Married or Attached But Looking Thread

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If you want to Private Message with someone turn that ability on in your literotica profile.

You can fine me on yahoo messenger....same as my login here.

Steve
 
married but horny as hell 45 yr old white male looking for some discreet female fun in Toronto, Ontario Canada. As long as your clean alls good, like a shaven pussy, but i have a small problem, it takes me forever to cum......is that really a problem?
 
my two cents

He tends to be fairly conservative when it comes to sex while I enjoy a little kink. ;) Sometimes I wish he would find someone else to fuck just to learn more about himself, his preferences, and how women do some things differently.

I'm slowly trying to pull the kink out of him but some things I suggest get me sideways looks. And, please don't think I'm just bashing the hell out of him here, but I'd like to find ways to work on holding off his "happy moment". Seems like as soon as I really get into it, he finishes. Then he blames it on me for being too vocal and rolls over.

I'm sure he's a very nice guy in some ways. After all, you married him. But he seems to be a real dud when it comes to sex. I'm older but extremely kinky and open to anything. I'd love to talk to you about it. I'm in Kansas City as the nic implies.
 
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Ashley Madison may be expensive but I'll bet it's more effective than this which is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. At least AM has a lot of attached females who claim to be looking for sex. Bottom line: If you're brilliant, look like a movie star and incredibly clever and funny, you probably won't have a problem hooking up in real life or here. For the rest of us, happy hunting.
 
Is everyone all of the sudden single

Cmon you cheating fuckers come on out n be proud. this is basically the only place you can.... take advantage.
 
I'm attached and looking.... but only looking here, not in r/l. Not gonna make that leap.... but it's sure fun to look. :D
 
Ashley Madison may be expensive but I'll bet it's more effective than this which is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. At least AM has a lot of attached females who claim to be looking for sex. Bottom line: If you're brilliant, look like a movie star and incredibly clever and funny, you probably won't have a problem hooking up in real life or here. For the rest of us, happy hunting.

kc.....I guess for the guys here it may seem that way. There are many only looking to chat. I haven't had that problem fortunately. I have met many friends on the site....now not all of them have I had an intimate relationship with but I have met several people from Lit in R/L, and I certainly do not look like a movie star.
 
Hello all, 30/m from SC here, just looking around and having fun. New to Lit, but already enjoying all it seems to offer.
 
Ashley Madison may be expensive but I'll bet it's more effective than this which is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. At least AM has a lot of attached females who claim to be looking for sex. Bottom line: If you're brilliant, look like a movie star and incredibly clever and funny, you probably won't have a problem hooking up in real life or here. For the rest of us, happy hunting.

I think this is nonsense. I have had several opportunities to meet people, which I have turned down and one person who I met, many years ago. I am not here to meet people but, there are people who I have met on the site - like the one I mentioned who I did spend a R/L weekend with - who I would certainly get together with.

It all depends on what you are looking for and whether you can find someone who you hit it off with.

My pic is in my profile and it is pretty clear that I am NO movie star nor do I have boyish model good looks. I think, in fact, that those qualities would work far better for a R/L encounter because that would move much more quickly. Here online, where things would typically move more slowly due to geograhic restrictions and other restraints, if you are a douchebag, that will eventually come out in the wash and it won't matter WHAT you look like.

All my two cents. Worth far less to many.....
 
introduction

hi. married man in the uk here. looking for some flirty chat and e mails. maybe a little phone sex and text and pictures swapping maybe. with women only please or maybe couples but i'm not bi or even curious
 
I've met with a woman from Lit a few times and continue to see her when time allows. I'm not a super stud but we just clicked and we didn't meet through ads or were we really looking it just happened. Just because people don't announce it to the world doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

It takes a connection and a whole lot of patience and dumb luck, lol
 
38/f, usually looking to play with husband . . . but. He's been traveling waaaaaay too much and I no longer want to put my fun on hold when he's gone and I'm becoming bored of my toys. Besides, he's always had the fantasy of me confessing a hot and dirty fling, so . . .
 
This Place could use some love

anyone here that is attached but looking wanna put themselves on this fucked up pile? be loud be proud!
 
it sucks being so isolated or the like minded females in my city are not familiar with this forum...
married male, vancouver island, BC, wife away ... looking for some fun
 
Very late 40's mwm, massachusetts, looking for women...always available for fun and friendly chats and PM's or coffee for locals
 
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looking... this is long, but please read

37, female from N Ky...married and ignored at home...would like to be reminded what its like to be wanted.....i tend to have a very kinky side. lol

This thread is exactly what I need right now. To begin to introduce myself: I'm a married male... a soul from the big city who decided to move into the middle of a national forest several years ago to write, etc.... but even if I were still among city folks, I'd still be on Literotica. I'm not blaming horniness, or loneliness on the trees alone.
I'm looking for a woman to play with. I've flirted, chatted... I've enjoyed that and thank you to all I've crossed paths with. I do think that we're all looking for something here that we can't have. Intimacy is not the same on the web as it is in the real, face-to-face, fornicating world. I've had one very hot on-line relationship with a woman in London. It ended after several months. It occurred to me later that I didn't want just hot talk.... I wanted friendship. Friendship is a very serious intimacy. I think I know why she broke off contact. I've learned my lesson. Cybersex isn't compatible with monogamy-- I think we all want more, because this is the safest place to be a slut, or whatever the male equivalent is.
More about myself. I'm (yes) happily married. Sixty and fit (here's where I sell myself), with a thick head of brown hair. And a thick cock. I'm looking for an on-line lover. Or, if someone wants to talk, I'm told I'm a good friend. I'll even chat with guys, if you want to share hot stories or fantasies.
 
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