Looking for advice..loosing virginity..gf and me..

[shaun007]

Hi, just looking for some advice.
Gf and I are ready to take the next step in our relationship but finding it hard to have sex...either to nervous or when ready I am unable to penertrate gf...pussy is too tight.. only one finger is able to go in..tried two fingers but doesn't fit..feels very tight..causes gf pain...cock doesnt fit at all..are we not aroused enough..? this causes the mood to drop..disappointment on both partys.. any advice.. should the gf see a gynecologist?

 

[NightL]

So when were you going to turn this into yet another "mother" fantasy thread? - just looking at your posting history.

Seems you focus a little too much in fantasy and not enough in reality.

 

[Dumdiedum]

I know that problem. Was the same with me and my girlfriend. We need three month of practicing until we called it sex. She was the as tight as your girlfriend. Fingering only with one finger. So we tried and tried and tried until one magical day, the penis was in. Sometimes it was so frustrating that I turned soft, sometimes she was frustrated and got turned off. She visited her gynecologist, but everything was fine.
It was/is a mix of physical and psychological factors. The excitement of going to have sex, the stress if its not working.... For us time was the answer. But after the first time, the sex was difficult for a long time. Until we tried lube.
Try lube. Even if you think she's wet enough. It made our sex life so much easier. Maybe it can help you.

 

[GforGraham]

You must have been ten years old when you joined this site.
In all those years have you read anything other than jerk off stories.
When you become an adult try looooosing your virginity again.


Now worms never worry about their virginity, what an exciting life they lead!