Male multiple orgasms
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ullr said:
Alot of the theory in that book is Tantrically based only presented in sanitized western language .
Personally I like alot of the spiritual trappings
So far, I have had little luck acheiving "Dry" orgasms (save for a few times between the Naked Soles of a perpertually BareFoot Wiccan Lady friend) in partner sex ,. But thay are becoming more frequent in My masturbation/meditation sessions .
Yeah, I am fine with a degree of Mystical mumbo, Works for me! <LOL>
But I also do 300 kegels a day, watch my diet, get regular exercise ,rarely wear shoes and structure my lifestyle as a celebration of sexuality.
I extract a few less dollars but ,hey , I hate driving anyway <LOL>
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I have gotten my b/f to do it once but there was a time span of about 20 - 30 mins in between and it was both by giveing him a b/j
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smokeyjoefun said:I have read a bit on the subject and seem to find that it is possible yet i myself have never experienced one, being male that is, can any ladies out there tell me if you have ever given a man one of these myths, and if you have how have you made it possible.
I have always had my guys have multiples.......I dont let them stop.....when they cum, I get on top or go down on them or something and get them right up again.....(it can be done)....I dont let them mentally be done either.....i keep them occupied......usually a guy doesnt go completly soft immedialtely......that is when i keep it up.....it will then get rock hard and stay that way........with my present SO.....I can get im to orgasm a few times.......some dry and at least 2 times ejaculating.....
So the secret is just dont let it go down and get soft......keep it up guys....and the more you cum the more intense it will get.....
Does any one else think people in this thread seem to be talking about 2 different things?:
1) Orgasm without ejaculation (Tanta type thing)
2) Consecutive normal orgasm (with ejaculation)
Now no. 2 I consider a pretty normal thing, it just depends on arousal level.
No. 1 is the special one, its something I have been interested for a while in and managed to do a few times but still lack control.
What I’m wondering is dose someone have a really good online guide? Google is great but there is just so much crud to sort through!
It would be nice to read about difrent views, the spiritual (Tanta) and the medical.
Cheers.
1) Orgasm without ejaculation (Tanta type thing)
2) Consecutive normal orgasm (with ejaculation)
Now no. 2 I consider a pretty normal thing, it just depends on arousal level.
No. 1 is the special one, its something I have been interested for a while in and managed to do a few times but still lack control.
What I’m wondering is dose someone have a really good online guide? Google is great but there is just so much crud to sort through!
It would be nice to read about difrent views, the spiritual (Tanta) and the medical.
Cheers.
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Re: Re: Male multiple orgasms
some guys get really sensitive after an orgsam... for my man he get so bad it hurts more than feels good
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some guys get really sensitive after an orgsam... for my man he get so bad it hurts more than feels good
The first time I discovered I could have multiple orgasms was pretty late in life. I was with this hot girl that I had been making love to in the past. For a while there I thought that she was the one so for the first time I did not use a rubber. Mind you this is risky business.
So not using a rubber I did not have to pull out, she was ridding me and I came deep up inside her. She was just so hot that I continued to make her ride me until I came again. The second time took much longer and the release was much more intense. She was just so delicious I proceeded to come I think two more times. Since each orgasm after the first takes longer to accomplish our bodies had to grind themselves so much more feverishly.
That was the last time I pulled out after I came
So not using a rubber I did not have to pull out, she was ridding me and I came deep up inside her. She was just so hot that I continued to make her ride me until I came again. The second time took much longer and the release was much more intense. She was just so delicious I proceeded to come I think two more times. Since each orgasm after the first takes longer to accomplish our bodies had to grind themselves so much more feverishly.
That was the last time I pulled out after I came
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Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..............?????????
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Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm..............?????????
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I'll have to try not to let him some time and see where it goes.
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I'll have to try not to let him some time and see where it goes.
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my boyfriend can have two orgasms in one "session" and ejaculates both times. i would say the time period is within about 45 min.
it usually requires a "turn-taking" approach: mutual foreplay, i go down on him, he shoots off in my mouth, he goes down on me, i cum, then by that time he's ready to fuck me and we both cum again.
we've only done it a few times, but it's quite fun if you're feeling up for it. i'm not sure how he does it or why he's only started doing it recently (we been together for over 3 years). i'm not one to question a good thing!
