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[banditguy]

Firstly hi all first post.
A question, im totally dominant i love it im made that way and live my life that way i realise its a stupid thing to say but subs just give in to me too easy i would like to have some resistance to make the domination more intense, are subs not capable of this? Your thoughts.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

i would like to have some resistance to make the domination more intense, are subs not capable of this? Your thoughts.

It may be that you push too hard and give no opportunity for resistance?

You sound quite assertive. This is good in it's way but Dom/sub interplay is an exchange, not an "I talk and you listen" monologue.

On the other hand, a sub will rarely resist or contradict a Dom that she trusts and if limits are clearly set, she shouldn't really need to.

So you're either too good or too bad for your own good

Velvet

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Searching for the unwilling submissive?

 

[FurryFury]

I've heard this called resistance play and I've seen it done between a Dom and a male sub. Very interesting stuff. I would have been uncomfortable if I didn't know the male sub could, if he wanted, beat the living crap out of the Dom. He clearly wanted to be there, wanted to play that way and despite what the eye could see enjoyed it. They both enjoyed this edgy form of play.

Fury

 

[VelvetDarkness]

How much resistance are we talking about here Bandit?

 

[rosco rathbone]

keep on pervin

 

[shy slave]

This thread should be linked to the one Marquis started about menstruating submissives.

I keep wondering if it is just welsh women who submit too easily, looking at the 'things never to say... thread' there are several submissives who are not 'easy'

 

[marieR19]

In my limited experiance, most slaves/subs just want to please their dom, and so they don't resist because they think it would displease them. Have you made it known that you'd like a bit of a challenge? I know I can be pretty resistant sometimes, my ex has pointed that out to me more then once, and that's just the way I am... I'm not as submissive as some others are.

Heather

 

[Hester]

oh yeah

 

[banditguy]

master

Thanks guys all helpfull input there for me to take on board, maybe i am too dominant first up which leads to total submission, just feel breakig resistance first adds to it, thanks for your comments.

 

[banditguy]

Another reply, i would like alot of resistance and im looking for a total sub to dominate.

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Thanks guys all helpfull input there for me to take on board, maybe i am too dominant first up which leads to total submission, just feel breakig resistance first adds to it, thanks for your comments.

Ohhhhh define 'too dominant' for me would you please.

kind regards

@}-}rebecca----

 

[thisgirl]

Another reply, i would like alot of resistance and im looking for a total sub to dominate.

that seems like a contradiction, if you want resistance maybe you don't want a "total sub..."

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hmmm, I don't think you are too dominant, though there may be other terms for it. What I see here is a classic relationship problem which traps a high percentage of people into bad or mismatched relationships. When you are looking for a potential partner, you look for the type who will please you and blend with you, not someone who is what you hate and then blame them for not being what you like. Relationships are a 2 way street...you can choose to be in or not be in a particular one depending on the characteristics you find there. If you want a stronger, more headstrong sub, go for that type, the ones who are clearly not a doormat, the ones who can converse with you, think for themselves, and submit as a choice not because they feel they have no choice or have a problem saying no. It seems so many people end up divorced (or eternally unhappy) for this same reason, choosing someone and hoping they will change into someone else.

Catalina

 

[graceanne]

This thread should be linked to the one Marquis started about menstruating submissives.

I keep wondering if it is just welsh women who submit too easily, looking at the 'things never to say... thread' there are several submissives who are not 'easy'

Well, except for me. I just post there to help all the other subs become as perfect as me. *flutters eyelashes*

 

[shy slave]

Well, except for me. I just post there to help all the other subs become as perfect as me. *flutters eyelashes*

Really???

*Raises eyebrow*

 

[banditguy]

Once again thanks for the replies, maybe i need to take alook at myself and what i want from a partner!!

 

[lindiana]

I have done some of this type of play online. It is basically called a tease submissive. So you are not uncommon.

