometimes I find it enjoyable to call a personals chat line and find a woman to talk with. As I do one of these things I slowly unzip my jeans and slide my right hand into the slit of my boxer briefs and casually massage my balls as they begin to tighten. I than with my left hand grab a bottle of Lotion and place a generous amount on my balls and my shaft while my right hand works it deeply onto my cock. By this time my penis is throbbing and hot as the circumcised head swells to the size of a small mushroom. As I continue to work my shaft over by puling on it like I am wringing out a wet rag, the tip of my penis starts to open slightly and a bit of precum trickles out and slides down my rod and makes my jerking movements much smoother and fast. As I do this my left hand grips firmly around my sac and my balls begin to boil with my sperm. this movement causes me to imagine a woman’s ass slapping against my balls and makes my right begin to feverishly tug at my shaft while my grip gets tighter and tighter like a pussy constricting. As this happens my mind begins to race and floods of images from my past interactions with sex come to the forefront and i begin to moan out loud. this goes on for about five minutes as I tease my cock by going slow than fast as if simulating my dick inside a beautiful woman’s pussy. After a few moments of this I feel my balls begin to constrict and I feel my fiery hot cum moving to through my shaft. At this moment I stand up and with all of my might aim my dick towards the wall and shoot my sperm all over the floor, As I give one last gasp of energy. I than head to the shower and gently massage my penis with soap as I feel the warm water clean me off.
 
well done

well, now I have something to think about in the shower, with the detachable head
another wonderful toy

by the way, that was well depicted!!! hehe..thanks for the image.
Nothing hotter than a man jacking off.
 
lady, that was terrific! what a great image! how often do you do it? it would be awesome to watch or hear that! thanks
 
ty

ladyadonia30 said:
well, now I have something to think about in the shower, with the detachable head
another wonderful toy

by the way, that was well depicted!!! hehe..thanks for the image.
Nothing hotter than a man jacking off.

thank you i have been doing it for years. I also used to enjoy wrapping a pair of my ex girlfriends panties around my dick and than cumming on them and leaving them for her to find, it was a nice little way of letting her know i was thinking of her
 
haha

and marking territory prof.

How often do I please me? Hmmm every other day at least. Depends. One week, it was daily.....

this week..so far, every other day. I do it in the shower, bed room.....and can master cumming without touching myself at all...my ex husband didn't believe me when I told him I do tantra and can cum without touching myself. So whilst at dinner at a fancy little place, I sat there..face squinted...lips pursed....leg muscles stiff, as though seizing..I came.

mind over matter
 
ladyadonia30 said:
and marking territory prof.

How often do I please me? Hmmm every other day at least. Depends. One week, it was daily.....

this week..so far, every other day. I do it in the shower, bed room.....and can master cumming without touching myself at all...my ex husband didn't believe me when I told him I do tantra and can cum without touching myself. So whilst at dinner at a fancy little place, I sat there..face squinted...lips pursed....leg muscles stiff, as though seizing..I came.

mind over matter


I heard on the sex talk show that comes on sunday nights at 11, that some women can cum by flexing the inner muscle ( can't remember it's medical name). So I tried it, and it works, must flex really hard. My lover has told me I have an incredible muscle. And he was there when she was talking about this on the show, he looked over at me with that little smile and said, so how often do you give yourself this thrill. I smiled back, and said ohh now and then.
My masterbation is similar to yours, I like to rub my clit on one side. I am very sensitive and I can not take a vibrator around or on my clit. I used a rubber penis to insert inside me. I browse my immagination for past sex experiences or some fantasies I have. As I become very arroused my clit is very hard and stiff. As I reach my orgasm, first I wlll contract and then peak further, pull out the rubber penis, giving a slight push will gush. Sometimes thou if very good, will have uncontrollable squirting, will spray all the way off the bed. And I always make sure I have towels under me. Most of my enjoyment is due to finding my G spot like 10 years ago.
As an added note, and question, If you have other lovers how do you bring up the subject of gushing or squirting and the need for towels? I have not tried to teach anyone else about this, but have been considering doing so lately. I had better claify, teaching a male where my spot is lol.
 
Sounds like you ladies really know what your doing. I have always wanted to try the whole tantric thing but have yet to find a partner to teach me. I do however have a trick for holding my cum for an hour. I practice it when I masterbate. Everytime I am about to explode I release my grip and make my mind calm down and I pinch off the sperm by constricting my cock. It works when I am having sex rather well as long as I dont wait to long to pinch. It can hurt a bi but the joy of having a sweating wet woman under me for an hour is enough to make me forget about it.
 
