Lookin' for a third

[BlueSugar]

Dammit! Yet ANOTHER butt to drool over.

I have towels to wipe up your spit back at my place

::nods:: I promise!

 

[Guest]

*grin*

And I'm still trying to find a polite way to list "Relatively Sane" as a requirement....

Hard to do ..yah know?

 

[BlueSugar]

*grin*

And I'm still trying to find a polite way to list "Relatively Sane" as a requirement....

Hard to do ..yah know?

::quirks:: why?

 

[Desdemona]

Well, on a related note, having put quite clearly in my profile "If you want more than one sub in your life, I'm not the girl for you", why do they contact me wanting me to be a plaything in just the situation you describe? I don't even have an ad up. Sometimes, I just want to ask: can you read?
Good luck to those of you who want a plaything.

 

[catalina_francisco]

::sits back letting it all happen::

can't i just take one of you home?

:: nudge ::

I'll cook good food... promise! Your S/O, or PLY can come too .. mmhmm.. we need someone to hold the camera!

Damn, being a perve I'd be happy to hold the camera whether I knew your third or not!! I could even offer some suggestions if the mood was right....and then if I asked everyone to hold that position, would you trust me to just be doing it to get s good shot or might I just be wanting an extra moment to perve some more or a particularly pleasing moment?

Catalina

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hmmmmm...

Perhaps our lovely moderator, should facilitate the starting of a "Thirds Forum" ..Like the BDSM personals forum..

*shrug* couldn't hurt eh?

LOL, I actually see lots of women who say in ads they want to gain experience, experiment to find what they like and don't like in a safe environmment and without getting into a binding relationship, but I suspect what they say and what they want may be two different things as it is usually those ones who do not respond. It seems couples are a little more open to a casual experimental type relationship than single women. Can't blame the women as often those advertising for a thiurd make it seem they are only interested in fulfilling their needs and not seeing the third as a real person with real needs.

Catalina

 

[FungiUg]

Damn, being a perve I'd be happy to hold the camera whether I knew your third or not!!

Now all we have to worry about is all of that camera shake!

 

[FungiUg]

Can you read?

On a related note, I have had several ads up for wanting a female third. They clearly state female. And I still get contacted by males.

The phrase "hope springs eternal" leaps to mind.

 

[BlueSugar]

On a related note, I have had several ads up for wanting a female third. They clearly state female. And I still get contacted by males.

The phrase "hope springs eternal" leaps to mind.

On a related note, I used to work at a local mall on one of those carts in the middle of the walkways selling candles. There was a HUGE sign that I made saying Votives 1= .99, 12+1 = $11.99.

Day in day out I was asked "how much are the votives?" and even someone who asked me where the food court was (directly across from my stand, and they were serious taboot!!!)

Moral: No one ever reads the signs.

OOhh... I'd imagine that Catalina would make a wonderful pervy camera person... you can have a copy of the vids for payment even


I'd like a long term third or other dom/sub couple to play with, it strengthens bonds and developes trust ... and is just plain hot. We're in such a small town (i'm talking start playing music from deliverance)... that we're feelin mightly alone despite the internet. I don't know about M though, I think he would like something long term as in a month or two as an experience or a helping hand and then move on.

Is it wrong to want it all :: little grin :: ?

 

[FungiUg]

I'd like a long term third or other dom/sub couple to play with

So would we. Can't get up to much D/s play when we're both dominants and neither of us can switch.

 

[BlueSugar]

So would we. Can't get up to much D/s play when we're both dominants and neither of us can switch.

I dislike switching. I do top from the bottom though :: sad face :: ... but we're in the early stages and its more me expressing what I need or want at that moment and his fear of actually doing something wrong... I think, some of the lines are cloudy.
Thus the need for another couple, preffly more experienced.

Which brings me back to loving Lit and all it has given me

::hugs::

 

[FungiUg]

I wish my lover would find another guy she'd like to bonk. Seriously. Because I so want to do a double penetration!

Although there are other possibilities that may offer that fantasy fulfilment.

 

[Guest]

::quirks:: why?

Elucidate dear...

Why sane??

Or why hard to do??

 

[cellis]

Well ....She's got a nice bum....

Very biteable if you ask me!

 

[Guest]

Very biteable if you ask me!

InDEED...Probably look nice with a coat of almond oil too

 

[FungiUg]

Actually, I thought something to bring a bit of a blush to those pale cheeks would work well.

 

[dolf]

you can have me! i'm house trained {honest i am } and i promise to be good

cooooookies, yummy!

oh, got room for two kids and a poodle?
xx

 

[Guest]

you can have me! i'm house trained {honest i am } and i promise to be good

cooooookies, yummy!

oh, got room for two kids and a poodle?
xx

Ummm I don't think "good" is what anyone was after.

 

[BlueSugar]

you can have me! i'm house trained {honest i am } and i promise to be good

cooooookies, yummy!

oh, got room for two kids and a poodle?
xx

We would have to convert a room for the children, but the poodle is sweet if it gets along well with our two mutts. House trained is a plus!


::grins:: almond oil and biting.. hm? ...

 

[Guest]

We would have to convert a room for the children, but the poodle is sweet if it gets along well with our two mutts. House trained is a plus!


::grins:: almond oil and biting.. hm? ...

Well, while the almond oil tends to be a whole body thing, I generally reserve the biting for ....err..hmm..
Right..Nevermind.

 

[Guest]

So, anyone have any thoughts on writing the "looking for a third" add or profile...
Perhaps I've just been doing it all wrong..*shrug* wouldn't have been the first time..
But then ..Hmm buying that Kama Sutra at the mis-print sale was an understndable error ..yah know?

 

[catalina_francisco]

So, anyone have any thoughts on writing the "looking for a third" add or profile...
Perhaps I've just been doing it all wrong..*shrug* wouldn't have been the first time..
But then ..Hmm buying that Kama Sutra at the mis-print sale was an understndable error ..yah know?

LOL, don't think I can help....we have fairly good success rate but we ask for sub males and couples, not single females as yet.

Catalina

 

[Guest]

LOL, don't think I can help....we have fairly good success rate but we ask for sub males and couples, not single females as yet.

Catalina

Well....That doesn't help much

 

[silver_inari]

LOL, don't think I can help....we have fairly good success rate but we ask for sub males and couples, not single females as yet.

Catalina

See, I'm utterly surprised that it is a problem finding a female third. I know when I was single I would have jumped at the chance to have a threesome, and if they were both wanting to be dominant to me, then hell yes I would have. It boggles my mind that it would be difficult to find someone willing.

I know my husband is willing to have an additional play partner for experimenting with one of my fantasies of being dominated by a woman. The question then to me is I wonder if I am willing to let another woman unattached into the mix. I can see though where a single woman looking at that type of situation though might be concerned about becoming attached to one of the partners and hesitates to become involved on that basis.

 

[Guest]

See, I'm utterly surprised that it is a problem finding a female third. I know when I was single I would have jumped at the chance to have a threesome, and if they were both wanting to be dominant to me, then hell yes I would have. It boggles my mind that it would be difficult to find someone willing.

*sigh* Figures.....I GOTTA work on that whole timing thing, I tell yah..

Yeah, it seems that finding a Bi/ fem/ sub, is rather difficult. If you are looking for a third, rather than a second.
If you are interested in it being more than a "one shot", it seems to become more difficult still.
Of course living in BFE probably doesn't help.