Married or Attached But Looking Thread

[StarGazer58]

Please come join the all male thread. Maybe the government will investigate.

 

[skybox691]

SSSHHHHH! Don't give them any more ideas..... Besides where else can a man go and be totally alone...

 

[PokingFun]

Please come join the all male thread. Maybe the government will investigate.

Stargazer I swear you make me laugh.
Keep the faith guys. The Ladies of Lit have not abandoned you.

 

[skybox691]

You sure could have fooled me. Now I know how a dog left by the side of the road feels.

 

[StarGazer58]

Stargazer I swear you make me laugh.
Keep the faith guys. The Ladies of Lit have not abandoned you.

I am glad somebody finds me amusing. Lol. You can hear the crickets chirping in my inbox.

 

[oogieboogie1967]

Friends first, Portland, OR

LOOKING FOR LOCAL ONLY PLEASE: Portland, OR

Recently my wife and I have been talking about our relationship and where we are now. We have been together for almost 2 decades and married for 8 of those years. We have a beautiful daughter and love each other and our family, but some of the spark and excitement seems to be lacking after all these years. We miss the spark and fun of what it's like to meet someone new and the excitement of getting to know them, so we are exploring the polyamorous lifestyle!

We are looking for people that we can get to know, and be friends with first. We would like to meet people that we can feel comfortable with to talk to about anything! It can be really exciting to flirt with and get to know someone new, it's not just about sex!
We are not looking to leave our family, or expecting anyone to leave theirs. Drug and disease free, and relatively sane, but very safe!

We have never done anything like this before and we are both a little nervous. Maybe we could start with chatting and flirting online and see where that goes.

 

[driveshaft]

Married male, but looking to join another married couple as a third.

 

[dreamer42351]

i think we are all looking for that elusive married woman that suppose to live close by, they just dont seem to exist where i live tho

 

[Sarahduk]

Married male, but looking to join another married couple as a third.

My fantasy .....

 

[junk_yard]

I really don't want to scroll through this whole thread to check but has a woman ever posted on this thread? Seems like it is all guys. Lot of looking but seems to be no finding.

Never say never... I have made two contacts over the last two years, and I don't spend a lot of time on this site. The first lady and I never hooked up... but had a lot of exchanges via email, etc. The second one and I did get together, she was from my state. It began with emails, then phone talk, followed by some great phone sex, and then finally we met and did the deed. Didn't see her again, I was the asshole who said goodby too soon... I regret it now, but what's done is done.

Long story short... keep trying. There are a lot of women on Lit.

 

[pfflyerhot]

When my wife and I dated I had no clue as to her long-term affection issues. Nor was I fully aware of her controlling issues. After we were married I would go to innocently hug her and she would flinch and block my advance. Putting my arm around her would result in a death stare and another arm blocking my advance. Trying to kiss her was like trying to kiss a prize fighter as she could bob and weave with the best of them. Holding hands was allowed only if she was the one leading me.
In my mind she has issues. In her mind she is normal.
What do you think?

It depends. Maybe you were nicer to her back then? What's different now, besides the affection/control thing? And, not just with her, with you, too.

 

[StarGazer58]

Not really happy with the all male club services here. No golf course, cannot find the massage room, and the serving girl has not come by for my drink order yet. Thinking about canceling my membership and going to a coed club.

 

[SexKitten93]

Attached female, 21, have a soft spot for older married guys pm me if interested and maybe we can move it to messenger

 

[sweetsophie512]

Not really happy with the all male club services here. No golf course, cannot find the massage room, and the serving girl has not come by for my drink order yet. Thinking about canceling my membership and going to a coed club.

StarGazer58 - you are so silly.

You should do stand up some time.

The reason why this thread is male dominated because any female who may be brave enough to post here will be innundated with PMs and like someone said, "it's quality over quantity."

As far as what I'm looking for, connection first and the rest follows. Oh boy, does it.

 

[EnticingBlonde]

I like the older married men...especially when I happen upon one visiting town for business. Lots of fun to make the trip extra special

Enjoy being a bright spot for them in life. No expectations or promises....just great banter, foreplay, and a happy round or four.

 

[GoldStarBiker]

Some of us are addicted to blondes

 

[EnticingBlonde]

Well, I'm certainly glad sme of you are. Makes my life much more enjoyable.

 

[astra_aspera]

Return to sender.....

Attached female, 21, have a soft spot for older married guys pm me if interested and maybe we can move it to messenger

Hi SexyKitten, PM sent......hope you get it....and respond..:

 

[astra_aspera]

StarGazer58 - you are so silly.

You should do stand up some time.

The reason why this thread is male dominated because any female who may be brave enough to post here will be innundated with PMs and like someone said, "it's quality over quantity."

As far as what I'm looking for, connection first and the rest follows. Oh boy, does it.

So sweet Sophie...how does a male connect with you? I'm curious and interested.....

 

[Eclectic2012]

Seems to be a nice relaxing night for looking...anyone have an interesting weekend to talk about?

 

[StarGazer58]

I hope sexkitten, sweetsophie and enticing blonde are happy with themselves. I was so surprised to see women post in this thread that I fainted and hit my head. Now I have fallen down and can't get up. It is hard to type while lying on the floor all wozzy. Can somebody help me up?

 

[flyingtinopener]

Looking for mature kady

69 year old male looking for an adventurous mature lady nn15 area discretion assured ,looking for a long term female pal

 

[sweetsophie512]

So sweet Sophie...how does a male connect with you? I'm curious and interested.....

Well -

You have to be creative and you need to pay attention.

 

[1nut1der]

Attached, but here with permission looking for a lady to PM back and forth...maybe more

 

[cookmp]

39/male from Georgia . I'm happily married, but looking for a female to just chat with