Married or Attached But Looking Thread

[StarGazer58]

One of my sweetest and dearest friends ever!

Can't we all just be friends?

 

[StarGazer58]

Anybody looking tonight?

 

[julybaby04]

Julybaby is just such a wonderful soul, keep on shining you crazy diamond.

Takes one to know one....

Can't we all just be friends?

Yes, friends are awesome!!!

 

[StarGazer58]

Reading back through some of the posts I cannot imagine that julybaby has had problems with men being too picky and not interested in her. I bet she drives the men crazy.

 

[julybaby04]

Reading back through some of the posts I cannot imagine that julybaby has had problems with men being too picky and not interested in her. I bet she drives the men crazy.

You would be wrong sir.

 

[StarGazer58]

You would be wrong sir.

Crazy dudes around you then.

 

[BurningMonkey]

Bump

57, white male, Detroit area
Looking for chat, and/or meet, and/or trading dirty stories if you're a writer, too.

 

[blksoldier]

man problems naaaaaah!

I agree, I don't see you having problems finding men that desire you I am sure that line is a long one but I can see you having problems finding the right man...

 

[UKGuy35]

37 m UK. Married but looking. Wanting long term chat partners for general chin wagging and occasional naughtiness. Yahoo/kik id is scryder24. Ladies only please.

 

[julybaby04]

I agree, I don't see you having problems finding men that desire you I am sure that line is a long one but I can see you having problems finding the right man...

Hmmm....

Be nice if that were true...

 

[pvt_addiction]

What is it that everyone is looking for? Friendship, someone to vent to, chat, voice, something physical?

I enjoy chatting with others, meeting new people. And of course I tend to be a little flirty as well.

 

[julius_1975ct]

40m in an open marriage... Looking for a girl in our area.

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

That is not always true......

Not at all

 

[ReadingExcitesMe]

Not the same thing. Apples and oranges; you're talking In Person, I'm talking online, like in this thread.
The plain fact is that women--even if they're looking or interested--won't and don't put themselves out there. They wait for the men to do it, then pick over what's on offer. Just look at how much of a sausage-fest this thread is; I could probably count on one hand the number of women who've posted here in the last year. And you can't tell me there aren't any women who are unhappy in their relationships and wish for something else.

*shrug* Not bitching, just telling it how it is.

Well, I've put myself out there several times. I think some of us are turned off by the replies, or maybe it's just me...

 

[Titts4Tatts]

I get put off by many of the replies. I don't even have to post anything sexual and get some very (sorry) lame replies. If I don't even know you its highly unlikely I'm going to call you up or cam. I'm not a quick fix. Try a simple hello and bit more in depth greeting. And share more about you on profile. Just helpful suggestions.

 

[pvt_addiction]

I get put off by many of the replies. I don't even have to post anything sexual and get some very (sorry) lame replies. If I don't even know you its highly unlikely I'm going to call you up or cam. I'm not a quick fix. Try a simple hello and bit more in depth greeting. And share more about you on profile. Just helpful suggestions.

Sometimes a friendly hello or how are you can go a long way.

 

[BurningMonkey]

Well, I've put myself out there several times. I think some of us are turned off by the replies, or maybe it's just me...

Try me. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.
I can't answer for others, but I believe in respect.
And my profile is detailed.

Of course, if what you read there doesn't hit your hot button...well, at least I tried.

 

[Kratos75]

26yr old married man looking to meet a lady online. I'm not gonna immediately demand pics, I'm a real guy looking to meet a real woman

 

[StarGazer58]

PMs is not something I have to worry about. It is the women that get overwhelmed.

 

[Porkwarrior]

Seeing as how half the time I post in this th'd I'll get fishing drunk PM's just from my avatar. I can't really blame the Lit gals for not putting anymore chum in the water.

And I guess I need to hit the gym.

 

[mr_rippley]

There's something deeply satisfying about talking with a married woman who feels neglected- and it's not just the cliche horny "ooh, baby ooh" stuff. Talking through their disappointments and helping them see what makes them honestly and genuinely attractive is cathartic for both of us.

 

[StarGazer58]

Always interesting to chat with women, married or single but married women do bring a certain increased level of naughtiness.

 

[StevesGirl614]

Hi....Anyone older than 50 looking to chat for a little bit now?

 

[fiestylion]

28 F in FL looking to chat, maybe flirt a little or meet up with anyone close by maybe. Looking for some extra fun to be had, even online. Will not send photos immediately. Looking to meet men in 25-35 age bracket.

 

[blksoldier]

food for thought

I must admit I have been guilty of sending some really simple pm's but I am getting better there are a lot of good people here. we all have something that we are searching for some its a simple chat and for others maybe we are searching for a connection.. lit. is fabulously frustrating sensuously sexy but always satisfying. that's why I come back for more.... and yes I do have my eye on someone...