Loving In Spite of Flaws... real or perceived

Why do I suddenly wonder if OxyClean gets the smell of monkey pee out of clothing?
 
I'm really new to Lit, (<---check out the extremely small number of posts) but I couldn't resist posting my perspective.

Seems to me people change and adapt all the time. I guess this means relationships grow. What we do with them is what really counts.

If someone has decided to accept another person and all of their quirks, they really shouldn't complain. However, if something develops that could not have been forseen, by all means work with your partner to make things better.

Of course, I realize this can be quite difficult because of how different people are. BUT, if two people in a relationship LOVE each other and one of them develops a bad habit that isn't ok with the partner, then a compromise should be discussed.

I believe a relationship is all about give and take. But nobody should be put out 100%. There has to be a middle ground. Otherwise why are we wasting our time with relationships?

Honestly, life is too short to spend it fighting about how someone is right and someone else is wrong. Let's start giving a little and enjoying what we have together.

Didn't mean to get so winded, sorry.

Oh, and "Hi guys! Mind if I post here?"

LoveSlave
 
LoveSlave said:
I'm really new to Lit, (<---check out the extremely small number of posts) but I couldn't resist posting my perspective.

Seems to me people change and adapt all the time. I guess this means relationships grow. What we do with them is what really counts.

If someone has decided to accept another person and all of their quirks, they really shouldn't complain. However, if something develops that could not have been forseen, by all means work with your partner to make things better.

Of course, I realize this can be quite difficult because of how different people are. BUT, if two people in a relationship LOVE each other and one of them develops a bad habit that isn't ok with the partner, then a compromise should be discussed.

I believe a relationship is all about give and take. But nobody should be put out 100%. There has to be a middle ground. Otherwise why are we wasting our time with relationships?

Honestly, life is too short to spend it fighting about how someone is right and someone else is wrong. Let's start giving a little and enjoying what we have together.

Didn't mean to get so winded, sorry.

Oh, and "Hi guys! Mind if I post here?"

LoveSlave
i can't believe this was posted by someone nammed loveslave.
 
ROFL

Just because I use a handle like "LoveSlave" doesn't mean I'm hiding behind a latex (or leather) mask quivering on my hands and knees!

LoveSlave
 
LoveSlave said:
ROFL

Just because I use a handle like "LoveSlave" doesn't mean I'm hiding behind a latex (or leather) mask quivering on my hands and knees!

LoveSlave
too bad.
 
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