Married Posters

[_pebbles]

I was curious how many married posters/lurkers frequent the boards without the knowledge of their spouses. Do you feel your participation here has positively or negatively effected your marriage?

Personally, my husband doesn't know. I'd like to include him at some point. I guess I'm enjoying flirtation with other men without his knowledge an exciting thing. We've been married my entire adult life. Flirting with other men is something I find I'm craving at this point in my life.

 

[Guest]

I am a married man here and yes she does know I frequent Lit as she does, but not as much as I do. It has helped us tremendously as our sex lives are concerned. I love to flirt with the women on here and most of all I like to chat when ever possible.

Good luck in your ventures here and I think you should eventually introduce hubby to Lit also for he may enjoy it like you do, unless he has some hang ups.

 

[_pebbles]

I've been considering telling him about it. I find my own selfishness holding me back. While I want to continue along my merry way of flirting, I don't want him to do it! I think his only hang up would be sharing my attention as well. So for now, the secret remains. I'm the classic bad girl masquerading as a good girl.

I am a married man here and yes she does know I frequent Lit as she does, but not as much as I do. It has helped us tremendously as our sex lives are concerned. I love to flirt with the women on here and most of all I like to chat when ever possible.

Good luck in your ventures here and I think you should eventually introduce hubby to Lit also for he may enjoy it like you do, unless he has some hang ups.

 

[Guest]

I've been considering telling him about it. I find my own selfishness holding me back. While I want to continue along my merry way of flirting, I don't want him to do it! I think his only hang up would be sharing my attention as well. So for now, the secret remains. I'm the classic bad girl masquerading as a good girl.

Take your time and include him when it's right for you. My wife gets upset with me some times because she thinks I am having an online love affair.

Like I said I love flirting and chatting and getting naughty. To me it's all innocent fun.

I love bad girls!

 

[julian61model]

No I haven't told her

My wife is not very open minded and she would probably not approve of me posting here or indeed writing stories for publishing.

Like you I enjoy the chat with other women and because its online there does not seem to be any harm in keeping it secret. If you want to chat swap stories pm me. I am a serious guy who just likes a bit of fun.

 

[Primeone]

Married poster

My wife doesn't know I flirt on here...she thinks I am learning to write erotica. I have had some interesting chats and exchanges; they serve to give me a greater understanding of women (a hard task, perhaps). I get a strong sexual charge when a woman tells me some of her most intimate sexual feelings. And there is often reciprocity

I am possibly a better lover now. Certainly an electronic affair is a lot safer and carries little guilt. It can be a very satisfactory way of exorcising the demons of lust.

If any lady cares to talk privately...

 

[cotton_candy_eater]

I am married and the both of us post with the others knowledge. Its great. I am able to express myself more to her. And our sex has sky rocketed. She has one rule for me, in which I am ok with. When I post I am not to tell a woman I want to do anything sexual to her. I really don't care what she does on here because I like her expressing herself too.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I'm another married man who posts and who's wife does not know. She has very conservative attitudes toward sexual matters.
Does it help or hurt?
It provides an outlet for my fantasies, without cheating, which is good.
But, I sometimes devote energy to on-line flirtation and play
that would be better devoted to my marriage.

 

[Cazper]

I am married and we are both avid posters on Lit and infact she is the one that told me about Lit... she found out from a mutual friend of ours. I think it's been great and very liberating and informative. If it makes you feel bad to be here without him knowing you should tell him... he may just enjoy it as much as you do

 

[_pebbles]

Re: No I haven't told her

Not that I'm seeking hubby's approval. He supports and fulfills my every sexual desire. I just find myself curious about other men after all this time.

My wife is not very open minded and she would probably not approve of me posting here or indeed writing stories for publishing.

Like you I enjoy the chat with other women and because its online there does not seem to be any harm in keeping it secret. If you want to chat swap stories pm me. I am a serious guy who just likes a bit of fun.

 

[_pebbles]

Re: Married poster

It's liberating to share fantasies with other likeminded people. I also enjoy freely expressing myself. While an "electronic affair" may seem safer, sometimes things can evolve into matters of the heart if you allow them to.

My wife doesn't know I flirt on here...she thinks I am learning to write erotica. I have had some interesting chats and exchanges; they serve to give me a greater understanding of women (a hard task, perhaps). I get a strong sexual charge when a woman tells me some of her most intimate sexual feelings. And there is often reciprocity

I am possibly a better lover now. Certainly an electronic affair is a lot safer and carries little guilt. It can be a very satisfactory way of exorcising the demons of lust.

