Male chastity device

[subwannabe]

I have been fantasizing about my wife using a chastity device on me and making me her slave. Apparently, though, I have had the wrong idea of what a chastity device is. From the little I have read recently it is just that - a chastity device. My fantasy is a tease/denial fantasy, with me being all worked up and horny and doing her bidding - just to get some relief. But, if the chastity device literally keeps me from becoming erect, and therefore horny, I don't really see the point. I see myself becoming nonsexual and not wanting relief because I can't even get horny and there goes my incentive to want to be her slave. Am I wrong about this? Is there a chastity device which allows you to become erect and therefore horny, while denying you relief at the same time?

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I have been fantasizing about my wife using a chastity device on me and making me her slave. Apparently, though, I have had the wrong idea of what a chastity device is. From the little I have read recently it is just that - a chastity device. My fantasy is a tease/denial fantasy, with me being all worked up and horny and doing her bidding - just to get some relief. But, if the chastity device literally keeps me from becoming erect, and therefore horny, I don't really see the point. I see myself becoming nonsexual and not wanting relief because I can't even get horny and there goes my incentive to want to be her slave. Am I wrong about this? Is there a chastity device which allows you to become erect and therefore horny, while denying you relief at the same time?

ahuh...

 

[Shankara20]

I can get as horny as hell while not getting erect - that struggle to "get up" but not being able do to the device can add to the sexual heat.

good luck in your hunt

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

I can get as horny as hell while not getting erect - that struggle to "get up" but not being able do to the device can add to the sexual heat.

good luck in your hunt

Ohhhhhhhh thank Gawd an 'expert' . I did my best Fu to hold the 'fort' while you were gone . Love the patch btw and while we are at it , what your last parrot die of please .

 

[Shankara20]

what your last parrot die of please .

it left me for some floosie in the south Pacific

 

[32199]

gates of Hell

try a metal gates of hell or a locking cock cage. it will let you get hard but will stop you from easily getting off. when my gf puts the metal gates of hell on my hard cock it makes me hard as hell but geting off while it is on, hurts quite a bit.

 

[OzoneRed]

http://www.lustschloss.ch sells a gadget that looks interesting, although some may find it a bit drastic.

 

[Netzach]

M gets hard every time I reach for the pink plastic prison, making getting it ON an interesting challenge. I would not say the discomfort of getting hard or trying to is a disincentive to getting horny, just more frustrating.

 

[Hecate]

well, I think there is no need to be afraid of "not getting horny" just because you can't get it "up"...

You will feel it grow, struggle (more or less painfully) against the confines of the (mostly plastic) prison ... have you ever been sooooo aware of a hard-on at night that it woke you up from the pain due to the fact it couldn't expand?

Trust me - if used with consideration and sufficient "tease and release" breaks a cock cage is a very effective measure!

My toy boy will be back into his right after the bruises from our last session have healed on his cock *insert innocent caring smile here*

My prime choice for long term use (both in respect of hygiene and "wearability" under street cloth) is at present "The Curve"

So far no unpleasant side effects noted (well, I guess I should say non that I personally find unpleasant, I guess asking him might give you a different answer)

Enjoy your explorations in this realm - as long as it is all done with a portion of brain and good sense it can certainly enrich a relation.

Hecate

PS: Netzach, I SOOOOOO know what you mean about "getting it ON" *winks*... no matter how much he complains beforehand!

 

[wouldloveto]

Wow!

This thread is seriously turning me on! I need to find the right woman, the right device...

and then be in exquisite denial....

 

[gingermango]

My prime choice for long term use (both in respect of hygiene and "wearability" under street cloth) is at present "The Curve"

I will second the recommendation for The Curve. Goddess bought one for me some time ago and periodically decides to lock me into it for a few days, a couple weeks, a month . . . whatever. It is very discreet, even to the point that it can be locked with zip-ties rather than metal locks, making it safe for those who have to go through metal detectors and such. It's also reasonably easy to clean oneself without removing it, making it perfect for long term play. I have been locked into ours for up to about 5 weeks before.

As noted by others, it doesn't stop you from getting aroused, just from having an unimpeded erection. The more aroused you get, however, the more painful it becomes due to confinement. And if that's not enough pain, the Points of Intrigue attachment (which replaces one spacer ring with a small piece that has three sharp, inward-pointing spikes) is VERY painful, I assure you.

