looking to chat

[asian2015]

2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel? Depends on the situation. If a woman asked to be PMed and she doesn't reply, it kind of makes me wonder why she even asked to receive PMs in the first place. If I blindly PM her, then it's no big deal if she doesn't respond. That's my opinion.

on the other hand, if someone asks to NOT be PMed, it would be great if that was followed.

hint to all others: its on the first line of my profile. idiots still continue to PM, just because they think it does not apply to them, then they balk and wail when there's no reply. there's a reason why they're idiots in the first place.

 

[gentold]

on the other hand, if someone asks to NOT be PMed, it would be great if that was followed.

hint to all others: its on the first line of my profile. idiots still continue to PM, just because they think it does not apply to them, then they balk and wail when there's no reply. there's a reason why they're idiots in the first place.

some idiots deserve a place under the sun

 

[lovetporoleplay1]

1. Have you ever met a lit-ster? I have met two. Both were great experiences but not many listers from my area. I believe a meeting FIRST requires good connection. That only comes with honesty and time and patience not to force things.
If you did, how did it go? I have very no regrets about my decisions. I hope they both would say the same.

If you havent, would you? I have and still would as long as we had chemistry.

2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel? I rarely send Pms. Mainly to those who intrigue me and have something detailed to say or feel. When I respond I use honesty and humor to try and show my personality and I give my reason why I'm pmd them I admit I get a tad disappointed if I don't receive a reply. I very much appreciate at least a short reply even if they're not interested in what I wrote. I think it's just common courtesy. But I also understand that wipomen get bombarded on here and perhaps their time does not permit them to answer everyone.

3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online? Because of their own insecurities and the fear of rejection. My father told me a long time ago that I'm a terrible liar so I'm better off just telling the truth. It works for me. Not brutally honest. But tactful.

4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so. No regrets. I've met some really great honest REAL women on lit and am very thankful for their chats and both sexual and non sexual correspondences. I won't share. Any. Those are our private experiences.

5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region? No but I love to travel.

Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.

No? Well, if you could, where would you go? Why that destination? Singapore. I have a very sweet lit friend there.
6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc. I've written about her on here a few times. She was the one that got away. My first real voice partner from here. Even though there were many heated Voice conversations over many years. I mainly miss the non sexual chats we shared over those years. We recently reconnected and she's now with someone IRL. (We are and still both single.) I couldn't be happier for her. She is one who deserves every bit of joy life has to offerand she knows who she is.

7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about. I'm a conversationalist. I can chat about everything and anything. I recently turned 50. Single and content. I'm from Pittsburgh. I have a great family and friends and I try to better myself every day. Even if I get lonely being single, I still have lit to guide me through boredom and frustrations coming from being single. Sure I miss sex but I miss intamacy MORE. and without a connection I'd prefer my hand. My toy or a good voice partner.

8. have you ever been to a lit gathering? Gathering? If I could find three women on lit from my area I'd organize one. Lol But there might be 50 guys and I'm straight so I probably wouldn't go. Lol

 

[anloo89]

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[asian2015]

Joining in this thread to see if you're still looking!

you should read the OP and not just the title of the forum thread.

 

[IndianStallionForRide]

feedback

1. Have you ever met a lit-ster? NO
If you did, how did it go?
If you havent, would you? Yes
2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel? Yes would expect a reply. Well keep trying couple of time. If no reply move on. Too many fish in the ocean
3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online? I don’t.
4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so. Technical : The chat lags. Personal : Have been regular with some of them here to an extent it got complex.
5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region? Yes
Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it. China, vietnam
No? Well, if you could, where would you go? Why that destination? Cambodia
6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc. rjjohn illustrated. Though I am not into incest the story was awesome and so were the illustration
7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about. Check my profile
8. have you ever been to a lit gathering? No. Does it happen ?.
9. Earlier there was a option to find if any of your friends are online. How to enable that feature or how to go about searching your friends and their status ?

 

[asian2015]

9. Earlier there was a option to find if any of your friends are online. How to enable that feature or how to go about searching your friends and their status ?

This would be a question for the techs... try the "How To" section.

 

[chrissydaughter]

I would Loooove to go to singapore! I have a friend studying there and he can't stop praising it! I'm also a huge foodie And I love singaporian food! I also love the proximity to malaysia. I would love to go there too!

 

[soliloquyguy5]

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[asian2015]

2. Since this is my second time around on Lit after an extended hiatus, I learned a long time ago not to bring any expectations to this site. People come and people go (literally + figuratively), so better to enjoy whatever develops in the moment.

(But - that said - if you don't PM me back I'll be devastated, Ms. A! )

uh huh...

good advise, though somewhat disappointing, isnt it... to have connections be seemingly so fleeting to some/most.

 

[asian2015]

I would Loooove to go to singapore! I have a friend studying there and he can't stop praising it! I'm also a huge foodie And I love singaporian food! I also love the proximity to malaysia. I would love to go there too!

have you ever tasted singaporean food?