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it usually requires a "turn-taking" approach: mutual foreplay, i go down on him, he shoots off in my mouth, he goes down on me, i cum, then by that time he's ready to fuck me and we both cum again.
we've only done it a few times, but it's quite fun if you're feeling up for it. i'm not sure how he does it or why he's only started doing it recently (we been together for over 3 years). i'm not one to question a good thing!
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Isn't it great to have more than one orgasm per session?Crimson said:
It's too bad very few males have real multiples (like within a few moments of each other). I think the shortest time I've had in between them is probably under 10 min. It just depends on how horned up I am, and how explosive the first one is.
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I can still get off two with in an hour. The second just as good as the first.
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It has taken effort and discipline, but I am getting results with Kegels stretches and breathing exercises.
I am having non ejaculatory orgasms and sometimes the first one or two are fairly weak but if I can hold on long enough the rest are progessively more intense .
Since getting comfortable with a prostate massager I have actually had a few sessions where I have felt sated without ejaculation
I am having non ejaculatory orgasms and sometimes the first one or two are fairly weak but if I can hold on long enough the rest are progessively more intense .
Since getting comfortable with a prostate massager I have actually had a few sessions where I have felt sated without ejaculation
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TumbledLove said:Isn't it great to have more than one orgasm per session?
It's too bad very few males have real multiples (like within a few moments of each other). I think the shortest time I've had in between them is probably under 10 min. It just depends on how horned up I am, and how explosive the first one is.
Most guys I know have just been into getting off.....it s cool to meet so many guys that are into multiple.....which also means that they are into their partner too......
I think that is the trick.......you can be selfish and still get your partner off......
I still cant believe the number of guys that think "slam bam thank you mam it the way to go.....
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I'll get off in due time. My partners satisfaction is my main goal. Sex is good.
This is actually something you have to be really careful with. I for one am able to acheive it, but the result is less than pretty. For some people, when they hold back ejaculation, rather than pushing it out, they push it down the tube. Then it'll dry a bit and voila! The next day you'll think you have an STD, complete with burning and chunks. Sorry for the graphic nature, but you get it.
The first time this happened to me I was freaking out. I mean I had only been with one person, and she had also only been with one person, or so she told me. I started to question that and wow was it a big mess. Turns out, like I said, sometimes these multiple orgasms don't go too well.
Hope I didn't freak anyone out. Just thought I should post this to give some people the heads up.
P.S. One thing that always works for me is to push my legs straight out and then keep pushing until you feel the muscle flex. This can actually make me come essentially any time I was to (ie. it makes me come quicker). However, the upside is that if I keep flexing, nothing will come out but I'll feel the orgasm. But as I've already said, your milage may vary
The first time this happened to me I was freaking out. I mean I had only been with one person, and she had also only been with one person, or so she told me. I started to question that and wow was it a big mess. Turns out, like I said, sometimes these multiple orgasms don't go too well.
Hope I didn't freak anyone out. Just thought I should post this to give some people the heads up.
P.S. One thing that always works for me is to push my legs straight out and then keep pushing until you feel the muscle flex. This can actually make me come essentially any time I was to (ie. it makes me come quicker). However, the upside is that if I keep flexing, nothing will come out but I'll feel the orgasm. But as I've already said, your milage may vary
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The passion and fervor of yours is simply inspiring. and sexy. And gives me hope.
In all of my relationships (3 long ones) I was surprised early on when the ladies said they always thought a guy could only go once. I was horrified and saddened, wondering what kind of brief unsatisfying sex they had been having -- all of them with more previous partners thanI.
And I would say, listen: I don't know much, but I know that many(most?all?!) women are capable of multiple orgasms. And I love hearing and watching you go, so why not many times? And there's alot of things I want to try, and I want us to switch control back and forth, I want you to grind if that feels good, I don't wanna be on top all the time or even most of the time, I want to spend some serious time down there, and I want it all to last.
