Hey blu!!!
Come on over, it's sunny and 70!!
I'll make us some margaritas ...
Hello Blu et al
Ohhh.. on my way! [laughs] How ya been Sweet Tea?
*snicker* et al...
Oh? Does that mean I just have to think of a question just for you?
Ohhh.. on my way! [laughs] How ya been Sweet Tea?
*snicker* et al...
Oh? Does that mean I just have to think of a question just for you?
Sweetah!
The light at the end of the tunnel has finally made it's appearance ...
How about you sweet lady?
You're doing the right thing, Blu.Aww.. thanks, Big Papa.
Okay so tonight you get tired Blu. Not enough sleep and way too much shit going on so that even the few hours I got were fitful.
I seem to be struggling with a relationship that I fear is coming to an end. I don't mean that we will never speak, but I sense that the bond we have shared for so many years is weakening and the threads are fraying.
While a part of me wants to fight and scream and even stamp my feet at it, there is another side that feels it might just be best. Because what he wants I cannot give him. What he needs is beyond my capability. And isn't that what love is? Isn't it giving up your wants for the another person's needs? Putting their happiness above your own?
I feel that I cannot say that I love him, that I care for him and then be selfish in this matter. So I am going through the difficult process of letting it fade. I am sure that we will remain friends just distant ones. Gone will be the day long conversation and laughter. Instead it will be replaced with haphazard texts and catching up here and there. *sigh* It is tearing at my heart to lose what has come to be a very important friendship, but I want him to be happy. So that is what I should do, right?
Maybe tonight, I just need advice. Need to know that I am doing the right thing. So tell me, dear patrons of Mama Blu's... what is love? I am not talking about romantic love, but a sincere caring for someone else. What would you be willing to do to ensure that someone you care for can get what they need to be happy.
Blu
You're doing the right thing, Blu.
Sometimes, friendships serve their purpose, and then they fizzle out...because what you needed from them at the time the friendship started is not what you need anymore. People constantly change and life moves along at its steady pace, whether you want it to or not.
Love is a lot of things to the different people in your life, and you love them all in different ways. It always hurts to have to let go of it, because all of the things you hoped for and dreamed about with that person go with it. It's a tough loss to take. but it's not always a bad thing. Sooner or later, you learn to look back omit with smiles instead of tears.
What did Marilyn Monroe say?.... Never regret anything, because at one time it was exactly what you wanted.
*hugs* Blu! And a big ol banana smooch!
Blu, as someone that has horrible advice, I recommend this:
Do what is right for you.
Others have said it, I just have no other way to butter it up.
At least you have friends here that will be here for you
You know it!
Come here, I mush you
