managing expectations: guidance requested from experienced people...

[ukbicuriousguy]

There appear to be lots of bicurious men on Lit, but a dearth of suitable partners. From my (limited!) experience we're looking for someone to help us down this path, to 'take the lead' (not necessarily 'dominate'!), maye even seduce us! When bicurious newbie meets bicurious newbie it just doesn't seem to work....

Thoughts anyone?
Am I off the mark?
Is there a solution?

 

[silver_eyes]

When bicurious newbie meets bicurious newbie it just doesn't seem to work....

Not so sure about that. Remember back when we were virgins? A lot of the fun was learning together!

 

[ukbicuriousguy]

thanks!

So maybe it can work.... Just its a bit hit and miss for some of us!!

 

[infinity706]

Mostly, the thing you really need to remember is to bring the motherfucking lube if you want to do anal. It seems like tons of bi curious guys want to try it, but exactly 1 has brought lubricant of any kind or even condoms. (you really want condoms for anal even if STDs aren't a concern because it's easier to get rid of the shit that way) That's the main issue I've seen.

 

[silver_eyes]

So maybe it can work.... Just its a bit hit and miss for some of us!!

It's hit or miss for all of us!

 

[ukbicuriousguy]

Mostly, the thing you really need to remember is to bring the motherfucking lube if you want to do anal. It seems like tons of bi curious guys want to try it, but exactly 1 has brought lubricant of any kind or even condoms. (you really want condoms for anal even if STDs aren't a concern because it's easier to get rid of the shit that way) That's the main issue I've seen.

Only ONE brought lube?
Thatks either inconsiderate or very trusting!!

 

[ilike2try]

Well, I for one am thankful to have had a very experienced, conscientious, understanding -- and yes, attractive and well-hung -- gay man to be my guide the first time. There was no selfish B.S., and he didn't try to do anal with me that night. (He was we aware that it was his cock I wanted to suck and nothing more). He gave me exactly what I wanted and needed. It's well worth whatever time it takes to meet a good guy who understands where you're at and will do what it takes to ensure your first time is pleasant and memorable.