I mean, where would we be if you started giving me a blowjob and I came and we just figured it was over for me? Of course, it's your turn for some attention, but if you conclude that I can't get hard again, you assume I can only follow with oral on you. I will, of course, dive on in and spend 45 min giving you as many as can come (heh, pun), but this seems so limited, and becomes formuliac. What I'm saying is, I need you to work on me, I need you to not let me be done. I am far from mentally done, so don't you be. Take some charge, keep touching me, get on there and grind, becuz I bet we can both slide and pound longer after I got that first one off. Use it to your advantage. You are just getting warmed up, am I right? Let's get into second gear.
But as our relationship continued, I would find her slipping back into that old assumption. Icouldn't believe how, every single time, she would say, "Oh are you up for more? But you already came? You've been pounding me for ten minutes, are you sure you have energy to give me oral? You don't have to."
And too many times this would develop into a guilt on her part, that she could not enjoy herself, "I can't let you do oral for more than five minutes because I keep worrying that you haven't come yet" or "I don't like being on top, being selfish because I worry that it's not doing anything for you..." My response was always, Hey, I'm a guy, I can go anytime and comparatively quickly, so anything that feels better for you is time well spent!
Sorry, this has become more than about male multiples -- perhaps I need a new thread about communication issues complicated by guilt and insecurity.
I just wanted to say that it's more than refreshing to hear a woman say, don't let him quit early. I never believed that either.
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The passion and fervor of yours is simply inspiring. and sexy. And gives me hope.
In all of my relationships (3 long ones) I was surprised early on when the ladies said they always thought a guy could only go once. I was horrified and saddened, wondering what kind of brief unsatisfying sex they had been having -- all of them with more previous partners thanI.
And I would say, listen: I don't know much, but I know that many(most?all?!) women are capable of multiple orgasms. And I love hearing and watching you go, so why not many times? And there's alot of things I want to try, and I want us to switch control back and forth, I want you to grind if that feels good, I don't wanna be on top all the time or even most of the time, I want to spend some serious time down there, and I want it all to last.
I mean, where would we be if you started giving me a blowjob and I came and we just figured it was over for me? Of course, it's your turn for some attention, but if you conclude that I can't get hard again, you assume I can only follow with oral on you. I will, of course, dive on in and spend 45 min giving you as many as can come (heh, pun), but this seems so limited, and becomes formuliac. What I'm saying is, I need you to work on me, I need you to not let me be done. I am far from mentally done, so don't you be. Take some charge, keep touching me, get on there and grind, becuz I bet we can both slide and pound longer after I got that first one off. Use it to your advantage. You are just getting warmed up, am I right? Let's get into second gear.
But as our relationship continued, I would find her slipping back into that old assumption. Icouldn't believe how, every single time, she would say, "Oh are you up for more? But you already came? You've been pounding me for ten minutes, are you sure you have energy to give me oral? You don't have to."
And too many times this would develop into a guilt on her part, that she could not enjoy herself, "I can't let you do oral for more than five minutes because I keep worrying that you haven't come yet" or "I don't like being on top, being selfish because I worry that it's not doing anything for you..." My response was always, Hey, I'm a guy, I can go anytime and comparatively quickly, so anything that feels better for you is time well spent!
Sorry, this has become more than about male multiples -- perhaps I need a new thread about communication issues complicated by guilt and insecurity.
I just wanted to say that it's more than refreshing to hear a woman say, don't let him quit early. I never believed that either.
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that sounds like a great thread......maybe you should start it.....and we can go catholic guilt and lack of passion too.....
I dont believe in cant........Im the best my partners have ever had because I demand more of them.....and I give 100%........most people lack passion or they have different agendas and cant seem to strive for perfection.....If we always gave 100% during sex then I dont believe there would be as many divorces or cheating as there is.......too bad
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that sounds like a great thread......maybe you should start it.....and we can go catholic guilt and lack of passion too.....
I dont believe in cant........Im the best my partners have ever had because I demand more of them.....and I give 100%........most people lack passion or they have different agendas and cant seem to strive for perfection.....If we always gave 100% during sex then I dont believe there would be as many divorces or cheating as there is.......too bad
