Married Posters

[michguy494]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: yea, but...

iiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii take that back... on yahoo IM i have seen it.....
and you ARE a handsome man...

how quickly they forget.. <sigh>

 

[babydoll2u]

Re: Look under BHM

I know you have seen my pic
But you don't remember

B

Nope sweetie, I am sure I haven't

 

[BigGuyPA44]

Re: Re: Look under BHM

Nope sweetie, I am sure I haven't

Well the next time I see you online I will send it over

B

 

[raider74]

hey you two

get a room. LOL just kidding.

 

[BigGuyPA44]

Re: hey you two

get a room. LOL just kidding.

But still, not a bad idea...meet me in Pittsburgh, Peggy! LOL

B

 

[babydoll2u]

Re: Re: hey you two

But still, not a bad idea...meet me in Pittsburgh, Peggy! LOL

B

would be very tempting if I wasn't on such a tight time schedule

 

[michguy494]

Re: Re: Re: hey you two

would be very tempting if I wasn't on such a tight time schedule

and you're going to leave me out? <sigh>

 

[babydoll2u]

Re: Re: Re: Re: hey you two

and you're going to leave me out? <sigh>

aaawww c'mon now. I came all the way from Florida to Ohio....
YOU could certainly travel from Michigan to Ohio! lol

 

[michguy494]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: hey you two

aaawww c'mon now. I came all the way from Florida to Ohio....
YOU could certainly travel from Michigan to Ohio! lol

Had you TOLD me you were going to be in Ohio I might have been able to make it. <grin>

It is much closer than FL!!!

 

[fun1269u]

Long time lurker

Pebbles,
I just ran across this thread and find the beginning interesting. I feel it lost some of its flavor in the last few pages. Yet I am personally caught up in this struggle now!

I have been married 13 years. We have 3 wonderful kids and a great life. But my sex life is horrible. She has no more time or interest for sex. When we first met, we could lay around all saturday and have sex 6-8 times a day! She would be open and do anything, especially oral. Now, I can't even get blown on my birthday!

I love her dearly and do not want to break up the family, but I want fulfillment.

I've tried to talk with her, reason with her, romance, gifts, maids to help out with chores, fancy dinners, nothing. She says she loves me, but has lost her interest in sex and freely admits it. She says she understands my urges and is willing to roll over while I "change my oil", but that seems almost demeaning.

I have tried to ask her permission to look elsewhere. She vehemently denounced that and said she will be pissed if she catches me online.

To make a short story long....Whats a guy to do? Its not fair I have to live an unfulfilled life with a family I adore. Is it wrong for me to look behind her back?

Will any women like to start affairs with married men? Is there a "girl code".

I'd prefer not to be an ass to someone and lie about my status.

IN NEED OF ADVISE !!!

 

[reddcutie]

to fun1269u

i would be very hesitant about starting an affair...it is always much more complicated than it seems. however, that being said, my advice is to pick a woman outside of your normal circle and living enviornment(i.e. no neighbors or coworkers)believe me even when being discrete, proximity leads to discovery. Also, remember that since you are choosing a woman primarily to fill a sexual void alone, you probably should not date single girls, since single women usually want a relationship which involves quality time...and money...an unsatisfied married woman would be your best bet. like you, she will have love ties to her husband and family...thus not too demanding...

 

[Looking4Fun46]

Re: to fun1269u

i would be very hesitant about starting an affair...it is always much more complicated than it seems. however, that being said, my advice is to pick a woman outside of your normal circle and living enviornment(i.e. no neighbors or coworkers)believe me even when being discrete, proximity leads to discovery. Also, remember that since you are choosing a woman primarily to fill a sexual void alone, you probably should not date single girls, since single women usually want a relationship which involves quality time...and money...an unsatisfied married woman would be your best bet. like you, she will have love ties to her husband and family...thus not too demanding...

I agree reddcutie but life is too short not to try and find some happiness and fun in your life if you are not getting it at home. I do not want to look back with regrets when I get old and wish I had done something. I don't think many people that are posting here are truly satisfied in their marriage, otherwise they would be spending this time with their spouse. hope everybody is doing good on this friday night.

 

[reddcutie]

sadly true......

 

[Looking4Fun46]

Re: sadly true......

Sadly true but then you and I can always do something about it reddcutie...

 

[_pebbles]

Re: Long time lurker

I feel it lost some of its flavor in the last few pages. Yet I am personally caught up in this struggle now!

I apologize for the fluff that has peppered the thread!

I have been married 13 years. We have 3 wonderful kids and a great life. But my sex life is horrible. She has no more time or interest for sex. When we first met, we could lay around all saturday and have sex 6-8 times a day! She would be open and do anything, especially oral. Now, I can't even get blown on my birthday!

How often are you getting sex now, fun1269u?

