Mama Blu's

How you been? Need a friendly bartender ear?

I'm doing okay. Up and down, aka LIFE. Good to see you back. You know how to spark a conversation. I will have to come earlier next time. Are you already thinking of the next cover charge?
 
I'm doing okay. Up and down, aka LIFE. Good to see you back. You know how to spark a conversation. I will have to come earlier next time. Are you already thinking of the next cover charge?

You got an idea for a cover for tomorrow? Because honestly... I'm thinking that I have all the fixins' for a whiskey sour sitting in my kitchen. Thinking I might wander in there, mix myself a drink and then crawl into bed. lol

Night, sugar! :kiss:
 
You got an idea for a cover for tomorrow? Because honestly... I'm thinking that I have all the fixins' for a whiskey sour sitting in my kitchen. Thinking I might wander in there, mix myself a drink and then crawl into bed. lol

Night, sugar! :kiss:

Good night. Dream in colour.
 
Tuesday 4/16 Cover Charge

Blaaaaahhhhh! So went for a run. I'm being liberal with the use of the word "run". I did this slow, meandering, zombie like shuffle. But I did it for over 30 mins and covered a mile. So I'm counting it as exercise. My body feels like crap and my arms seriously hurt! (Would love for someone to explain that to me!) I absolutely despise running. I hate exercise in general but of all the exercises in all the world, running tops my list of the worst! But sadly I put on waaay too much weight this winter between the yummy comfort foods when one is snowed in and the lack of exercise because....well we were snowed in a bit which calls for movies and snuggling not exercising. So now I'm in the predicament of it being cheaper to lose the poundage to fit into my summer clothes vs. spending a shit ton of money on a new wardrobe. Although don't get me wrong, a nice new outfit will be a nice reward when I get back down to pre-holidays weight. ;)

So cover charge tonight....what is something you hate doing but you do anyway because it's good for you?Good for you can mean anything. Good for you financially, emotionally, physically, etc...

Chime in and let's get started on the drinking. Alcohol is good for an aching body, right?

blu :rose:
 
Well no. It's not that it's all about me. But I have reached a point where I will ask for what I want or need and if the person I am dealing with can't do it then I will walk away. I know that sounds harsh. I don't mean for it to be. I am always open to someone telling me what he/she needs and I will do my best to give it to them. But if at the end of the day, if we can't meet each other's needs (again applying the thought to relationships in general), then we just wish each other well and go our separate ways. No harm no foul. Is that selfish?

Well you know, it's like this see...I mean like...you know but...hey...waitaminnit...are you trying to tell me something? :eek: :D


Blaaaaahhhhh! So went for a run. I'm being liberal with the use of the word "run". I did this slow, meandering, zombie like shuffle. But I did it for over 30 mins and covered a mile. So I'm counting it as exercise. My body feels like crap and my arms seriously hurt! (Would love for someone to explain that to me!) I absolutely despise running. I hate exercise in general but of all the exercises in all the world, running tops my list of the worst! But sadly I put on waaay too much weight this winter between the yummy comfort foods when one is snowed in and the lack of exercise because....well we were snowed in a bit which calls for movies and snuggling not exercising. So now I'm in the predicament of it being cheaper to lose the poundage to fit into my summer clothes vs. spending a shit ton of money on a new wardrobe. Although don't get me wrong, a nice new outfit will be a nice reward when I get back down to pre-holidays weight. ;)

So cover charge tonight....what is something you hate doing but you do anyway because it's good for you?Good for you can mean anything. Good for you financially, emotionally, physically, etc...

Chime in and let's get started on the drinking. Alcohol is good for an aching body, right?

blu :rose:

If you don't like to run then ride a bike. ;)

Anyway, you mean you don't get enough exercise from sex? :confused:

Getting up at 5 am for work. :rolleyes:

I'll have a cold water please.
 