 

[soliloquyguy5]

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[T_strongbad1856]

While I still would like to chat (with the right person/people), this thread has mostly evolved into a form of sharing/discussion. (See below ** for list of topics).

Feel free to contribute here, *in this forum*. Please do not send me the answers in the chat room or through PM/Inbox - I wont be replying from there.

If you'd like to chat, please tell me about yourself as well as what interests you (see Q7). If we match, I'll definitely post you a reply. If PMs are necessary, I'll PM you.

If all you're looking for is to talk dirty, that's fine, it just wont be with me.
I have someone I do that with. So save your time+energy and find someone else.


** For convenience, here's a list of all the topics that we've talked about:

1. Have you ever met a lit-ster?
If you did, how did it go?
If you havent, would you?
2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so.
5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region?
Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.
No? Well, if you could, where would you go? Why that destination?
6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc.
7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?

Not forgetting: do you have any thoughts/questions to ask and share?


Let's go...pick one topic and talk about it at length, or answer all, if you like!

Feel free to join in!

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The original post:

i'm bored and would like to chat with someone who's interested in more than sexual chat. (Yes, I know this is literotica)

Allow me to clarify: no, we WONT be chatting or role-playing about your fantasies - at least, not on the first chat and not if I dont know you. Thank you for understanding!

I don’t mind if a woman doesn’t answer my PM either she is busy or I’m not her cup of tea.

 

[mjm501]

1. Have you ever met a lit-ster?
Yes I have - but I knew her ‘in real life’ too.

If you did, how did it go?
If you havent, would you?
I would love to meet others

2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
I don’t always expect a reply - although a reply is always appreciated

3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
I’m not sure how you mean... certainly I have never lied online

4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so.
It’s been fun chatting with people who have similar turn-ons, and I’ve had a couple of fun video-chats with a couple of litsters

5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region? Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.
Yes I have - I lived in China for 7 years and ran a business across Asia. I frequently travelled for work and pleasure - Malaysia, Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, Philippines. I love the Région - Malaysia in particular as I lived there for 6 months and adored the food, the people and the beauty of the country.

6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc.
Well.... I’m a bit of an exhibitionist, so if I share a picture and get nice comments or PMs, then that’s always great. I’ve had a couple of cam sessions with a few different people on lit, and that is always fun

7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
I’m 39, from the UK, and love travelling, cooking and, in the last 6 months, fitness - I’ve been on an intense HIIT regime, and capturing how my body is changing on lit. I got a little out of shape, but now I feel great.

8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?
No

Not forgetting: do you have any thoughts/questions to ask and share?
whats been your best experience on lit? What are you looking for in a Lit friendship?

 

[Ray Roberts]

Trying to impress a demanding young lady

1. Have you ever met a lit-ster? No

If you did, how did it go?
If you havent, would you? No (my interest is message exchange)

2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesnt send you a reply? How do you feel?
I live in hope, (in reality it is no big deal & I hate hassle)

3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online?
I have no need to lie
4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so.
I enjoy reading stories, also I have made a few pen-pal-friends

5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region? Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.
I have visited the following countries on Holidays Japan - China - Malaysia, Thailand, & Vietnam. I love the Région and my Wife who is Chinese /Malay from Penang- (as you can see I am looking for chat & not a Wife!)

6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc.
Not to get to worked up about others opinions. I particularly like "Wife Sharing" stories and any which start of with a certain "reluctance"

7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
I’m an old man now 78 who is married but still liking to make female friends who like humour in the mix with their passion for sex. (most of my Lit friends are male however, not so sure what that says about me but I did enjoy a continuing chat with a lady about five years ago. Mostly it was about our spouse!)

8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?
No

Not forgetting: do you have any thoughts/questions to ask and share?
I would like to know something of your personal circumstances and how you think you might like to progress a friendship. I have lots of experience with relationships and us old buggers like to think we know it all. Prehaps a Sugar Daddy, without the sugar! (I'm sure your sweet enough.)

 

[asian2015]

I don’t mind if a woman doesn’t answer my PM either she is busy or I’m not her cup of tea.

Hello! Thanks for reviving this forum thread

5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region? Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.
Yes I have - I lived in China for 7 years and ran a business across Asia. I frequently travelled for work and pleasure - Malaysia, Thailand, Vietnam, Indonesia, Philippines. I love the Région - Malaysia in particular as I lived there for 6 months and adored the food, the people and the beauty of the country.

Not forgetting: do you have any thoughts/questions to ask and share?
whats been your best experience on lit? What are you looking for in a Lit friendship?

Hello! have we chatted before?

5. What's happened to the business? When were you last in this region?

As with any friendship, it would be great to just chat and get to know the person, though thats not what most are on lit for, so its not an easy task.

7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
I’m an old man now 78 who is married but still liking to make female friends who like humour in the mix with their passion for sex. (most of my Lit friends are male however, not so sure what that says about me but I did enjoy a continuing chat with a lady about five years ago. Mostly it was about our spouse!)

