Making Master's fantasy come true

[MissNicolette2]

I know my Master would like to try having a 3some with myself and another woman but has not given me a task to search for her yet.

I'm thinking about searching for a girl to join us on my own and surprising Master as I want to make all his fantasies come true. But I am unsure if I should surprise him or if I should let him lead with this (he almost always leads with things in our relationship).

 

[bailadora]

I know my Master would like to try having a 3some with myself and another woman but has not given me a task to search for her yet.

I'm thinking about searching for a girl to join us on my own and surprising Master as I want to make all his fantasies come true. But I am unsure if I should surprise him or if I should let him lead with this (he almost always leads with things in our relationship).

Since you know your Master better than we do, I would think that you'd be the one to better judge how you should proceed than a bunch of internet strangers, doncha think? Not trying to be snarky, just state the truth as I see it. "Surprise". Yeah - I get that. But if you're not sure whether or not he'd be annoyed at you, you might be better off just asking him.

In lieu of that, from the little you've written, since your Master "almost always prefers to be the lead," I would surmise that he'd probably prefer to lead on this as well. That said, there's nothing wrong with you doing a bit of research, just in case he does present you with the task and/or decide to move forward.

There have been many, many, previous threads on Lit regarding the topic of threeomes. The Blank Manual (click it) has a section of links to threads WRT to bringing in others. Likewise, The FAQ's has an excellent post on how to use google to narrow your search for pertinent threads. Happy researching and good luck.

 

[blulilacgrl]

Not knowing your Master and how he would respond to such a "surprise" nor the particulars of y'all's relationship, I cannot really say for certain what you should do.

I would (if I were in your shoes) perhaps do some research, have a plan in place (i.e. keep an ear out for someone you think would be interested, someone you feel comfortable with, etc.), perhaps be ready... that way if/when he decides he is ready and wants to, you are prepared. Then I would file it away and wait for him to give the word.

Now this may all be for nothing. He may decide who he wants the 3rd person to be (than again maybe not, I do not know the particulars of your relationship)... but better to be prepared and not need it, right?

Here are a couple questions for you. Do you want to do this? If so and you found someone that you liked and who was receptive to the idea, how do you think he would respond to you asking him? A kind of "Her, Master? Please?" kind of thing. Would that displease him? Or would that maybe make him happy in that it shows you were paying attention to what he wanted. Just a thought.

That might be a better way than "surprising" him.

 

[Lord Pmann]

As a vanilla random guy, I can't see any guy (master or whatever) being opposed to having a threesome arranged. Maybe you could beg him to let you arrange a threesome?

 

[fire_breeze]

Welcome to Lit .

I'm of the opinion that there are certain things that shouldn't be complete surprises and should be discussed ad nauseam beforehand; bringing in another is one of them.

If you want to surprise your Master, try to see if you cannot fulfill another one of his fantasies that does not require strategic planning or serious discussion. Even if a threesome is one of his fantasies, it doesn't mean that it's something he actually wants realised.

 

[MissNicolette2]

Thank you for the feedback everyone.

@bailadora thanks for pointing me to these other resources, it does seem like there's a lot to take in on this forum.

@blulilacgrl good questions... I'll probably do the research and then share that with him to see if he's interested.

Thanks @pmann always good to get a guy's perspective

@Rainshine sorry to hear your offer was declined. self confidence is one of the things my Master is helping me with and while he always explains why he punishes me and does it with love the main thing that I am worried about is him telling me that it's not what he wants.

Thanks @fire_breeze glad I found Lit. Yes, I think I'll communicate this with him to see if he wants me to proceed with it.

 

[MissNicolette2]

I guess like most things in life, communication is key. I decided to discuss this with Master first. He was very happy I did so. While he does want a threesome at some point he wants me to wait for his instructions before looking for a female to join us.