Well you know, it's like this see...I mean like...you know but...hey...waitaminnit...are you trying to tell me something? :eek: :D




If you don't like to run then ride a bike. ;)

Anyway, you mean you don't get enough exercise from sex? :confused:

Getting up at 5 am for work. :rolleyes:

I'll have a cold water please.

Ouch! 5:00 A.M.?!

I tried riding a bike. I fell over. Lol!
 
Blaaaaahhhhh! So went for a run. I'm being liberal with the use of the word "run". I did this slow, meandering, zombie like shuffle. But I did it for over 30 mins and covered a mile. So I'm counting it as exercise. My body feels like crap and my arms seriously hurt! (Would love for someone to explain that to me!) I absolutely despise running. I hate exercise in general but of all the exercises in all the world, running tops my list of the worst! But sadly I put on waaay too much weight this winter between the yummy comfort foods when one is snowed in and the lack of exercise because....well we were snowed in a bit which calls for movies and snuggling not exercising. So now I'm in the predicament of it being cheaper to lose the poundage to fit into my summer clothes vs. spending a shit ton of money on a new wardrobe. Although don't get me wrong, a nice new outfit will be a nice reward when I get back down to pre-holidays weight. ;)

So cover charge tonight....what is something you hate doing but you do anyway because it's good for you?Good for you can mean anything. Good for you financially, emotionally, physically, etc...

Chime in and let's get started on the drinking. Alcohol is good for an aching body, right?

blu :rose:

In the exercise world: I despise planks, especially doing them in the gym. My form sucks and so does my time. I do It because I need to improve my core strength.

In my job I hate being stepped up to fill in for my boss. I do It because I am good at it, and it serves as part of my mentoring of younger engineers (getting an example).

In my personal life it's working on my relationship with a family member who continually let's me down. You can't pick your family.

I'd like another JD whiskey sour. You make a good virtual cocktail.
 
Cover Charge... Monday 6/10

Hey hey hey! So I've been off getting shit done only to wind up sidelined due to knee injury. It seems I'm too old and probably too fat to be going at such a pace. :( But that means I'm just sitting here and (if I'm being honest) starting to feel a little sorry for myself. So figured I would jump on here and see what is going on in Lit Land. Any gossip or drama? Or better yet any good conversation to be had?

I'll even do an easy cover charge. Since I've just described my latest injury, tell me yours. What was your last injury? Points if you learned a lesson. :D

blu :rose:
 
Hey hey hey! So I've been off getting shit done only to wind up sidelined due to knee injury. It seems I'm too old and probably too fat to be going at such a pace. :( But that means I'm just sitting here and (if I'm being honest) starting to feel a little sorry for myself. So figured I would jump on here and see what is going on in Lit Land. Any gossip or drama? Or better yet any good conversation to be had?

I'll even do an easy cover charge. Since I've just described my latest injury, tell me yours. What was your last injury? Points if you learned a lesson. :D

blu :rose:

While explaining to people I was helping give a tour to the nuances of getting off the van safely, I slipped off the last step and crash landed on my knees and side. Because my knee was scraped and hurt I tried getting up using my other knee...which left everyone with the impression I was a turtle on it's shell trying to turn over...it sure was funny for them...

My lesson learned? Just let the fuckers fall and laugh at them instead...:D
 
While explaining to people I was helping give a tour to the nuances of getting off the van safely, I slipped off the last step and crash landed on my knees and side. Because my knee was scraped and hurt I tried getting up using my other knee...which left everyone with the impression I was a turtle on it's shell trying to turn over...it sure was funny for them...

