Male bisexuality and the Kinsey scale

I scored a 3 which is pretty bang-on for where my sexuality is at. I crave men and women equally. I don’t mean that at any given moment my desire for men and women is equal. Sometimes I can go 2-3 months when I only want to have sex with a woman. Then a silicone chip inside my head will switch to overload and for the next few months I want to spend every day being fed by a man. It’s rare that I’ll want both genders at the same time, but whichever mode I’m in, my desire is just as hot for whichever gender I’m wanting.

Truth be told, my periods of wanting homosexual sex are getting longer and stronger whereas my hetero phases are growing shorter and less intense. I expect to score higher the next time I take the test. And I wouldn’t deny that I may be on a journey to becoming a 6. Does that sound like a possibility? Have any of you taken that trip?
 
I took the test and scored a 2. Which is about right. I love performing oral sex on men and women equally. I am quite good at it and it makes me feel in control, there is nothing like bringing someone to orgasm orally in my book. My fantasies and online play focus on being submissive, which is something I almost never experience personally or professionally in real life. The number of dominate woman on line is very small where the number of dominate men on line is significantly larger, so I gravitate towards men in my fantasy life. So when someone asks/tells me to put on panties and stockings it arouses me and I do it for them.
 
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I wonder if the guys with lower scores such as 0, 1 or 2 are more likely to top rather than to bottom? 5 here.
 
If you are straight and happy to have Oral & Anal & enjoy It with a woman what's stopping you from having & doing the same thing with a man?

If you were blindfolded & sat on your hands & someone of either sex sat on your lap or gave oral you wouldn't know the difference
 
This is the first time I'm using this forum. My comment is a general one addressed to the topic "Male bisexuality and the Kinsey scale." I think every thing about Kinsey -- "Sexual Behavior in the Human Male" (1948) and "Sexual Behavior in the Human Female" (1953) and their successor studies --while revolutionary when conducted, are completely irrelevant today. The societal and sexual revolutions of the '60s and '70s, rapidly declining adherence to religious dictates, and changes to laws worldwide have completely altered how millions, perhaps billions of people born since 1960 view sex and their sexuality. Many young people are highly fluid sexually, with "bisexuality" even being considered an "old" concept.
 
I wonder if the guys with lower scores such as 0, 1 or 2 are more likely to top rather than to bottom? 5 here.
I scored a 0 and I am a bottom for my trans girlfriend. I have zero interest in men but I am sure many people would consider her a man.
 
I scored a 1. It is what it is, but I believe nothing is set in stone. Who knows what tomorrow will bring.
 
Truth be told, my periods of wanting homosexual sex are getting longer and stronger whereas my hetero phases are growing shorter and less intense. I expect to score higher the next time I take the test. And I wouldn’t deny that I may be on a journey to becoming a 6. Does that sound like a possibility? Have any of you taken that trip?
This makes sense to me.

Because of the limits I've imposed on myself, i.e., protecting my marriage, my real-life activities skew heavily toward straight. But my thoughts have definitely shifted the past few years to the point where my fantasies are overwhelmingly bi/gay, as has my choice of porn.

Does that translate into some sort of mental/emotional journey? I suppose it does, though I've never thought of it those terms.

Could that journey lead me to becoming a full 6 on Kinsey's scale? Anything's possible, but I'm skeptical. Despite my desire for men, women are just too beautiful to ignore. I expect the 3 that I just scored is where I'll remain.

Stay tuned.
 
According to the Kinsey scale I am around the mid point (3), which I believe is accurate.

https://psycho-tests.com/test/kinsey-scale-gay-test

However I am also very aware that my perceptions have changed.

When I was younger, apart from some drunken fumbling experimentation, I would have considered myself to be straight. The memories of those experiments lingered though as as I matured and porn became far more readily available, I found myself looking at gay and straight sex.

I am now far less worried about procreation, (been there done that) and as a result, this has opened my mindset to be far more accepting of all forms of sex and as a result I would be quite happy to consider having a long term relationship with a man or a women these days.
I took the test. Before I took it, I made the prediction that I would score a 2. Sure enough, that was my score. I identify as bi curious. My biggest fantasies involve bi sex with both a woman and a man, everyone playing with each other!
 
I scored as a 4. I was straight for a very long time, but now consider myself as an avid faggot who loves male on male sex exclusively.
 
I'm a 3 as expected, definitely bi, I tried to answer as honest as possible. I really never expected anything different.
 
I scored a 4.

Homosexual, more than incidental heterosexual tendencies.

I thought I'd only be a 3 at most. It's been a long, slow change. I guess I can swing back as well.
 
If you are straight and happy to have Oral & Anal & enjoy It with a woman what's stopping you from having & doing the same thing with a man?

If you were blindfolded & sat on your hands & someone of either sex sat on your lap or gave oral you wouldn't know the difference
Exactly. And I will always believe that most men will accept a blowjob from a guy, as long as they know nobody will ever find out.
 
Everytime I've took this I've scored a five. I'm way more into guys, but I do enjoy being with women.
 
Got an unsurprising 3.
The "emotional" attachment issue is so hard to define and clearly not everyone sees it the same way. If you have a FWB who you enjoy being with on both a sexual and non sexual basis is that an emotional attachment.? If you never saw him again would you admit you miss more than his cock? Can you have same sex friends whom you "love" even though there's no physical relationship?
 
Scored a 1, sounds about right for me. Even in my same sex experiences I would only do certain things.
 
I'm always fascinated by these discussions and analysis.

Here's how I would describe myself, on a scale of 1-10.

Romantic affection and emotional intimacy:

My desire for men: 0
My desire for women: 10

Actual physical sex:

My desire for men: 10
My desire for women: 9

So for me, it's hard to place myself on a scale of preferring men or women, because I'm attracted to them in very different ways.
Very similar to you

Romantic affection and emotional intimacy

Men: 0
Women: 10

Physical sex

Men: 10 (me as the bottom)
Women:10
 
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