I love her dearly and do not want to break up the family, but I want fulfillment.

Most here don't want their marriage to end and just want more love and lust in their lives.

I've tried to talk with her, reason with her, romance, gifts, maids to help out with chores, fancy dinners, nothing. She says she loves me, but has lost her interest in sex and freely admits it. She says she understands my urges and is willing to roll over while I "change my oil", but that seems almost demeaning.

Will any women like to start affairs with married men? Is there a "girl code".

I believe married women in a situation similar to yours would be very interested.

I'd prefer not to be an ass to someone and lie about my status.

DON'T LIE!

Maybe you just need a friend to explore a bit of mutual masturbation?

 

[ram1_2]

Re: Re: Long time lurker

Maybe you just need a friend to explore a bit of mutual masturbation?

Ah! The eternal search for a friend with 'benefits'!?

May you have a lovely holiday season, Pebbles!

 

[Looking4Fun46]

Hope all the married folks are having a or had a great evening. It is snowy and cold here tonight and not looking forward to the commute tomorrow morning. I swear the government lets additional idiots on the road on the snowy days and no, I am not one of them. lol. But then if you pass me you may call me one. lol. Be good...

 

[Looking4Fun46]

Desperate Housewives

So who watched Desperate Housewives tonight? Does anybody's life resemble the show? lol. I love that show and I did like Terri Hatcher in her naughty outfit.

 

['Ol Tex]

Same Boat

To: fun1269u----Your boat is almost identical to mine. Married, (but love her). Once "lively" wife who now could care less. I too have hinted about having "someone else do her dirty work". (she would rather I not). So again, the frustration battle grinds on the psyche and the flesh. In the last two days I received hugs from two different women, (both above board with no passion intended). First one, at a light lunch furnished for some of us workers and my ex-boss' wife who I had not seen in awhile, and the second, a friend of my wife's, at a funeral we attended. Both times it was painful to be embraced by the "softness" that only a woman's touch can bring. That's how long it has been! Why do we love women who obviously don't want to even TRY and work with our needs? Because, (in my case anyway), my wife is a good person she just has no more desire for sexual fun in our life. While your wife offered to "roll over", mine would rather, (after much whining, fit throwing, pouting etc.), would just take matters "in hand" if you get my drift. For awhile, that was ok, seeing as how that's ALL there was gonna be! But there is more to "fun" than that and deep down, she has to know that. So, let me know if you figure out that "girl code" you mentioned. Or if you discover more "bored housewives", (as one poster put it), than you can handle. Like you, I despise sneaking around and/or lying but...........the clock is ticking and I have only x-amount of "ticks" left in my life. To spend them without the warmth of a woman's passion is......................well, I have no words to describe the feeling unless you put it like the words in an old country song that said,......................."sleeping single in a double bed", (SIGH). 'ol tex.

 

[Imagetaker]

Been married for 24 and have been chatting for nearly six. Wife does not know of my online adventures. This has been a release for me. Otherwise, my sexual frustrations would have created larger problems.

 

[_pebbles]

Re: Re: Re: Long time lurker

Ah! The eternal search for a friend with 'benefits'!?

May you have a lovely holiday season, Pebbles!

Thank you, ram. I've actually given up on the idea that I'm "searching" for that special friend. Seems like I've been searching a long time with no results at all. Maybe if I just sit back and let it happen naturally I'll end up being the luckiest girl of all. Seasons greeting to you too

 

[bryankm]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Long time lurker

Thank you, ram. I've actually given up on the idea that I'm "searching" for that special friend. Seems like I've been searching a long time with no results at all. Maybe if I just sit back and let it happen naturally I'll end up being the luckiest girl of all. Seasons greeting to you too

I would love to find a friend, or two, with benefits here in Maryland. I adore my wife, but she just can't keep up with me sexually. It is very difficult, however. I don't want to jeopardize my marriage, but I feel like I will explode sometimes.

I wish everyone here luck in their quests.

Bryan

 

[Nordic man]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Long time lurker

Thank you, ram. I've actually given up on the idea that I'm "searching" for that special friend. Seems like I've been searching a long time with no results at all. Maybe if I just sit back and let it happen naturally I'll end up being the luckiest girl of all. Seasons greeting to you too

must be blind men in your area _pebbles

 

[fun1269u]

Looks like a new thread starting

I guess we need to start a new thread to find out how many women don't care about sex any more and WHY.
Or maybe a thread to find bored housewives and find out what would get them to "Hook up".
Of course, if I could understand my wife and get her to bang me six or seven times a week, that would be good too!

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Re: Re: Long time lurker

Maybe you just need a friend to explore a bit of mutual masturbation?

This is where my; internal conflicts seem to leave me. It sounds hypocritical, yet it seems like a reasonable compromise between rectitude and all-out cheating.
But is it realistic to think you can stop there?