Looking for prostate tips

[Marriedkuriousone]

Wife and I recently purchased a prostate massager. We have used it once so far, it gelt good but don’t think we hit that sweet spot. Any tips on what we can do to make the most of it?

 

[Sigmund7]

I find that practice makes perfect. Take your time and experiment to find out what feels best. If you or your wife are willing, try feeling around with a finger so you get an idea of where things are in there. Then the toy can be positioned to hit those sweet spots.

 

[whistler1]

Like the first commenter stated, I think you just need to play around for a while until you find the right spot, depth, angle, etc.

Sometimes I can get some nice pre-cum going. Other times I get nothing.

Another piece of advice I could offer is to try and angle the device toward the front of your body. It also doesn't need to be in that far - a few inches is usually good for me.

Have fun.

 

[liqueur]

You can find good diagrams online showing you the location of the prostate. But nothing is as good as biofeedback. Start with your finger (with well-trimmed nails). When you find it, you'll know, and your body's sensations will guide you, tell you what to do. Once that's working well, have her use her finger, with you guiding her. Then when you both know instinctively where to go, then try the toys.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I think one goal should be to make the area more sensitive, which to me meant no vibration for the first 8-10 sessions. Then use vibration sparingly so as not to desensitize it. Different strokes

 

[krissive69]

Wife and I recently purchased a prostate massager. We have used it once so far, it gelt good but don’t think we hit that sweet spot. Any tips on what we can do to make the most of it?

This is a case where you might need to invest several 1-2 hrs sessions of alone-time to "wake up" your prostate. Sometimes it takes a while. After mine was sensitized to aneros, it became my go-to method of masturbation...

 

[newhere2learn]

Position, try them all. Most reckon that on your back is best, legs up. However for me, it didn't work.

I find "reverse cowgirl" or "squatting" and riding things, hits it every time.


You'll know when you hit it, as you'll ooze and leak. Even squirt.

For me too, to cum from ass play I have to push/tighten my muscles. The opposite of cumming from cock play.

 

[Intoanythin]

Betting all the practice is fun!