My lesson learned? Just let the fuckers fall and laugh at them instead...:D

Oh no!! I would never laugh. Okay that's a lie. I'm laughing right now. :D

But I am sorry. Can I get you a drink? What's your pleasure, darlin'? :kiss:
 
Sat 6/29 Cover Charge

Looks like I have a day to myself. Well at least for a few hours. So thought I would open up the bar for some conversations. :)

Over the past few days I've been thinking about who I am now vs. who I was 20 years ago. Fuck there are a lot of things I wish I had known back then. Things about myself that I just discovered too late. The fact that I really identify with the poly lifestyle. The concept of openly living multiple people really resonates with me and is something that I used to struggle with. I could never understand the notion of only loving one person. Or that live "has' to be a certain way. I tend to just love. Unfortunately I discovered this only in the last 5-7 years and 22 years into a marriage. Lol. Sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I had known and been able to embrace that part of me at an earlier age.

So cover charge for the day.... What is something you wish you had known earlier?

Anyone up for some sharing?

blu :rose:
 
Looks like I have a day to myself. Well at least for a few hours. So thought I would open up the bar for some conversations. :)

Over the past few days I've been thinking about who I am now vs. who I was 20 years ago. Fuck there are a lot of things I wish I had known back then. Things about myself that I just discovered too late. The fact that I really identify with the poly lifestyle. The concept of openly living multiple people really resonates with me and is something that I used to struggle with. I could never understand the notion of only loving one person. Or that live "has' to be a certain way. I tend to just love. Unfortunately I discovered this only in the last 5-7 years and 22 years into a marriage. Lol. Sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I had known and been able to embrace that part of me at an earlier age.

So cover charge for the day.... What is something you wish you had known earlier?

Anyone up for some sharing?

blu :rose:

I was painfully shy ad a young man. That meant not dating much. I wish I'd known how to get over that then. I would have liked to spent more time with "the wrong ones" before I met "the right one".

Got any cold beer?.
 
I was painfully shy ad a young man. That meant not dating much. I wish I'd known how to get over that then. I would have liked to spent more time with "the wrong ones" before I met "the right one".

Got any cold beer?.

Lol....darlin', I have allllll the beers! How's this?

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I kind of know what you mean. I didn't do a lot of "wrong ones" when I was younger. The right one came along when I was 17. I married him at 19. Although that does mean that I never learned how to play the game. I never had to. Hubby liked that I was pretty forthright. When I wanted something I said it and we would negotiate a compromise. I've never been afraid to say what I felt or wanted. Some people find that a bit overwhelming, I think.
 
Looks like I have a day to myself. Well at least for a few hours. So thought I would open up the bar for some conversations. :)

Over the past few days I've been thinking about who I am now vs. who I was 20 years ago. Fuck there are a lot of things I wish I had known back then. Things about myself that I just discovered too late. The fact that I really identify with the poly lifestyle. The concept of openly living multiple people really resonates with me and is something that I used to struggle with. I could never understand the notion of only loving one person. Or that live "has' to be a certain way. I tend to just love. Unfortunately I discovered this only in the last 5-7 years and 22 years into a marriage. Lol. Sometimes I wonder what my life would be like if I had known and been able to embrace that part of me at an earlier age.

So cover charge for the day.... What is something you wish you had known earlier?

Anyone up for some sharing?

blu :rose:

There was a time I really thought I could do the poly thing. I'd had a 20 year run of casual, sometimes multiple girls, almost always younger women.. until I met the smokin hot redhead. Since then, I realize that while I have a massive capacity to love, I couldn't possibly love anyone except my one. For as much as I can love, I'll never feel like I could give her too much...so that part I could never share.

:)
 
There was a time I really thought I could do the poly thing. I'd had a 20 year run of casual, sometimes multiple girls, almost always younger women.. until I met the smokin hot redhead. Since then, I realize that while I have a massive capacity to love, I couldn't possibly love anyone except my one. For as much as I can love, I'll never feel like I could give her too much...so that part I could never share.

:)

I totally get that. Hubby is not poly at all. Lol. It was definitely a negotiation to find boundaries that satisfied both of us. My thing is I'm not built for casual. I like deep relationships and truly getting to know someone.

Congratulations on finding your one! That's awesome! Happy for you!
But now I gotta ask, how did you know she was the one? Was it a punch in the gut or a gradual understanding?
 
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