Lusting after married or committed women.

[Teddybarehead]

Is it an actual fetish to be turned on by the idea of hooking up with a woman already commit to another man?

It's not like i go out seeking that, but it seems like everywhere I turn I am talking with someone who shouldn't even be talking to me...haha. It's like i like them, i find out they are committed to someone else, and part of me doesn't give a shit.

 

[amofiga]

Is it an actual fetish to be turned on by the idea of hooking up with a woman already commit to another man?

It's not like i go out seeking that, but it seems like everywhere I turn I am talking with someone who shouldn't even be talking to me...haha. It's like i like them, i find out they are committed to someone else, and part of me doesn't give a shit.

I went through a period in my life where I had sex with a fair number of married women. Their motivations were varied. Some wanted to have affairs to "get even" with a cheating husband (revenge sex). Some were doing it to be free and uninhibited with a man because they could reveal that side of themselves with thier husbands without feeling odd. Some wanted to explore things that their husbands either didn't like or wouldn't do. Regardless, I suppose one of the things that turned me on about having sex with married women (mostly moms as well) was seeing them behave in a primal animal nature that belied the image of married moms as "pure and pristine". I have always loved seeing women behave sexually in a manner that many chastise men for, i.e. engaging in sex simply for animal pleasure and physical satisfaction without all the complications of love and commitment. However, I learned the hard way that my exploration was not necessarily wise at several levels. Tread softly my friends, and think twice, especially if you yourself are married.

 

[toutdoors]

Several

I have fucked several married women. Some were in 3sum some were solo with hubby's permission and some were horny cheating women wonfucked like maniacs. Wife also enjoys married men.

 

[ArmyGuy84]

I have a "cheating wife" fetish (other wives, not mine--not married and if I was I wouldn't be interested in having her play around), but it's not a line I want to cross. Did it once and felt like shit afterwards. I'll still play with married women, but only if the husband is aware and cool with it (I've also slept with a few women who I didn't find out until afterwards were married...).

 

[jasper3738]

Forbidden

Yes the forbidden fruit I do enjoy eyeing and flirting and teasing
Have I the past been with married or engaged woman
Haven't been for some time
Enjoy the flirting and eye candy nowadays

 

[Ellafun]

This is an interesting question. And so far the responses have been insightful.

As a flirtatious married woman, I hope you get lots more responses this query. I'm curious as to this whole dynamic.

 

[Shuriko]

It really turns some guys on to seduce a happily married woman. I know. It happened to my wife

 

[Paul_Chance]

Row Away

I think it qualifies as a fetish if it's one of your main turn-ons and you'd pass over the certainty of a hot single woman for a chance at a married (or committed) woman. Then it's a fetish. If you're out and there is a mix of married/committed women and single women - and you're ignoring the single women and hitting on the married/committed women but never closing the deal - well, that is something else entirely. Whatever the details, if it floats your boat...row away.

 

[naughtynjmale]

Having sex witn an attached or married woman is hot,

you see them release their pent up sexual energy

do naughty things with and too you that they never dreamed off

doing to hubby...

 

[Teddybarehead]

I think it qualifies as a fetish if it's one of your main turn-ons and you'd pass over the certainty of a hot single woman for a chance at a married (or committed) woman. Then it's a fetish. If you're out and there is a mix of married/committed women and single women - and you're ignoring the single women and hitting on the married/committed women but never closing the deal - well, that is something else entirely. Whatever the details, if it floats your boat...row away.

I mentioned this topic because it seemed like something that has been happening to me, not because i chose to be attracted to them rather than an unattached single lady.

 

[Plasmaball]

Yup, I have it. Its a power,control,cuck, stealing,cheating, etc type fetish.
the idea of conquering anothers pussy and making the woman go crazy with lust and sexually needs is yummy.

To turn a woman who is typically not that kinky into a slave willing to do your every need is a slow but amazing transformation to watch.

There is just something about taking that ring of hers and damaging everything it stands for.

Just hot...

 

[Beck31]

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[DCMike120]

Very Primal

Is it an actual fetish to be turned on by the idea of hooking up with a woman already commit to another man?

