married but...

[gregori]

my wife has no clue that i have had many men suck my cock. and that forbidden nature , that it is so "wrong" makes it all the hotter.
i had left it alone for almost 10 years till 3 weeks ago when i met my new friend.
we met for the second time today. he led me to a bathroom where he works. i went in and he joined me a few minutes later. we locked the door. he knelt and unzipped me. and once again i felt his lips on my cock. i had been drreaming of this , wanting this sice he first sucked me two weeks ago.
i came so hard i was shuddering. and it felt great as he swallowed every drop/
i can hardly wait for him to let me know when his roomate is going to be out so we can get together for some hardcore naked sweaty sex.
i think the fact that he is gay, black and half my age add a lot of spice to the idea of fucking him.
hope it is soon

 

[gregori]

i started having sex with men when i was about 35. having been married and monogomous for 4 years, i met with a young guy to echange blow jobs. but we didnt try very hard or long and so gave up.

then a few years later, a larger city i tried again.

met a gay guy, went to his place and got blown. i felt guilty as hell for a week or two, then the urge came back. i had trhown away his pnone number so it took me maybe 45 min of dialing to remeber it. i asked if i could come over again. and he bacame my first reg bud. for the next 10 years i would use the free gay chat line in the free paper to met men. io muat have been sucked by 30 men during this time. i loved the risk, after about 3 or 4 yerars of getting sucked i fucked the then current reg bud i had. it was fantastic. i would imagine fucking him when i fucked my wife. but after a while we moved back to our state to be near aging parents. small country town, so no sex for me(outside of marriage for the past 10 years.

then a few weeks ago i started pl;aying with craigslist.

met a hot young black gay guy. him 25 me 56.

the first meeting was for coffee, and he chickend out. so we didnt meet, he left the coffee shop without approaching me.

the next meeting (after a ferw more emails) was at his place at 8am. his roomate was sleeping in the next room.

we stood close, he unzipped me, eased his hand in and fondled my ****. i got nerveous and backed out, just couldnt do it.

a few more emails and an afternoon when his roomate was at clas or at work.

i went back to his placew with a bottle of wine. he put the wine on the kitchen table and led me to his bedroom.

we hugged, undressed each other. he kneeled and sucked me

we got naked

lay on his bed

touching tasting writhing, groping, carressing, kissing

then he slid his body down mine and took my **** in his mouth again. he had me shivering and shuddering, till i climaxed in a quaking shock of electric currrent.

god it was the hottest sex id had in years , maybe decades.

i want him again so badly.

and my wife is leaving town for 10 days in november.

so good to be back at this pleasure. now ive got to check my email.

i am working till midnight and hope to stop off at his place to feed him my cock before i go home tonight.

we met again yesterday for the second time and he took my load so well that i shivered as i came. we met in a bothroom wher he works. it was the first time i ever had sex with a guy in a bathroom.

next time we meet i want to fuck his hot young black gay ass.

 

[tcoleman]

so sexy

damn, i understand your feeling , ive done it too

 

[klippert]

had my first m/m in nearly 20 yrs, this summer. I hope you get around to rimming as well...

 

[Jander1]

gregori, just letting u know your little story got me going...just what i was looking for, thanks!

 

[larrycando]

very hot....

 

[Queen_Vicki]

I might need to divorce your wife.

 

[haurni]

If you're going to be bad, at least be safe!

 

[CJontherocks]

So here's the thing... I can't get past the married thing, and I think it's more about me than about her. I would love to be with a guy. But there's this girl to whom I, at least tacitly, promised to be faithful. (Though I don't recall anything in the wedding vows that specifically says I will not have sex with anyone else.)

I have always maintained that bisexual people can have perfectly monogamous relationships and being bi does not mean one is polyamorous or doesn't have the capacity to be faithful to his or her partner. And now I want sex with a man. Was I wrong?

Let's see... "have and hold," "love and cherish," "honor" (obey was deleted)... "death do us part" ... nope, nothing in there about going out for some incredibly awesome guy-on-guy sex. So I'm good, right?

 

[Queen_Vicki]

So here's the thing... I can't get past the married thing, and I think it's more about me than about her. I would love to be with a guy. But there's this girl to whom I, at least tacitly, promised to be faithful. (Though I don't recall anything in the wedding vows that specifically says I will not have sex with anyone else.)