If any lady cares to talk privately...

 

[_pebbles]

That sounds like a wonderful arrangement, I'm envious. I think it's important and to be applauded that you both have set parameters regarding your time here at Lit. Good for you, cotton

I am married and the both of us post with the others knowledge. Its great. I am able to express myself more to her. And our sex has sky rocketed. She has one rule for me, in which I am ok with. When I post I am not to tell a woman I want to do anything sexual to her. I really don't care what she does on here because I like her expressing herself too.

 

[_pebbles]

Having a creative outlet is important. I believe that is why some people come here with the intention of reading/writing erotica and then end up going wild like kids in a candy store when they realize there's a legion of beautiful and sexual Lit people to encounter.

I'm another married man who posts and who's wife does not know. She has very conservative attitudes toward sexual matters.
Does it help or hurt?
It provides an outlet for my fantasies, without cheating, which is good.
But, I sometimes devote energy to on-line flirtation and play
that would be better devoted to my marriage.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Having a creative outlet is important. I believe that is why some people come here with the intention of reading/writing erotica and then end up going wild like kids in a candy store when they realize there's a legion of beautiful and sexual Lit people to encounter.

LOL
I have to ask.
Have you gone wild since you got here?
Or, are you feeling tempted to do so?
If so, what have you done.
I will admit to taking one pretty wild chance as a result of my visits here.

 

[MANual]

Shhhh.....don't tell

Hi Pebbles, I am a happily married man and my wife has no idea. Unfortunately she would not approve of this site or what I do here. I truely wish she would. It could be fun.

Like you I love the freedom to express my desires and fantasies with another female. I would not mind at all if my wife shared a fantasy on line with another man or woman. Maybe it would spice things up.

 

[tn_greeneyez]

Re: No I haven't told her

My wife is not very open minded and she would probably not approve of me posting here or indeed writing stories for publishing.

Like you I enjoy the chat with other women and because its online there does not seem to be any harm in keeping it secret. If you want to chat swap stories pm me. I am a serious guy who just likes a bit of fun.

Ditto to my hubby.........maybe they are brother and sister?

My posting has helped him a great deal, however........he just isn't smart enough to take advantage as often as he whould.......poor thing.

I like chatting and interacting with other people, and don't get much of an opportunity outside of work.......other than online......due to his closed mindedness and our lack of a "social life"........so I do what I can here and there.

 

[raphy]

I'm married.

Does she know about lit?

This is where we met

 

[heavynole]

wow i didn't realize lit played such a important role in people's lives ...

 

[sundragon22]

new at this...

This is my first time visiting this site. My husband doesn't know and doesn't ask. We have a strict "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy. I think there is no harm in discussing fantasies on-line with other married people.

 

[Bartender2002]

longtime reader

deleted for a good reason

 

[rroadrunnerr]

Very interesting thread. My wife knows I play online but not to the extent I do. I have quit from time to time because of her wishes. As others have stated, I love talking intimately to other women. I don't think it does any harm to our relationship. Nor do I claim it enhances our relationship. The main issue is my wife feels bad about it because I am coming here for sexual play as opposed to her. I can understand that, I guess. I would not want her to know the details of what I do, I guess that is lying to her in a way. Bottom line, though, this is a safe way to indulge my fantasies without doing any real harm. I enjoy it and will keep doing it discretely. She will never do it because she thinks it is silly. She would rather fuck than talk about fucking. My long range goal is to get her interested in being with other guys in real time with my knowledge.

 

[szyc0-1]

Married, going through divorce here (now lonely considering gf is 4000 miles away), wife (ex) does not know that I lurk here... weird situation is that she is however interested in getting something setup for a threesome with a girl or guy, told her that I probably know of a way to get it set up... *grin*

 

[mac340]

yes my wife knows, in fact we have some pics on here together

 

[FinnMacCool]

thanks lass for the interesting subject and from the feedback a popular one at that..no,My wife does not know about My frequentations here,she is the vanilla one in our marriage(24 years strong)whilst I am the total uninhibited One,I find conversation with not only the ladies of Lit,but the Men as well very friendlyand titillating,and My subbie finds Lit very rewarding as well..pm Me and we can discuss this further..glad you are expanding your horizons

 

[djsfun2]

Me too.

My wife doesn't know what I do online. She does know that I surf the net for porn but she has no interest in specifics. I would like her to someday.