Not forgetting: do you have any thoughts/questions to ask and share?
I would like to know something of your personal circumstances and how you think you might like to progress a friendship. I have lots of experience with relationships and us old buggers like to think we know it all. Prehaps a Sugar Daddy, without the sugar! (I'm sure your sweet enough.)

Hello! you and mjm501 seem to have visited similar countries so perhaps you both should chat! haha.
and you both also asked similar questions. If you've read my profile, I'm not looking for anything in particular...this forum thread was just that, a bloody forum thread.
I am certainly not looking for, nor will I ever be interested in, anything that is "sugar" or "daddy" related.

 

[Ray Roberts]

Searching for adult pen-friends

Hi there Asian
I'll change my description of you as a "Demanding young woman" to a "Prickly young woman" who is not so sweet as she seems. And your distaste for Sugar is as unbecoming as your dislike of a Daddy complex. Many contributors to these Discussion Boards have a variety of fetishes which can be held up for ridicule, but the kinder let-down would have been to ignore my posting or just say no thanks.

 

[asian2015]

Hi there Asian
I'll change my description of you as a "Demanding young woman" to a "Prickly young woman" who is not so sweet as she seems. And your distaste for Sugar is as unbecoming as your dislike of a Daddy complex. Many contributors to these Discussion Boards have a variety of fetishes which can be held up for ridicule, but the kinder let-down would have been to ignore my posting or just say no thanks.

lol...and yet you yourself make a ton of assumptions without knowing me at all. as per your wishes, you've been ignored.

 

[Singleboy2]

lol...and yet you yourself make a ton of assumptions without knowing me at all. as per your wishes, you've been ignored.

Some people really get-off on criticizing others. Similar to aggressively rude drivers.

 

[asian2015]

Some people really get-off on criticizing others. Similar to aggressively rude drivers.

well, he did say that he's a know-it-all. *shrugs*

 

[sniff469]

Women repling

I would hope she would have the courtesy to reply ,but if not their loss

 

[mjm501]

Hello! Thanks for reviving this forum thread

Hello! have we chatted before?

5. What's happened to the business? When were you last in this region?

As with any friendship, it would be great to just chat and get to know the person, though thats not what most are on lit for, so its not an easy task.

The business is still there, but I moved back to the UK to lead the European arm of the same business. I still get to visit the region every year for meetings - usually to Shanghai or Hong Kong, and I try to visit Kuala Lumpur if I can. I also visit Delhi and Mumbai fairly often.

We have chatted before - probably a few years back, so when I was still in Asia. I’m pleased we’re chatting again!

 

[asian2015]

I would hope she would have the courtesy to reply ,but if not their loss

Honestly, after years of being on lit, while I generally agree that it would be polite to reply, it also depends on the content of the message. Many hide behind the screen and send extremely rude messages or are persistently annoying, these types dont deserve any replies, unless that's your kink, you know?

 

[mjm501]

Honestly, after years of being on lit, while I generally agree that it would be polite to reply, it also depends on the content of the message. Many hide behind the screen and send extremely rude messages or are persistently annoying, these types dont deserve any replies, unless that's your kink, you know?

100% agree

 

[Booboobear84]

1. Have you ever met a lit-ster? Nope
If you did, how did it go?

If you havent, would you? Probably

2. Guys, if you send a PM to a woman, are you really expecting a reply or is it "no biggie" if she doesn't send you a reply? How do you feel? It depends. Open request for PMs I know she's swamped If it's more narrow and I feel I hit the sweet spot, then I'm annoyed (but it's lit, so I get over it). I eventually figured out don't send blind PMs

3. This probably happens with both sexes, but since I generally chat with guys, my question would be: why do guys lie when they chat online? It's one of my rules not to. Lies are so hard to keep track of.


4. How has your experience on lit been? if you have any particular experience you'd like to share, please do so.

It's been good. I still don't know too many people. I have met a few awesome women. The less I try to get in their pants the better (and to some degree the more I end up there)

5. Since I'm from South East Asia, have you been to this region? NO
Yes? Please share where you've been and what you liked/disliked about it.

No? Well, if you could, where would you go? Why that destination? Don't know, right now if I'm gong that far Australia is at the top of my list

6. whats your best experience from lit? this could be anything from a story (tell us which one); a litster; a voice; a picture; something new you learnt about yourself; .... etc etc. Women speaking openly about things. Things that I would never here in RL. I think my understanding of women (and how many different types there are) has benefited from Lit.

7. tell me about yourself and what you'd like to chat about.
I work in finance at a high tech startup outside of Boston, andI have an accounting practice on the side. As my signature indicates I obsess about dancing. While I haven't had an interest in gong to South East Asia, that doesn't mean that I wouldn't find it fascinating. I am always intersted n the way which life works other places

8. have you ever been to a lit gathering?
Never have known of one anywhere near me