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[Kajira Callista]

stop the madness

*covers uncle roscos eyes*

 

[FurryFury]

Oh baby, if you think online role play is doing more, you sure got a lot to learn. Hope you didn't have to get that there door repaired and all after he so forcefully broke through it. Oh, just sends shivers up and down my spine thinking how strong and powerful he must be, if only we could all have a Dom like that. LOL, I much prefer the one I have who when he wields his whip, actually leaves real marks on my flesh, and when I go to sleep at night is right there by my side taking what he wants when he wants, for real.

Catalina

Sure rub it in! *L*

I'm very happy for you and Francisco! I love it that some people get to do more than I do and what I dream about in real life!

Some of us don't feel we have that available to us though and so we do lovely, hot, things that are perhaps not things that would interest those who can.

Fury

 

[Pure]

bandit, if you want resistance it should NOT be hard to find; you're making the choice; avoid 'subbies' with descriptions that sound too nice or compliant. maybe what you want won't even call themselves 'sub' or 'slave' or any trite label.

i'm afraid i cant agree with chiclet's suggestion that you inquire of the the self-said 'sub, ' whether she can fix the problem, by providing resistance if it's desired. that resistance does not sound serious, and comes close to being play acted.

rather you should seek someone who is routinely what she calls 'a bratty one.'

Ch: Okay, here's my suggestion.

Tell the submissive that you desire a challenge and a struggle. Be honest with them about the kind of play you want.

Personally, I love to struggle and to wrestle and to play at being totally overpowered. But, I'm not going to be the bratty one to instigate such play with my Dom - that would be a little bit rude

 

[lindiana]

Oh baby, if you think online role play is doing more, you sure got a lot to learn. Hope you didn't have to get that there door repaired and all after he so forcefully broke through it. Oh, just sends shivers up and down my spine thinking how strong and powerful he must be, if only we could all have a Dom like that. LOL, I much prefer the one I have who when he wields his whip, actually leaves real marks on my flesh, and when I go to sleep at night is right there by my side taking what he wants when he wants, for real.

Catalina

But such a pity you are stuck with only one partner....how very very dull.
You assume you are better than us because you only have real sex. Try having both. What boring lives you Europeans must live. I guess you have never heard of swingers.

 

[banditguy]

Think you guys are right i need to look at other factors in a chosen partner other than being sub, i geuss i need to open my horizons somewhat. Glad i joined this board working for me already.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Sure rub it in! *L*

I'm very happy for you and Francisco! I love it that some people get to do more than I do and what I dream about in real life!

Some of us don't feel we have that available to us though and so we do lovely, hot, things that are perhaps not things that would interest those who can.

Fury

LOL, well we both knew what we needed, made the necessary decisions, and did something about it, but it is not so much that as the necessity for some to feel online RP is the real thing and far more real than actually doing it in the flesh, and as such losing that line between fantasy and reality which makes a whole lot of difference if you are on the receiving end.

Catalina

 

[chris9]

Thanks guys all helpfull input there for me to take on board, maybe i am too dominant first up which leads to total submission, just feel breakig resistance first adds to it, thanks for your comments.

I'm not sure the 'total submission' after 'breaking resistance first' would fully do it for you. After you break the submission you might get bored, because then all of that resistance comes to an end.

And would you mind using a little more punctuation and capitalizing the words meant to be? Would make reading your posts much easier.

 

[catalina_francisco]

But such a pity you are stuck with only one partner....how very very dull.
You assume you are better than us because you only have real sex. Try having both. What boring lives you Europeans must live. I guess you have never heard of swingers.

LOL, see that is where once again you are off track and misinformed honey. We actually play with both male and female subs as well as male Dominants. Now who is leading a dull and boring existance when all they have is a screen and their hand. Swinging? Never has interested me, nor wil it ever...quality far exceeds quantity and I have had both without being a swinger. If it works for you, great, just not my cup of tea. As to being better, I never feel that way in any part of my life but I do recognise the difference between fantasy and reality and the importance therein. Seeing as you do not know alot about us and all, you might like to know we met online and married 2 weeks after meeting in the flesh, but had arranged the marriage before actually meeting...four years on we couldn't be happier. I hope you find that magic one day. Oh, BTW, I'm not European, but I am married and slave to a very hot and passionate one.