 

[wanderer1]

I will second the recommendation for The Curve. Goddess bought one for me some time ago and periodically decides to lock me into it for a few days, a couple weeks, a month . . . whatever. It is very discreet, even to the point that it can be locked with zip-ties rather than metal locks, making it safe for those who have to go through metal detectors and such. It's also reasonably easy to clean oneself without removing it, making it perfect for long term play. I have been locked into ours for up to about 5 weeks before.

As noted by others, it doesn't stop you from getting aroused, just from having an unimpeded erection. The more aroused you get, however, the more painful it becomes due to confinement. And if that's not enough pain, the Points of Intrigue attachment (which replaces one spacer ring with a small piece that has three sharp, inward-pointing spikes) is VERY painful, I assure you.

For those of us who react to this kind of pain by becoming more aroused, this can lead to a very interesting vicious circle, which my wife rather enjoys exploiting!

I must admit this is with the shortest of the three 'points' lengths - the others rather prohibit normal movement we find (CB-2000 rather than the curve).

 

[FallenAngelsSlut]

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[gingermango]

must admit this is with the shortest of the three 'points' lengths - the others rather prohibit normal movement we find

True - I can't wear any of the Points except the shortest set. Either of the two longer ones gouges into me very deeply even when I'm totally soft. Even the shortest ones actually cause bruising and scrapes if I get too aroused for more than just a few moments (ah, the challenges of being a "plus-sized" sub!)

 

[wanderer1]

True - I can't wear any of the Points except the shortest set. Either of the two longer ones gouges into me very deeply even when I'm totally soft. Even the shortest ones actually cause bruising and scrapes if I get too aroused for more than just a few moments (ah, the challenges of being a "plus-sized" sub!)

Yes - they are a bit on the too-sharp side - we ended up rounding the points off a little on them, as she wanted her teasing to continue, rather than be brought to abrupt ends by the points - just made more interesting + painful by them

I do wish there were some alternative cuff-rings avalible. We use the cb-2000 in conjunction with this ( http://stockroom.com/Inflatable-Anal-Plug-Harness-for-Men-P2534.aspx ) but at the moment have to use both the ring on the harness, and then the ring on the device to attach by. The steel ring on the harness is removable, but where the locking pin on the chastity device is, it'd go straight through a leather strap! If there was a way that the locking pins could either be moved to the side or elsewhere, it'd make our lives a lot easier! (well, it'd make getting it on easier, life with it on will *never* be easy! )

(edited for clarity)

 

[gingermango]

We use the cb-2000 in conjunction with this

I need to show that one to my Goddess - she will probably like it very much.

 

[FurryFury]

What a lovely av Gingermango.

*smiles*

Fury

 

[gingermango]

What a lovely av Gingermango.

*smiles*

Fury

Thank you very much Fury.

My Goddess took that photo - that's the corset she makes me wear when she wants me to be the most . . . restricted.

 

[FurryFury]

Thank you very much Fury.

My Goddess took that photo - that's the corset she makes me wear when she wants me to be the most . . . restricted.

It's lovely! I love the color and fit. As for the picture, it shows all the things I like to see in a photo and none of what I don't. It's a great shot!

Fury

 

[wanderer1]

I need to show that one to my Goddess - she will probably like it very much.

Heh, good to hear it! We find that the 'top' ring, above the ring that goes behind the penis also holds a flared-base dildo very well. It's a bit high, but for when she wants satisfaction while denying me, it works *very* well

 

[msspankersslave]

One is used on me. My mstress will put me in it and get me really hars. It hurts a lot. She has also used a strap on on me and that makes me hard and hurts me to.

 

[FallenAngelsSlut]

Hmm I still get turned on while wearing one... it is a little painful to become aroused tho...but still happens

 

[wanderer1]

M gets hard every time I reach for the pink plastic prison, making getting it ON an interesting challenge. I would not say the discomfort of getting hard or trying to is a disincentive to getting horny, just more frustrating.

My wife and I have very recently upgraded to a steel cage design in the last few days - she found one wonderful side effect with this, that solves that exact same problem.

Pop it in the freezer for a few minutes first

 

[shy slave]

ahuh...

The second cock in this lick is really lovely looking, the head looks wondeful. I wonder if it has been photoshopped?

I still have thoughts about licking a male slave whilst he is caged.

Sometimes my head is full of odd stuff,


Fallen angel slut I love the pink coloured cage you have, pink is good