Lost to the internet

[DocRoy]

As a newcomer I am amazed at this forum....it is an oasis in a very arrid desert! To realise that there are women who can be so open and forward is so refreshing.

I always had a voyeuristic streak in me which i remember waaay back to my late teens. That excitment of seeing my girl with another man...or the knowledge that I might see my girl with another man made me more excited than anything I remember.

This even translated itself to the internet. I encouraged my (ex)wife to seduce and be seduced on the likes of ICQ. It was delicious to watch her become aroused by someone seducing her with their words. Often to the point of her touching herself. She didn't know i was watching and that made it more exciting.

The trouble is, I don't understand myself. I dont understand why this excites me the way it does. It feels scarey and wicked. I'd love to hear from someone who feels the same or who has been involved in the same....

 

[Georgia Girl]

In my mind it has to do with pleasure.

Being able to provide or see the one I care for pleased is the ultimate. If there is an openness to the relationship then seeing someone provide that pleasure can be thrilling as long as there is no jealousy. The other side of that is that by seeing this other person arousing your partner you may learn a few new tricks for what makes that person go "ooooohhhhhh" right out loud.

Just my thoughts.


Dawn

 

[DocRoy]

I agree it has to do with pleasure.

I once saw my girlfriend being chatted up by a guy in a nightclub. I watched unseen. she shrugged off his attentions and came over to me. She told me he had made a pass at her and i asked her did she find him attractive.... she eventually admitted she did but wouldn't do anything because she was not 'available'. I told her if she wanted to do a little petting with this guy she culd because i was enjoying seeing this guy come on to her. So she agreed. She went back to where he was and they started kissing. Then it became light fondling (remember it was in a night club!). As i watched I became more and more excited. Where would it end? Would they go outside? How was she feeling? What was he saying to her? My mind raced and my trousers got tighter. Anyway, before things went any further the club started to close and people were being ushered out. My girlfriend came back to me and we got on the bus and went home. We could hardly keep our hands from each other all the way home. She told me what he had done, how she had felt and what was said. She could see me over his shoulder and knew i was turned on by it.

Those images have been in my memory for many years and arstill some of the most powerfully erotic. I still remember the exquisit pain of seeing my woman with another man and knowing she was doing it for me and herself.

I still feel as though this passion and excitment is wrong but it is so powerful.

Thanks for your reply Georgiagirl though....its nice to know I am not completely out of my tree!