Lost virginity this morning

[Tele2047]

Not mine, but my girlfriend gave me her's today.

I must say, I don't know what the fuss is about sleeping with a virgin, they really don't feel too much different than non-virgins.

 

[FurryFury]

Hopefully you made it a very special big deal for HER.

Fury

 

[david_42]

One of my minor goals in life is to never have sex with a virgin. So far, so good.

 

[bisexplicit]

I hope you told her just how unspecial it was.

 

[Mary Hall]

I hope you told her just how unspecial it was.

If he did, i think his testicles will be removed from his body

 

[Tele2047]

No I did not tell her how unspecial it was, it wasn't special from a physical point of view, but it was special because of her

 

[bush59]

You just repreived yourself with the last comment....I think.
Lets know about next time?

 

[silverwhisper]

bush: o sure, you want him to share something intensely personal w/ strangers on the internet? :>

ed

 

[Dazz Hetfield]

Ok, you didn't feel anything special about it? She gave her virginity to you, it meant a lot to her and so should mean a lot to you too, physically as well as emotionally. I can't really say much because I'm a virgin and so is my beautiful girlfriend but I personally wouldn't have even statred the thread in the first place, I like to keep personal stuff like that private and I'm sure she'd feel the same unless she specifically told you to post about her first time here.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Not mine, but my girlfriend gave me her's today.

I must say, I don't know what the fuss is about sleeping with a virgin, they really don't feel too much different than non-virgins.

Well, the fuss, as you put it, is the conquest, isn't it? It's the ego-gratifying deflowering, not the actual physical sensation, that's the fuss for the guys who fuss about sleeping with a virgin.

For the virgin, it's about a hell of a lot more than ego.

 

[Mrs.P]

I'm sure she is completey in tune to your sensitivity and will keep coming back for more and more of

 

[TBKahuna123]

I can see what you're asking, was it supposed to feel different? The answer is no, especially if her hymen was already broke from tampons or masturbations, etc. The physical part isn't a big difference, it's the emotional side of things that are different.

As for the Conquest thing, I've never gotten that. To me it wasn't something I took, it was something given.

 

[Eilan]

As for the Conquest thing, I've never gotten that. To me it wasn't something I took, it was something given.

My ex knew a guy from college who would only date virgins. Of course, once they were with him, they weren't virgins anymore. Then he'd move on to the next one.

 

[TBKahuna123]

My ex knew a guy from college who would only date virgins. Of course, once they were with him, they weren't virgins anymore. Then he'd move on to the next one.

Ahh yes, I love these kinda guys. They used to make me look so good back in college.

 

[Tele2047]

Yeah, my post was to confirm that no, virgins don't feel that different from non virgins.

I don't get the conquest thing either, but maybe I'm just not that kind of guy.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Yeah, my post was to confirm that no, virgins don't feel that different from non virgins.

I don't get the conquest thing either, but maybe I'm just not that kind of guy.

That's good! Keep that attitude.

 

[m.j.h]

As for the Conquest thing, I've never gotten that. To me it wasn't something I took, it was something given.

I think it's like that all the time virgin or not.
It's something for the woman to give herself,not for me to help myself.

 

[BarnabySchmidt]

Not mine, but my girlfriend gave me her's today.

I must say, I don't know what the fuss is about sleeping with a virgin, they really don't feel too much different than non-virgins.

(First, I got what you meant right away about the difference between emotional & physical specialness)

I think the special thing about sleeping with a virgin has NOTHING to do with "deflowering" or "gratifying" your ego. Maybe it does for some, but not for me, and I'd venture to say, not for most people.

It has to do with helping somebody experience something so pleasurable and exciting for the first time. If you like giving somebody pleasure, and that pleases you, then you'd definitely be pleased when they're getting a particular pleasure for the first time. it's even more pleasurable then!

Bottom Line: It's just plain exciting to give somebody something like sexual pleasure for the first time in their lives. They love it and then you love it.

Thoughts?

 

[m.j.h]

(First, I got what you meant right away about the difference between emotional & physical specialness)

I think the special thing about sleeping with a virgin has NOTHING to do with "deflowering" or "gratifying" your ego. Maybe it does for some, but not for me, and I'd venture to say, not for most people.

It has to do with helping somebody experience something so pleasurable and exciting for the first time. If you like giving somebody pleasure, and that pleases you, then you'd definitely be pleased when they're getting a particular pleasure for the first time. it's even more pleasurable then!

Bottom Line: It's just plain exciting to give somebody something like sexual pleasure for the first time in their lives. They love it and then you love it.

Thoughts?

Yeah i'll agree with that.

 

[TBKahuna123]

It has to do with helping somebody experience something so pleasurable and exciting for the first time. If you like giving somebody pleasure, and that pleases you, then you'd definitely be pleased when they're getting a particular pleasure for the first time. it's even more pleasurable then!

I agree. I had a REALLY close friend who I was secretly in love with for years(long story, never mind). Well I was out of town for a month and when I came back she told he she had finally taken done it. The thing was, while it wasn't bad and the guy tried to be attentive, it wasn't great. There was nothing special about it and she felt like it was this big let down because she'd waited until she was 20 for someone she really cared about. I told her that I was upset by that and that I wished it could have been me, because I would have done anything to make it special for her. I told also that there's always been a little part of me that had fantasized about being her first, mainly so I could make sure it was special for her.

It just seems to me that as a guy being a woman's first you have a responsibility to make it special for them. Of course, I think that should go both ways.

 

[FurryFury]

Yeah making the first time special, exciting and fun would be lovely. Too bad it often doesn't happen that way though. It certainly didn't for me.

Fury

 

[TBKahuna123]

Yeah making the first time special, exciting and fun would be lovely. Too bad it often doesn't happen that way though. It certainly didn't for me.

Fury

Unfortuantely I think that's the rule, not the exception.

 

[FurryFury]

Unfortuantely I think that's the rule, not the exception.

How well I know it.

BTW, I love your first sig there! That just makes me smile every time I see it!

Fury