Ezzie
Unrequited Love Slave
- Joined
- Jun 8, 2000
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Here's my problem:
I've been seeing a guy off and on for about 2 months now and it's had it's ups and downs. Now, I like this guy but for one, he doesn't have much respect for me. He's the type that will tell me what I want to hear or say something for the good of the moment. I am pregnant with his child too so he says he'll be there for us but then I don't hear from him for a week or sometimes longer. And another thing, as I'm sure she'll tell you why, my best friend hates him for the way he acts. (Yeah yeah Tiggie, go ahead.)
Second part of the problem: A married man.
I've known this other guy for about a year and he's unhappily married. He tells me over and over again that he loves me and wants to be with me and that he's willing to leave his wife to make this work. But, I don't want to be the excuse for him ending his marriage even if he's with her and not happy about it, I'd still feel responsible in a way. Granted that I do have feelings for him but the feelings are guilt stained because I don't think I should feel this way towards a married man.
My question: Do I stick with the baby's dad in hopes that he'll come around and mature over time, do I allow Mr. Married man to continue on and maybe persue that when the divorce actually does happen OR do I say to hell with both of them and find someone else? What a tangled web I have woven.
I've been seeing a guy off and on for about 2 months now and it's had it's ups and downs. Now, I like this guy but for one, he doesn't have much respect for me. He's the type that will tell me what I want to hear or say something for the good of the moment. I am pregnant with his child too so he says he'll be there for us but then I don't hear from him for a week or sometimes longer. And another thing, as I'm sure she'll tell you why, my best friend hates him for the way he acts. (Yeah yeah Tiggie, go ahead.)
Second part of the problem: A married man.
I've known this other guy for about a year and he's unhappily married. He tells me over and over again that he loves me and wants to be with me and that he's willing to leave his wife to make this work. But, I don't want to be the excuse for him ending his marriage even if he's with her and not happy about it, I'd still feel responsible in a way. Granted that I do have feelings for him but the feelings are guilt stained because I don't think I should feel this way towards a married man.
My question: Do I stick with the baby's dad in hopes that he'll come around and mature over time, do I allow Mr. Married man to continue on and maybe persue that when the divorce actually does happen OR do I say to hell with both of them and find someone else? What a tangled web I have woven.
I love you.
