davion2308
Motivated
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- Dec 24, 2005
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Hello, open-minded folks of Literotica.
Here's my situation. I'm 33, white, attractive and in shape. My wife is 32 and extremely attractive. We have been together for 16 years, married for 9. We have a daughter, almost 2, and another on the way.
Now, I love my wife. We generally get along well, we haven't had major blow-ups on years, and we're on the same page and we like each other as well as love each other. I have a good job, a house, a dog who listens 80% of the time, and I enjoy myself, except for one thing...
I like the physical contact that comes with an intimate relationship. Let's forget groping, boob-grabbing, ass-smacking, and all the things associated with sex. I like just touching. A hand on an arm on the couch, having my face touched, just making contact throughout the week. It doesn't have to be sustained or lengthy, I don't need long, strong eye contact and my wife to have her hands on me all the time.
I just like human contact from a grown woman.
My wife was never really touchy-feely. Everything else completely agrees with me except her level of contact. She's not a touchy person, and almost all the touching she does goes to our daughter. She has no problem snuggling with our little girl, or holding her, all those things. Now even less comes my way. I'm sad to think of the second kid eating up the rest of the contact.
Yes, we have sex. It's as often as it always has been. It has the right amount of kink and I enjoy it.
Yes, I have pointed mentioned and asked my wife to touch my face more, put her arms around me more, touch her ankle to mine during dinner more, and she acknowledges she just never thinks about it. She'll do it for a day and go back to the old way.
Enter the other woman.
I have a co-worker who is touchy without being overly flirty. I love the attention. She's like that to some people but she makes me feel special the way my wife doesn't. I will never have sex with this other woman, never kiss her, never do anything traditionally 'wrong' with her.
I don't know that my wife will care but I don't know if I should tell her. I'm 50/50 to think she might say, "Good as long as you don't bang her." She might be happy she no longer needs to worry about touching me.
Do I say something or do I just enjoy it? My coworker has met my wife on a few occasions and coworker has a husband. She has never said anything suggestive or even called me a work husband or whatever. But she makes contact and I like it. And she knows it so she does it.
Here's my situation. I'm 33, white, attractive and in shape. My wife is 32 and extremely attractive. We have been together for 16 years, married for 9. We have a daughter, almost 2, and another on the way.
Now, I love my wife. We generally get along well, we haven't had major blow-ups on years, and we're on the same page and we like each other as well as love each other. I have a good job, a house, a dog who listens 80% of the time, and I enjoy myself, except for one thing...
I like the physical contact that comes with an intimate relationship. Let's forget groping, boob-grabbing, ass-smacking, and all the things associated with sex. I like just touching. A hand on an arm on the couch, having my face touched, just making contact throughout the week. It doesn't have to be sustained or lengthy, I don't need long, strong eye contact and my wife to have her hands on me all the time.
I just like human contact from a grown woman.
My wife was never really touchy-feely. Everything else completely agrees with me except her level of contact. She's not a touchy person, and almost all the touching she does goes to our daughter. She has no problem snuggling with our little girl, or holding her, all those things. Now even less comes my way. I'm sad to think of the second kid eating up the rest of the contact.
Yes, we have sex. It's as often as it always has been. It has the right amount of kink and I enjoy it.
Yes, I have pointed mentioned and asked my wife to touch my face more, put her arms around me more, touch her ankle to mine during dinner more, and she acknowledges she just never thinks about it. She'll do it for a day and go back to the old way.
Enter the other woman.
I have a co-worker who is touchy without being overly flirty. I love the attention. She's like that to some people but she makes me feel special the way my wife doesn't. I will never have sex with this other woman, never kiss her, never do anything traditionally 'wrong' with her.
I don't know that my wife will care but I don't know if I should tell her. I'm 50/50 to think she might say, "Good as long as you don't bang her." She might be happy she no longer needs to worry about touching me.
Do I say something or do I just enjoy it? My coworker has met my wife on a few occasions and coworker has a husband. She has never said anything suggestive or even called me a work husband or whatever. But she makes contact and I like it. And she knows it so she does it.
