Married or Attached But Looking Thread

He tends to be fairly conservative when it comes to sex while I enjoy a little kink. ;) Sometimes I wish he would find someone else to fuck just to learn more about himself, his preferences, and how women do some things differently.

I'm slowly trying to pull the kink out of him but some things I suggest get me sideways looks. And, please don't think I'm just bashing the hell out of him here, but I'd like to find ways to work on holding off his "happy moment". Seems like as soon as I really get into it, he finishes. Then he blames it on me for being too vocal and rolls over.[/

I hear what you are saying ! i think my hubby needs to go to sex school on how to please a woman !

Hi I am married and live in texas new to the site and just looking to make friends and have some fun and see what happens


I have the opposite problem, I last and last until she cums multiple times anbd she cant handle it, it's like she dreads sex cause she knows what's coming... and then I don't get any
 
He tends to be fairly conservative when it comes to sex while I enjoy a little kink. ;) Sometimes I wish he would find someone else to fuck just to learn more about himself, his preferences, and how women do some things differently.

I'm slowly trying to pull the kink out of him but some things I suggest get me sideways looks. And, please don't think I'm just bashing the hell out of him here, but I'd like to find ways to work on holding off his "happy moment". Seems like as soon as I really get into it, he finishes. Then he blames it on me for being too vocal and rolls over.[/

I hear what you are saying ! i think my hubby needs to go to sex school on how to please a woman !

Hi I am married and live in texas new to the site and just looking to make friends and have some fun and see what happens

Had the same thing here just reversed, she had no idea there was more then the missonary style, and to wear anything like stockings or heels was like no way! I made some head way then boom the bottom fell out, so nothing at all in over a year, I gave up begging, I hope you do better than I did, and I bet you will just hang in there and keep at him. :)
 
As I have become wiser with age, I believe that a 40 something woman or any woman should not be taken for granted emotionally physically or by any means. Being assertive and expressing herself compliments her sensual side.
 
He tends to be fairly conservative when it comes to sex while I enjoy a little kink. ;) Sometimes I wish he would find someone else to fuck just to learn more about himself, his preferences, and how women do some things differently.

I'm slowly trying to pull the kink out of him but some things I suggest get me sideways looks. And, please don't think I'm just bashing the hell out of him here, but I'd like to find ways to work on holding off his "happy moment". Seems like as soon as I really get into it, he finishes. Then he blames it on me for being too vocal and rolls over.[/

I hear what you are saying ! i think my hubby needs to go to sex school on how to please a woman !

Hi I am married and live in texas new to the site and just looking to make friends and have some fun and see what happens


What kind of kink do you enjoy? LOL what did you suggest that got you a sideways look? I think it would be fun to have what you are doing for him.
 
And I am here to tell you as a 42 year old woman,THAT IS TRUE!!!!! Also, in your 40's, because woman have usually had experience in vanilla things, they are much more open to new ideas and will try more things at least once. IMO

I second the statement! Very true. Too bad our husbands don't have the wherewithal to take advantage of us.
 
I hear what you are saying ! i think my hubby needs to go to sex school on how to please a woman !

Hi I am married and live in texas new to the site and just looking to make friends and have some fun and see what happens

Hi lioness. Welcome to the site. Hopefully you'll find whatever it is that you are looking for. I am also married in Texas. Always looking for new friends. What kinds of things are you interested in?
 
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DAMN all these lucky husbands and not taking advantage of such a great thing,,,damn my life

Need to get the frustrated married Litsters all in one room...guys not getting sex on one side, women not getting it on the other and pair up. All of this wasted sexual energy could power major cities it if could be harnessed. ;)

All of the men here not getting enough sex and ready and willing, and I somehow ended up with a husband that decided once a year was enough quite some time ago....the Fates are cruel.
 
Need to get the frustrated married Litsters all in one room...guys not getting sex on one side, women not getting it on the other and pair up. All of this wasted sexual energy could power major cities it if could be harnessed. ;)

All of the men here not getting enough sex and ready and willing, and I somehow ended up with a husband that decided once a year was enough quite some time ago....the Fates are cruel.

Sorry to hear that, I can't figure out these men, I have always been told "Guy's only think of one thing", and with me probably pretty true, but to see all these others not taking care of their wife's needs, I'm like how in the world does that happen, OMG you lucky bastard wake up and take care of her.
 
Need to get the frustrated married Litsters all in one room...guys not getting sex on one side, women not getting it on the other and pair up. All of this wasted sexual energy could power major cities it if could be harnessed. ;)

All of the men here not getting enough sex and ready and willing, and I somehow ended up with a husband that decided once a year was enough quite some time ago....the Fates are cruel.

i agree but the land of the living is not on this GPS...;)....what a waste of all this sexual energy....:mad:
 
i agree but the land of the living is not on this GPS...;)....what a waste of all this sexual energy....:mad:

It's kind of in the "middle" of the country. ;) Close your eyes, tap your heels three times, think sexy thoughts and poof!, you're there.
 
I am married w m 53 also in almost sexless marriage. I am looking for women in my area for possible sexual adventures. Yes I definitely don't want to give my money to Ashley Madison. I would love to meet someone from the Tulsa area where I live.

I also enjoy writng sex role plays with ladies and hot im. So far I have not found any serious ladies here. If there are any here please pm me.
 
Need to get the frustrated married Litsters all in one room...guys not getting sex on one side, women not getting it on the other and pair up. All of this wasted sexual energy could power major cities it if could be harnessed. ;)

All of the men here not getting enough sex and ready and willing, and I somehow ended up with a husband that decided once a year was enough quite some time ago....the Fates are cruel.

We all wish it were that simple. I know there are women in the Dallas area in this situation, but finding one seems like a one in a million shot. Beyond that, if you do find someone in your situation, that is willing to step out, there has to a connection and a mutual interest in each other. Then there the obvious logistical hurdles and inherent risks of safety, discretion, etc. It can be done, but those that find a match are very lucky indeed.
 
Need to get the frustrated married Litsters all in one room...guys not getting sex on one side, women not getting it on the other and pair up. All of this wasted sexual energy could power major cities it if could be harnessed. ;)

Funny! It probably could.
 
Nothing changes its the same the world over, guys can never get enough sex. There appears to be a shortage of females who like or want sex;)
 
Nothing changes its the same the world over, guys can never get enough sex. There appears to be a shortage of females who like or want sex;)

Has a tally every been done, or done lately here? I have a feeling you'll see quite a large number of sex-starved women here. It's not just the men not getting sex in a marriage. We also get tired of begging and cajoling with little success.
 
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