I chat with a Master who enjoys it. What he likes is we start up then I start to resist him. Usually what we do is start 'bargaining'. I tell him I won't mind if he does A as long as he doesn't do B. Then he insists he wants to do B. I throw a fit...even going so far as to run into my room and lock the door. Then he will break the door down and do both B and A to me.

Believe me, you should not have any trouble finding resistant or tease submissives. There are some that are just like that. Then there are girls who think they are submissive and they just aren't so they will fight you on everything. Up to you to figure out the difference.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I have done some of this type of play online. It is basically called a tease submissive. So you are not uncommon.

I chat with a Master who enjoys it. What he likes is we start up then I start to resist him. Usually what we do is start 'bargaining'. I tell him I won't mind if he does A as long as he doesn't do B. Then he insists he wants to do B. I throw a fit...even going so far as to run into my room and lock the door. Then he will break the door down and do both B and A to me.

Believe me, you should not have any trouble finding resistant or tease submissives. There are some that are just like that. Then there are girls who think they are submissive and they just aren't so they will fight you on everything. Up to you to figure out the difference.

Wow, how do you break down a bedroom door online?!!

Catalina

 

[Chicklet]

Firstly hi all first post.
A question, im totally dominant i love it im made that way and live my life that way i realise its a stupid thing to say but subs just give in to me too easy i would like to have some resistance to make the domination more intense, are subs not capable of this? Your thoughts.

Okay, here's my suggestion.

Tell the submissive that you desire a challenge and a struggle. Be honest with them about the kind of play you want.

Personally, I love to struggle and to wrestle and to play at being totally overpowered. But, I'm not going to be the bratty one to instigate such play with my Dom - that would be a little bit rude So instead, I tell him about my ravishment fantasies, and that I'd like to play with him some time, and when he feels like it he lets me know. That way we're both getting what we want, without any bitchy subiness going on.

Just be open with the subs about what you're looking for. Not everyone's a mind-reader.

 

[lindiana]

Wow, how do you break down a bedroom door online?!!

Catalina

I'm sorry, I guess you are not used to literate roleplay cybersex online. There are some people out there that do more than:

Man: look at my fat cock

Woman: oh yes, such a nice one, put it in me

Man: Oh yeah baby, here it is

Woman: I feel it, oh shit

I am one of them. Any ass pulls crap like the above with me, I am so gone.

 

[FurryFury]

You "break the door down" the same way you do anything online with that most glorious, sexy, loving and violent of things, WORDS!!!

Fury

 

[rosco rathbone]

stop the madness

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm sorry, I guess you are not used to literate roleplay cybersex online. There are some people out there that do more than:

Man: look at my fat cock

Woman: oh yes, such a nice one, put it in me

Man: Oh yeah baby, here it is

Woman: I feel it, oh shit

I am one of them. Any ass pulls crap like the above with me, I am so gone.

Oh baby, if you think online role play is doing more, you sure got a lot to learn. Hope you didn't have to get that there door repaired and all after he so forcefully broke through it. Oh, just sends shivers up and down my spine thinking how strong and powerful he must be, if only we could all have a Dom like that. LOL, I much prefer the one I have who when he wields his whip, actually leaves real marks on my flesh, and when I go to sleep at night is right there by my side taking what he wants when he wants, for real.

Catalina

 

[Private_Label]

Oh baby, if you think online role play is doing more, you sure got a lot to learn. Hope you didn't have to get that there door repaired and all after he so forcefully broke through it. Oh, just sends shivers up and down my spine thinking how strong and powerful he must be, if only we could all have a Dom like that. LOL, I much prefer the one I have who when he wields his whip, actually leaves real marks on my flesh, and when I go to sleep at night is right there by my side taking what he wants when he wants, for real.

Catalina

Some people enjoy cooperative story telling Catalina. My kink may not be your kink, but please don't be sarcastic about mine. It's the mental images that get us off, where just saying "how do you like it baby?" just doesn't produce the same mental jolt. Think of it like talking dirty. For some folks it really lights their fire and for others they just don't get it. I'll agree it doesn't light your fire, if you agree that I might find it erotic.