soakersue said:
I heard on the sex talk show that comes on sunday nights at 11, that some women can cum by flexing the inner muscle ( can't remember it's medical name). So I tried it, and it works, must flex really hard. My lover has told me I have an incredible muscle. And he was there when she was talking about this on the show, he looked over at me with that little smile and said, so how often do you give yourself this thrill. I smiled back, and said ohh now and then.
My masterbation is similar to yours, I like to rub my clit on one side. I am very sensitive and I can not take a vibrator around or on my clit. I used a rubber penis to insert inside me. I browse my immagination for past sex experiences or some fantasies I have. As I become very arroused my clit is very hard and stiff. As I reach my orgasm, first I wlll contract and then peak further, pull out the rubber penis, giving a slight push will gush. Sometimes thou if very good, will have uncontrollable squirting, will spray all the way off the bed. And I always make sure I have towels under me. Most of my enjoyment is due to finding my G spot like 10 years ago.
As an added note, and question, If you have other lovers how do you bring up the subject of gushing or squirting and the need for towels? I have not tried to teach anyone else about this, but have been considering doing so lately. I had better claify, teaching a male where my spot is lol.

Sue...

Just say you squirt....

I think you'll find most guys will LOVE it. :)
 
squirt

I agree soaker, the best thing to do is just tell him up front, i would a loady to show me the map to her G-spot, might makes things much easier. beisde I am always in for a good show.
 
thanks

Thanks dirtybear, vibes, and of course prof

I appreciate the feedback. I did date a man for a year, a couple of times I did some small gushes. He just did not ask, and He never asked like " how or why" so ... I was unsure how to bring it up. He also kind of bored me in bed after awhile, cause he would be like " make me ready babe" And of course he liked me on top, as I have alot of passion and energy. Well... anyway I just stoped going to see him and he did not like making the arrangements to come to see me, and well that was that. I guess you guys don't need to hear my dating woes eh. And the crazy part is... I love sex. A couple of times per day would be great. You probably kind of figured that huh. I really kind of came out of the closet when I posted here. nice pun eh, and you guys where very nice, and so ... matter of fact. That puts me at ease. Thanks
 
ladyadonia30 said:
When I feel the ache begin to well.....

I experience that same aching...it starts in my groin and I know I'm going to have a really hard orgasm. I haven't ever read anyone else mentioning that, though I know many must experience it. You have a very descriptive post.
 
I must say, these are wonderful stories. Thank you to everyone who contributed.

Sue, in response to your question about how do you tell your lover that you squirt, my suggestion would be to be up front about it . Some men fanticize about it (yes, I know this to be true :) )! He would be a lucky man to share that experieince with you! I know that I would feel wonderful sharing that. Knowing that together, we helped her experieince that much pleasure would be amazing! :D
 
dixie50 said:
I experience that same aching...it starts in my groin and I know I'm going to have a really hard orgasm. I haven't ever read anyone else mentioning that, though I know many must experience it. You have a very descriptive post.

I get a similar feeling when I stroke on my cock for long periods of time, the ejaculation is so intensemy thighs tend to hurt afterwards.
 
Skip the shower...

ladyadonia30 said:
not sure if this is the proper place to post..but I'm having at it.

I was asked by a fellow member, how I masturbate.
So I answered....and am posting it...how about everyone else? What's the technique?

I get an image in my mind, whether it be someone I have chatted with, a moment my husband and I share, or something I recall from a porn. My mind is a giant roladex, all sorts of memories are stored away. I will lay down on my bed, spreading my legs. I wear thong panties, I am sure to push the crotch of them aside so I have easy access to the love nub. My index finger from the right hand will flick and roll the clit. Pill rolling with slight pressure. When I feel the ache begin to well, I will grab my pink rubber vibrator that my husband bought me. I lick the head of it and then turn it on, pressing it firmly onto my clit. It stimulates me the best when I move it around in a tight circular motion. My free hand will pull at my nipples roughly.....my muscles in my legs get pretty tight as the feeling of pleasure begins to take over down below. I'll dip the head of the vibrator into my pussy....ram it in a few times then put it back onto my clit....I will stick two fingers into my pussy and press the paddings of my fingers upward, pointing to my stomach, where the G-spot is located. It feels rough, ribbed..so I know when I am touching it. I will apply firm pressure onto my G-Spot, I feel it swell as I am getting closer to release. My clit is very sensative at this point so the vibrator must not be pressed so firmly onto it. I ease up...pressing my fingers deeper into my G-spot in a beckoning motion.....I feel my clit become more engorged and the tickling sensations turn to a sensation of fire and desire. Just as my clit begins to jerk spasmodicly..much like a cock does as it spits, I remove my fingers from my pussy and the orgasm that errupts is so powerful, fluid is expressed from my pussy in small spurts. My legs shake, I will either cry out if alone, or keep my lips pursed shut as my orgasm takes over me. I lay there a moment, savoring the sensations that take over me, and if I have time, I wait a minute and do it again, or..I clean up and get in the shower.

Let me clean you up with my tongue next time :p
 
glad to see so many enjoying Lady's work, now we just need a few more people to share their tricks of the trade.
 
shy

are people shy to talk about how they fuck themselves?

C'mon....like we can see you doin it..

fess up
 
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