ArtofSurrending
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- Joined
- Jan 14, 2008
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- 3
I am so confused. Here is my situation. I am submissive and have been for about 10 years. My partner and future husband is not. Obviously, I already see the problem but 8 years about, naive, I assumed my feelings would subside. 8 years later, a house, and wedding plans, they have not gone away. Which for the most part was okay. I learned to deal with frustrations and to talk to others online. So now here arrives my situtaion. During my conversations with people, I have developed an intense relationship with a Dom. male. I find myself with feelings and emotions that I have never had nor could even begin to describe. I never expected things to feel so intense and never mentioned that I was in a relationship nor was it asked, just assummed. My question is do I follow what I have always know and continue the stable route by cutting contact with this new person? Do I tell this new person everything and hope he is genuine and see what happens? Or do I not say anything at the moment and wait to see what progresses and then say something or make a descision.
I have been lost with thoughts and could really use others input without judgment. Thank you.
I have been lost with thoughts and could really use others input without judgment. Thank you.