Married Men: Flirt, Date, One Night Stand or Affair?

[amigayorbi]

If you were to stray, what would it be and why?

I don’t have the answers so would be good to know from Lit community!

 

[SevMax2]

Well, I have an open marriage, so I'm not sure if it counts, but it really depends on my needs at the moment...and the needs of the other partners, should I encounter them. I'm more than happy to start with a fling in many cases rather than a one-night stand....affairs are a matter to approach with more caution, and only if the fling goes well.

 

[amigayorbi]

Interesting, would you have multiple flings at the same time? I mean libido is one thing and managing time is another. Open marriage, of course, makes it easier as you are not spending time being discreet.

 

[SevMax2]

Interesting, would you have multiple flings at the same time? I mean libido is one thing and managing time is another. Open marriage, of course, makes it easier as you are not spending time being discreet.

I would maybe do about two to three flings at once max, just because of time pressures. Flings are easier to manage, since they are short term, but they can still put pressure on one.

 

[Gr82meetu2]

I’ve really only had one or two flings ever.
Never a one night stand

All the affairs have been minimum 2 years

 

[womaneater58]

One night stand, date or affair. I don't care what you might call it but sex would be involved.

 

[Easyvirtue]

I had an affair for over 2 years off and on, was only about sex, no relationship needs from me on her behalf, she got off on me being married and loved to talk about my wife when we were intimate!

 

[AdeptOralist]

If you were to stray, what would it be and why?

I don’t have the answers so would be good to know from Lit community!

Flirt, date, then affair!

 

[Boat1]

None of the above.

If I had the time for that, I'd choose to spend it with my Lovely Domme Wife, as she is EVERYTHING to me. No one else compares.

 

[magicalmoments]

I have never liked dating, I've found I'm useless at flirting, I couldn't be bothered with an affair so i guess that leaves one night stands. Back when I was "dating" (for want of a better word) I discovered adult contact magazines, full of personal adverts from men, women and couples looking for casual sexual partners. I used those exclusively for my "dating", I had no "normal" girlfriends. The advertisers were looking for a good time, so was I, there was never any misunderstanding about why we were getting together, no flirting required, no commitment required, just getting together for sex. So if I was to stray, that's how I'd do it.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

I flirt all the time. One night stand I'm not against in the right circumstance.

I would not do an affair, at least I don't think. Last thing I need is a second relationship or someone catching feels for me.