Catalina

 

[lindiana]

LOL, see that is where once again you are off track and misinformed honey. We actually play with both male and female subs as well as male Dominants. Now who is leading a dull and boring existance when all they have is a screen and their hand. Swinging? Never has interested me, nor wil it ever...quality far exceeds quantity and I have had both without being a swinger. If it works for you, great, just not my cup of tea. As to being better, I never feel that way in any part of my life but I do recognise the difference between fantasy and reality and the importance therein. Seeing as you do not know alot about us and all, you might like to know we met online and married 2 weeks after meeting in the flesh, but had arranged the marriage before actually meeting...four years on we couldn't be happier. I hope you find that magic one day. Oh, BTW, I'm not European, but I am married and slave to a very hot and passionate one.

Catalina

Oh well...still find you and your life very sad. Anyone who has to make others feel small because she thinks she is so big is obviously in denial and needs help. Your bravado and boasting are basically just covering your fear, disappointment and unhappiness. But I am not trained well enough in the psychological sciences to help you. I think it would do both you and your partner good if you talked to a therapist.

You are lashing out at people you do not know with the old "Oh yeah? Well I AM better than you, I AM prettier than you, I AM happier than you." Usually when someone does that and they are over the age of 10, they are very unhappy and in deep denial.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Oh well...still find you and your life very sad. Anyone who has to make others feel small because she thinks she is so big is obviously in denial and needs help. Your bravado and boasting are basically just covering your fear, disappointment and unhappiness. But I am not trained well enough in the psychological sciences to help you. I think it would do both you and your partner good if you talked to a therapist.

You are lashing out at people you do not know with the old "Oh yeah? Well I AM better than you, I AM prettier than you, I AM happier than you." Usually when someone does that and they are over the age of 10, they are very unhappy and in deep denial.

You are correct, you are not trained well enough in psych whereas I am a trained therapist with a 4 year university degree to back it, much of it based around psych studies. On the contrary babe, perhaps it is you who needs a therapist as you seem to be doing the bitching here, and who has shown she does not know anything about those she is lashing out at, or what she is trying to talk about.

I note in your profile you ask for people to read your stories but you also instruct you do not want anything bad said about them, only good...that in itself is full of issues and insecurities don't you think? How do you think you can improve as a writer if you cannot handle constructive criticism? Never mind about feeling sorry for me, I am very happy and think your comments can only reflect envy on your part. When the time is right for you, you will move into finding your own happiness and someone to share that with in living flesh.

Catalina

 

[lindiana]

You are correct, you are not trained well enough in psych whereas I am a trained therapist with a 4 year university degree to back it, much of it based around psych studies. On the contrary babe, perhaps it is you who needs a therapist as you seem to be doing the bitching here, and who has shown she does not know anything about those she is lashing out at, or what she is trying to talk about.

I note in your profile you ask for people to read your stories but you also instruct you do not want anything bad said about them, only good...that in itself is full of issues and insecurities don't you think? How do you think you can improve as a writer if you cannot handle constructive criticism? Never mind about feeling sorry for me, I am very happy and think your comments can only reflect envy on your part. When the time is right for you, you will move into finding your own happiness and someone to share that with in living flesh.

Catalina

There you go again...lashing out at people you do not know...trying to prove you are better than them.

"You are correct, you are not trained well enough in psych whereas I am a trained therapist with a 4 year university degree to back it, much of it based around psych studies." You think because you have a degree you are smarter than me. You have no idea what I am or what kind of education I have. But instead of saying it in a way that is defensive, you go on the offense, the attack.

"Never mind about feeling sorry for me, I am very happy and think your comments can only reflect envy on your part." Again, you know absolutely nothing about me. I could be very happy with fourteen adopted children and live in a mansion on Chicago's West Side with a live in staff of four. I have made it more than clear I do not envy you. I think you need serious help.

I note in your profile you ask for people to read your stories but you also instruct you do not want anything bad said about them, only good...that in itself is full of issues and insecurities don't you think? How do you think you can improve as a writer if you cannot handle constructive criticism?


Now you are lying. You are feeling hurt, frustrated and bitter because you have run out of stones to throw at me. What my biography says is: But remember, if you don't have anything nice to say, you shouldn't say anything at all. (If you had a mother, you would know this is a statement they repeatedly tell you when you are growing up) And anyone that posts an "anonymous" critique that I find overly boring, pompous or just plain queer, I will delete it. So don't waste my time.

You immediately, once more, bare your teeth and attack. You take my biography as something addressed personally to YOU. If people I admire and respect wish to comment and offer criticism, it is warmly welcomed. But people, like you, who are filled with so much venom and animosity that they have poisoned their life and want to poison the lives of the people around them...well their opinions are not welcome.


You throw your words around like stones in an attempt to hurt others and then justify it by saying "I am better than you which makes you a piece of crap".

Seek professional help.