It's not like i go out seeking that, but it seems like everywhere I turn I am talking with someone who shouldn't even be talking to me...haha. It's like i like them, i find out they are committed to someone else, and part of me doesn't give a shit.

A wedding ring can be an amazing aphrodisiac.
My guess is that taking a married woman feels so hot because such behavior is wired into our genes. It's a way of asserting dominance amongst our troop of mammals.

 

[Beck31]

Yeah. Although if they are cheating on their hubbies they may not be wearing a ring. At least that has been my experience.

 

[Siren_Smiles]

Wedding Ring

The only time I ever wore a wedding ring was when I was single.

 

[Beck31]

Hmm. Was that so the men wouldn't bother you?

 

[Siren_Smiles]

Hmm. Was that so the men wouldn't bother you? I have a few female friends who have done that. Some men and I have to include myself to an extint just
kind of "accidently" overlook that little gold ring on your left hand. Lol.

The first time I wore one, yes. I thought it would be a good way to hang out with friends and stay under the radar. A clear sign I was not looking. The exact opposite happened so it became part of my regular clubbing wardrobe.

 

[DCMike120]

Maybe, but...

Yeah. Although if they are cheating on their hubbies they may not be wearing a ring. At least that has been my experience.

That may be true in bars and clubs. But in my experience and circle of friends, the married women who are on the hunt or "open to suggestion" make no secret of their status. In fact, they most often connect with guys who know them pretty well -- co-workers, et cetera. And most aren't looking for a one-night stand, but a slightly longer affair.

Ladies -- your thoughts?

 

[Quantified]

"We begin by coveting what we see every day." -- Dr. Lecter, Silence of The Lambs

 

[Beck31]

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[amofiga]

That may be true in bars and clubs. But in my experience and circle of friends, the married women who are on the hunt or "open to suggestion" make no secret of their status. In fact, they most often connect with guys who know them pretty well -- co-workers, et cetera. And most aren't looking for a one-night stand, but a slightly longer affair.

Ladies -- your thoughts?

I'm a guy, but my thoughts anyway. So what signals do the ones who are "open to suggestion" give? I know there was one woman where I used to work who was always "open to suggestion" but everybody knew it and those who "suggested" and were accepted were in turn, well known. If you happened to be seen at lunch, anywhere other than the office, or even hanging around too much inside the office with said woman, it didn't take long for the rumor mill to churn. They seemed pretty stupid to me to be so obvious about it. It resulted in two divorces that I know of.

It has been my experience that the ones "looking" aren't always looking for somebody in their regular circle of friends, relatives, or work associates because they don't want to get caught. They don't mess around with those who might arouse suspicion. So, how would you pick up the signals and let them know you're in the same boat without "outing" yourself? I think perhaps in the past 20 years or so, the internet has opened many doors to hook ups outside the "circle". Prior to that, there were many local "city" magazines that offered personal ads to people seeking people, and it wasn't to difficult to crack the code as to the married ones seeking other married ones.

 

[jasper3738]

Married

The ones I have been with have kept the rings on
One even stared at it while lost in passionate love
Another twirled it around her finger and cried afterwards

 

[Beck31]

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[Scentofawoman]

I have my lines in the sand. Sometimes they blur. My problem is with the men who deliberatly break up families. There are several men here on Lit that are dealing with this issue right now. I'm not here to judge. But if you are the douche promising life is better on the other side and have no intentions of a "future" with a woman with a family she leaves said family, then you are a fucking ass hole IMO.

As everything communication is key.

 

[dldavito]

Is it an actual fetish to be turned on by the idea of hooking up with a woman already commit to another man?

It's not like i go out seeking that, but it seems like everywhere I turn I am talking with someone who shouldn't even be talking to me...haha. It's like i like them, i find out they are committed to someone else, and part of me doesn't give a shit.

When I was in my 20's I found my 1st wife in bed with another man. It shocked and destroyed me - the marriage was over immediately. It took me a long time to get over it.

I am now sexually perfect in every way. Well, except every time I even think about having sex with a married woman I get a raging hardon. I want to fuck her but I don't want her husband to find out.

I think this qualifies as a fetish. Don't know what it's called but I've had it for the past 30 years.