Happily married Bi Curious black male looking for help to fulfill a fantasy of mine and my wife's. We have fantasize for a couple of years about my experiencing another man while my wife watches. She does not want to participate because her part of the fantasy is getting off by just watching me perform hungrily on another man. My part is finally experiencing the feel, the taste and the erotic pleasure of a male partner and performing this knowing that my wife gets excited watching me. She enjoys the sounds of excitement I make, the moaning, the slurping, the sucking sounds and the talking that goes on during the act. I talk sexually to the male and he in turn reacts with pleasure. She talks to me while I am performing and I in turn react by pleasuring my partner more intensely. Our fantasies make us both come with intense pleasure. This is what we seek but getting started or where to start is confusing to us. We have tried placing ads in other sites but the majority of those responding wanted my wife to be included in the experience. They were willing to help me but wanted my wife to join in. Our ad speficially stated that she was strictly a watcher. Some of them were playing "head" games with us and that totally turned us off. We even concluded that maybe we were the only couple who fantasized like this and that our fantasy was just meant to remain a fantasy. This is our last try. Even if you just want to reply to give us help on how to get started, that would be fine. Can you help?
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