Married or Attached But Looking Thread

Perhaps we can start a little group where us attached ppl can post where we are from and what we are seeking.. No judging here but why give ashley madsion all your money.
From New England, older guy in a sexless marriage... lookin for hot conversations, lusting, fulfillment in cyberspace and in real life... looking to be on many Buddy Lists...
 
33 married male in Alabama, looking for help from the ladies :). Sex life has gotten dull and hardly any bj's. Wanting to chat online to get to know you and hopefully help me out during a lunch time or two ;). Feel free to hit me up anytime, get bored at work easily so love to be distracted and talk.
 
The sound you just heard ..... was my erection RIPPING thru my jeans as I read some of the alluring comments from the fairer sex....lol
Quick-witted guy here who enjoys having his synapses stimulated as well as his genitals by sultry, curvy ladies.
 
i might get blasted for this but i really dont care. fair or not, its something i am curious about. i wonder how many people who post in this thread, or anyone one lit, are having bad or poor marriages because of being on lit so much. or how many have non existent sex lives or dull ones and dont know why that is or why their spouse feels like they do
granted, i havent read much of this thread and to those who truly do know why or there is a legit reason, i apologize. but it seems many get on here looking for a hookup cause its easier than trying to fix things
 
I'll bite.

I have an incredible marriage of 31 years. The sex is amazing, but she requires an exact repeatable process. That works for her. I respect that. I prefer a chameleon effect. I live for eating pussy and creating myriads of orgasms with the right fuck buddy. It does not diminish what I have, nor does it create and issue with the creative result of making my wife happy every moment I am with her. I travel, I am at home 24-36 hours a week, from wheels up to wheels down. I require an outlet for my creative sexual energy and fuck buddies generate that for me.
 
sex deprived

i am a 23 yo male seeking female for internet /cam/pic fun i am in san antonio anything else hit me up
 
I am in a sexless marriage. I love my husband, but I am craving sex! I am a work at home writer, 35, curvy, BBW. I can be found on yahoo messenger. I am in Tulsa, ok. I am looking for someone to have fun with, but also to have hot steamy sex with. Pm me and I can give you my email/IM.
 
I am the male version of Diva Princess but I live in Florida.
 
Married & Looking

Hey Boys!
28 yr old female looking for like minded married men from 28 to 45
Email me and tell me a little about yourself!
XOXO
 
as a means of keeping the thread alive - given you are married, is it easier, safer to have an affair with another married person or do you prefer someone who is single? or are you just desperate and take whatever comes along??? ;)
 
as a means of keeping the thread alive - given you are married, is it easier, safer to have an affair with another married person or do you prefer someone who is single? or are you just desperate and take whatever comes along??? ;)

If I were going to have an affair it would be with a married man...that way we'd be in the same situation.
 
as a means of keeping the thread alive - given you are married, is it easier, safer to have an affair with another married person or do you prefer someone who is single? or are you just desperate and take whatever comes along??? ;)

I definitely prefer married, someone in a similar situation. To me, it seems like we have more in common and connect on that level. Plus, in most cases, you both have just as much to lose so there is a little more secrecy. I'm not saying that I'd pass on a single woman, but I'd be extra cautious.
 
as a means of keeping the thread alive - given you are married, is it easier, safer to have an affair with another married person or do you prefer someone who is single? or are you just desperate and take whatever comes along??? ;)

It's complicated. Married/same situation is preferred. You're in the same situation with the same things to lose.
However, if you fall in love, that will create other issues.
Something to be said for single partners - as they usually have a place for you to meet. As long as they're not looking for committment, that works well.

Wicked web we weave.
 
35 m London here. Married, but sexually just going through the motions. Love to chat with women in a similar situation.
 
29 MWM in Ireland looking for a bit of fun on the side. Not many Irish women on here, but it's worth a shot, isn't it? ;)
 
However, if you fall in love, that will create other issues.
Something to be said for single partners - as they usually have a place for you to meet. As long as they're not looking for committment, that works well.

Wicked web we weave.

If you fall in love, it will create issues either way. It can be worse if you are married and your side action is single. The single person may not be willing to hide any longer. You make a great point about the single having a place to meet. That is the most complicated part if both are married. I have a friend that I rarely see because it is so difficult to find a comfortable place to play.
 
I'm a 42 year old married man on the way to not being married any more. Right now I'm just looking for friends for chatting and maybe to play with in the near future.
 
ok

I'm married and prefer married. It seems many singles rule out married because the are looking for someone who is not "taken." If your playmate is married that means you are both cyber-cheating (unless the spouse has given permission for said partner to play). I don't know about the sexless marriage thing but it holds true in many cases. Many married women looking for sex here would not be looking if they were getting laid by their hubby. In my case, I just enjoy variety. And after years and years, the bloom definitely is off the rose. Isn't it like that for everybody? I should tell my wife but I don't want to complicate what is a good marriage. We are discussing (preliminary stages) experimenting with swinging.
 
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