I have always maintained that bisexual people can have perfectly monogamous relationships and being bi does not mean one is polyamorous or doesn't have the capacity to be faithful to his or her partner. And now I want sex with a man. Was I wrong?

Let's see... "have and hold," "love and cherish," "honor" (obey was deleted)... "death do us part" ... nope, nothing in there about going out for some incredibly awesome guy-on-guy sex. So I'm good, right?

If your are serious than, no.You are not good.Although I believe most people here would encourage you to sleep around with men, and continue to cheat on your wife. I am all for man on man action,but why not divorce your wife first? Ask her how does she feel about sleeping with men? If she feels uncomfortable, and you are still hell bent on doing it, then you might not need to be married, or at least separate from each other.

 

[thelovingsadist]

Let's see... "have and hold," "love and cherish," "honor" (obey was deleted)... "death do us part" ... nope, nothing in there about going out for some incredibly awesome guy-on-guy sex. So I'm good, right?

If you are seriously asking for an opinion, my opinion is this: honor is something that includes "honesty," and "honesty" is something that does not include "cheating."

Think about this. And, if you really do want and need bisexuality, then just talk to her about it and it will either work out or you will divorce. Either way, you'll get what you want.

 

[Stella_Omega]

"faithful" in the marriage vow means doing the things you promised to do, refraining from the things you know will fuck your partner up. My marriage was perfectly open-- where we got into cheating was when he spent money he shouldn't have spent, after making a promise that he would never do that again. That was the unfaithfulness that sent me out the door. Sex? not sop much. Your mileage, however, may vary.

As for Grigory-- cheating is cheating, doesn't matter what sex your cheating with. I'm not saying don't, but be honest about it.

 

[CJontherocks]

If your are serious than, no.You are not good.Although I believe most people here would encourage you to sleep around with men, and continue to cheat on your wife. I am all for man on man action,but why not divorce your wife first? Ask her how does she feel about sleeping with men? If she feels uncomfortable, and you are still hell bent on doing it, then you might not need to be married, or at least separate from each other.

Well, I was mostly just foolin' around in my remarks about the wedding vows. The problem is that I've been turning this over in my head at all, and that's something I never thought I'd do. I'm afraid that says something about either (a) my relationship, or (b) me. I'm having some difficulty reconciling that. Maybe I'm just looking at too much porn.

If you are seriously asking for an opinion, my opinion is this: honor is something that includes "honesty," and "honesty" is something that does not include "cheating."

Hmmm... I guess you got me there. Damn linguistic nuances! I would’ve gotten away with it too, if it weren’t for those meddling English majors.

"faithful" in the marriage vow means doing the things you promised to do, refraining from the things you know will fuck your partner up. My marriage was perfectly open-- where we got into cheating was when he spent money he shouldn't have spent, after making a promise that he would never do that again. That was the unfaithfulness that sent me out the door. Sex? not sop much. Your mileage, however, may vary.

I admit that I shamefully used this thread to get out my thoughts. It seemed the best fit. No, I do not seek permission or affirmation here. What I seek is reconciliation, on two issues really. First, I am afraid of what it says about me that I actually have considered having sex with a man on the sly. I’ve also considered having sex with a woman on the sly. When I decided that’s not something I am willing to do (another woman, that is), it gave me pause. Why should I be so willing to have sex with a guy, when I am apparently sure I do not want sex with another woman? If confronted with a situation... let’s say I’m in a hotel bar and a guy hits on me... would I back out as I did with the woman? And if I would, what does that say, if anything, about my belief in bisexual monogamy? So now I’m wrestling with those two ideas and I can’t really wrap my head around a good answer; or at least the answer I want to hear. It would be simple, I suppose, if I really was presented with an opportunity and turned it down. Then I would know that I’m pretty great and my hypothesis is supported.

I do know that our relationship is not what it used to be, and that may have a great deal to do with why this is suddenly a great dilemma for me. But I was fantasizing about dudes long before our happy marriage became questionable. Everything seemed so simple when I was young. Hey, there’s a thought too. Maybe as I approach the big five-oh and begin to ponder my mortality, I have become nostalgic for the freedom of youth and obsessed with my unfulfilled desires.