make up sex/no thanks

[naughtoldperv]

In my long and global sex life I have experienced many women who seem to like 'make up sex' and some seemed to thrive on it to the point of picking fights and arguments just so they could have the thrill of make up sex. That never went over well with me, as it can take me a day or 2 after the confrontation to get back in the mood to have sex.
Am I the only guy that feels the same??
Why fight just to make love?
and finally...........girls/women............why do you do that to us men??

 

[tmmmbrrr]

Maybe you've just had to have too much of a good thing. I've had make up sex a few times and admit by the time that I got off on the emotional cocktail of the whole experience. It just never has been a way of life, but from time to time there are going to be a few little fights and feelings are going to get hurt and when that's where you're at, sex is a nice way to undo some of the damage...

of course, so is jewelry....

 

[SlutAddicted]

I guess it depends. If you really have made up and the bad feelings have subsided it can be great. But that is easier if I genuinely come to the conclusion that I was at least half at fault for the argument. I hate it when a woman thinks she can use sex as a way to avoid dealing with her own bad behaviour. It is a turn off and it is insulting.

I am as kinky and non-traditional as they come. There are things I enjoy that many men find unacceptable. But when I am truly put off I am not just a walking hard-on who will let anything pass in exchange for a fuck. If I am still angry or feeling hurt I have no interest in sex with the person that did it.

 

[dicknjane]

I'm the same way naught, I don't get it. It takes quite a bit to make me angry so I generally can't just flip a switch.

Of course if she starts her apology by dropping to her knees I'd probably get over it fairly quickly....

 

[LovelyGirl42]

I think it depends on what the argument was about and how it was ended. I can't expect to call someone names,insult them and then use my boobs to make it better.
Make up sex can be amazing but I can't imagine why someone would hurt another person for sex, that's petty and manipulative.

 

[kinkymindnbody]

Depends on the topic. Have we been down this road before? I was not not one to argue and fight! I would walk away, she would always make a snide remark as I was exiting the room just to keep the argument heated. PUSH BUTTONS MUCH!

Most of the time she would apologize. The apology would not be for 24-36 hours. We would have make up sex. The sex would be more passionate than normal and more frequent for a short while then fade back to normal.


She is Bi Polar.

 

[naughtoldperv]

"She is Bi Polar."

Ah Ha!! maybe my problem is that I'm attracted to bi polar women??

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

"She is Bi Polar."

Ah Ha!! maybe my problem is that I'm attracted to bi polar women??

Denny------ Our youngest son was dating a nice looking sexy skinny Bi Polar whore.
He finally saw the light and told her bye!

As for me, yes we've had some make up sex and my sneaky wife has given me some 'take me shopping, buy this, or let's go here" sex.
Hey it's all sex and it was all good.

 

[Freya_Gin]

I once had a guy who was like that. The makeup sex was indeed awesome and I realized later that he actually picked a fight or two just for that. He was such a brat! Partly my own fault for spoiling him, I guess.

But I agree with the other posters above. Makeup sex isn't going to work if the issue isn't resolved and the hurt/angry feelings haven't subsided yet. And picking fights to get makeup sex is manipulative. I hate that! I don't like manipulative people.

 

[Sugarfoot10]

I always hated it, the sex felt more like a duty and always left me feeling numb.

 

[naughtoldperv]

I would rather have no sex at all than to have reluctant sex, duty sex, pity sex or make up [apologetic] sex! Unfortunately I require 100% willing, needed or desired sex and don't like to ask for it or have it given to me for any pity or to 'make up' for some drama that was instigated by the SO.