Looking for an objective opinion

[jinx2004]

So I looked around to make sure this wasn't a repost, and I couldn't really find anything like this. I'm looking more for opinions than facts and figures. And I guess this is pretty much just aimed at the women out there. But my question is do you prefer more cum from your man or less?

It's a loaded question I know, but I'm just talking in general terms. Some guys have just a little dribble, some have a pretty good stream, and there's a pretty big spectrum in between. If you had to choose, which side would you prefer?

I talked with a girl about this once (it wasnt a sexual relationship) but she just seemed to avoid the topic with general responses. For some reason it seemed like she didn't want to talk about it, so I never really pressed it. But I have been curious ever since as to what most women think.

Do you prefer to avoid the mess with just a little bit, or do you expect a real "climax" after all of the activity of sex?

Oh and no, I'm not telling where I fit in, at least not yet. If you don't know then I think I'll get more objective resonses

 

[satindesire]

It doesn't really matter to me at all.

 

[sunandshadow]

Well, if I was watching him cum, more would probably be more dramatic, but internally the difference probably wouldn't be noticeable. If a guy had barely any cum I would wonder if his fertility was ok though. Or if he was dehydrated.

 

[SweetErika]

I want my husband to be well hydrated and have quality semen that stays inside me when we're having babymaking sex.

The rest of the time, from a practical standpoint, less is better. Less usually means less of a mess for both of us, and I'm generally not a fan of having cum in my throat, so I'd much rather have less when it comes to oral, too (as long as it's not less because he's dehydrated or something).

That said, I can't imagine being impressed by a lot of cum or disappointed by low production. I'm very thankful he's not one of those guys who's on a perpetual quest to shoot more and farther in an attempt to match what he sees in porn, or whatever. The amount he has doesn't seem to have a bearing on the quality of his orgasm or overall pleasure, and his enjoyment is what counts in this area.

 

[IrisAlthea]

It doesn´t matter to me as long as he is healthy and we are enjoying ourselves.

 

[simplegirl]

I've literally never given any thought to this. As long as he's having a great orgasm, that's what matters.

Don't forget that men and women differ in how we think. We're less concerned about the visual (loads of cum vs little), and more concerned about the quality of the sensations, IMO.

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

i dated a guy that i was only able to see on weekends. when we'd have sex - it would literally drip. i had to get up and practically run downstairs to the bathroom to wipe up. lol it was disgusting to be honest.
i'd prefer a guy middle to little. just because it isnt a lot doesnt mean he isnt having a great orgasm.

 

[KarennaC]

It really doesn't matter to me. I'm in a monogamous relationship, which means he gets to come inside me, so as others have said less cum means less mess. My boyfriend doesn't come every time, though, so it's totally hot for me when he does, regardless of what the output is.

 

[Hotbox961]

If he cums inside of me the amount really doesn't matter to me. He likes to see the creampie afterward. But I do like a heavy cumshot to my face or my throat. His jizz taste pretty good and we like to see the mess on my body. It's so much fun to shower it off together.

 

[Eilan]

As long as my man is able to get it up and get it off, I really don't care about the amount of cum. During my baby-making days, I was more concerned with my husband's sperm count than I was with the size of his load.

I think that, for the most part, the ability to shoot gallons of cum is something that is more of a concern for men than it is for women. Like cock size.

 

[Plainly_Jane]

As long as my man is able to get it up and get it off, I really don't care about the amount of cum. During my baby-making days, I was more concerned with my husband's sperm count than I was with the size of his load.

I think that, for the most part, the ability to shoot gallons of cum is something that is more of a concern for men than it is for women. Like cock size.

Agree.

The amount of cum doesn't matter to me really. What matters is that we're both enjoying the moment and each other.

 

[shykittyme]

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[Miles Long]

This is kind of off topic, but one thing I really love is to see the strand of saliva/precum connecting my cock and my lover's mouth when she's giving me head. That's such a great visual.

 

[jinx2004]

thanks for all of the input, definitely what i was going for. feel free to continue any discussion though, more opinions are always welcome.